#questioning nonbinary

[questioning-culture-is]

afab questioning nonbinary culture is feeling like you cannot be a girl because of how disconnected you feel from feminine things and expectations of what it means to be a woman but wearing make up one day and liking it and feeling like you cannot be nonbinary and you are just trying to get attention and be special

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#questioning #gender #questioning gender #questioning culture #tw imposter syndrome #questioning nonbinary #nonbinary

[raineofthedragons]

#lgballt #lgbt #lgbtqia #lgbtq #lgbtqa #nonbinary #trans #lgbtqplus #transgender #ace #asexual #acespec #lgbtq community #bisexual #gender questioning #gender queer #aromantic #queerplatonic #intersex #pansexual #queer pride #lgbt pride #lgbt comic #lgbtqiia+ #guess who had an original thought for once :)

[incognitopolls]

"Noun names" would include atypical names like "Sock" or "Brick" as well as more traditional names like "Rose" or "Hunter."

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We ask your questions so you don’t have to! Submit your questions to have them posted anonymously as polls.

#polls #incognito polls #anonymous #tumblr polls #tumblr users #questions #names #chosen names #noun names #trans #nonbinary #polls about people #submitted oct 28

[nonbinary-wyvern]

psa for those who chest bind or are planning to chest bind!! you are only supposed to wear your binder 6-8 hours with breaks!! please take care of yourself!! i know it feels amazing in the moment but chronic chest pain won't!! be careful!! i love you!!

#trans #transmasc #transmasculine #trans umbrella #nonbinary #gender nonconforming #chest binding #non binary #queer #genderqueer #genderfluid #enby #agender #questioning #lgbtq+ #lgbtqia #lgbtq #lgbtq community

[jaygubz]

Sameeeeeee

TW Eye Strain

#transgender #trans #enby #trans nonbinary #nonbinary #non binary #questioning #agender #transmasc #trans masc #trans masculine #transmasculine #demiboy #demi boy #demi girl #demigirl #demigender #questioning gender #gender questioning #trans 🏳️‍⚧️ #🏳️‍⚧️ #trans community #transgender community #nonbinary community #💙💖🤍💖💙 #gender spectrum #transfem #transfeminine #transfemme #eyestrain

[intergalacticgoose]

I wish there was a way someone could diagnose your gender.

Like I wish you could walk into an office and be like “ay doc, I’m AFAB but I have a phantom kibbles and bits, I cried watching ‘Stand By Me’ and relish the anonymity of the internet but when I pick up a romance novel I’m One Of The Girls, I think ‘I wanna be like that guy’ frequently, I want to smell like mesquite and oh, I’m also a raging lesbian. What’s going on” and the doctor goes “hmm, hmm, ah yes” and hands you like a flag or something

#gender #gender questioning #genderqueer #genderfluid #genderfluid lesbian #nonbinary #enby #lgbtq #lgbtqia #queer #trans masc #trans femme #androgynous #femininity #masculinity #agender #gender nonconforming #gay #hella gay

[yardsards]

think of a character that isn't canonically trans that you headcanon as being trans-masculine. (if you have multiple, just choose one arbitrarily or pick your favourite)

trans-feminine headcanon poll

#eliot posts #polls #trans #trans headcanons #was considering doing trans man trans woman and nonbinary polls but just went with transmasc and transfem #bc was easier to uniformly format the questions like that with just these two options #i know there are trans identities (and trans headcanons) that fall outside of the transmasc vs transfem binary #but i had to limit myself for easier data collection #sorry bout that #may make future polls in the future that are more in depth and encapsulate a greater range of genders

[m-for-now]

As someone who is genderfae (microlabel under genderfluid), I have a lot of different experiences with gender.

I just wish someone told me sooner that it won't go like "today I'm a girl" "today I'm an enby" but more like ,,, "today I am a swamp witch" "today I am a feminine victorian vampire boy" "today I am a forest goblin collecting people's stares about my gender expression like shiny rocks on the ground" "today I'm an androgynous pirate lady"

Like,,, sure, are those real genders? I don't fucking now. If a cisgender person asked me what I identify as that day, would I answer like that? No, definitely not.

But to my genderqueer, trans and genderfluid friends; do you get me? I can't be alone with this, right?

#genderfluid #genderfae #gender expression #genderqueer #transgender #nonbinary #queer #questioning my gender yet again #gender crisis #gender #my gender soup has so many flavours you don't understand #i needed to explain to my friend that when i say i want to dress like the cutest victorian inspired goth vampire prince #it's not actually a male gender #like.. you would really think it is #but that is a very nonbiney gender somehow #don't ask me how #or maybe it does count as male? #but the femininest androgynous male you can think of #like cute pretty let me giggle like a little girl kinda feminine #i don't even know if half of these things make sense #“why don't you just say girl or enby” #because moon witch dark cottagecore female isn't the same #as go out in the sun and enjoy the breeze i command a ship androgynous pirate lady female #anyways

[some---weirdo]

I love not telling anyone my pronouns, not in a transphobic way, but in a "your guess is as good as mine" way

#gender? #nonbinary #transgender #gender?? #genderqueer #genderfluid #enby #gender??? #gender questioning #agender #genderless #genderflux #trans #gender #pronouns

[mrmaxdragonx3]

I feel like we can all agree that labels can either bring people comfort or make people feel like they are being put into boxes. So on that note, I wish you all a good day, and I hope you find comfort with yourselves whether or not you identify with a label.

#positivity #lgbtq #aromantic #asexual #aroace #gay #bisexual #lesbian #pansexual #questioning #nonbinary #queer #queer identity #transgender #no labels #unlabeled #unlabled sexuality #unlabeled gender #lgbtqiia+ #lgbt pride #lgbt #lgbtlove #lgbt positivity

[deoidesign]

Gnawing gnashing etc. the usual.

Webbed comic

#digital art #my art #my ocs #time and time again #ttawebcomic #webtoon #webtoon originals #adam #steve #adam and steve #nonbinary #they fuckeong nonbinary #everyone focused on steve trans yeah wel adam nonbinary theyr t4t #was nust thinking about this #been writing and like #idk cant believe i was allowed to just do this #my editor had a lot of questions #asked about. idk. sensitivity readers kr whatever. #and i was like. no im doing it... #putte me feet down #both feet #one foot for steve one for adam #she asked me to consier pushing it back too #and i was like MAAM I'VE BEEN BUILDING THIS NARRATIVE THE WHOLE ARC #ITS THE CUMULATIVE PAYOFF #THEY COULDA KISSED WHATEVER BUT ADAM CAN ONLY BE PARTNER OVER BOYFRIEND NOW #anyways. #them #yaaaaaa #well they can be partner over boyfriend any time but. cowboy

[ineedhjalp]

Queer Joy? No. Time to talk about Queer Fear.

conservatives saying that the queer community is indoctrinating kids are so fucking blind. Back when I was a kid I was worried constantly. Like what if some gunman sees this pride sticker on my water bottle and kills me? What if a terf outs me against my will? What if my transphobic grandma takes me to church and sits me down for a long republican conversation? What if I have an anxiety attack and hurt myself? (I was 12. I was FUCKING TWELVE. This was my childhood.)

I’m done with this fucking shit. Queer people are not groomers, pedophiles, or murderers. I feel safer with a queer person on tumblr than I would with ANY REPUBLICAN.

queers aren’t killing kids, conservatives are.

pls reblog to spread awareness

#i need hjalp #Like serious hjalp #protect trans kids #protect queer kids #Kids not guns #seriously u guys. Start paying attention to the little kids #What if they die. #What if they FUCKING DIE because we can’t protect them. #lgbtqiia+ #queer #lesbian #bisexual #gay #trans #nonbinary #gender #questioning #Intersex #protect intersex kids you guys #Asexual #aromantic #aroace #agender #genderfluid #whoever invented gender deserves a kick in the ass #two spirit #androgynous #david tennant #putting that on here because he’s a real one #So is

[tumbler-polls]

#nonbinary #queer #lgbtqia #gender roles #genderqueer #tumblr polls #tumbler polls #submitted by anon #/is this question controversial?/

[incognitopolls]

For the purpose of this poll "nonbinary" is used as an umbrella term to include any gender identity other than binary man and woman. If you consider yourself to be outside the gender binary at all, this poll is for you!

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We ask your questions so you don’t have to! Submit your questions to have them posted anonymously as polls.

#polls #incognito polls #anonymous #tumblr polls #tumblr users #questions #nonbinary #enby #trans #transgender #names #chosen names #polls about people #polls about lgbtq stuff

[cuubism]

some canon-verse trans Hob for the lovely @five-and-dimes who recently got top surgery! 🥳🥰 congratulations, I'm truly so happy for you, my friend. please accept this humble offering

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“So, it actually started on a dare,” Hob says, on the day he tells Dream the story of him. Or of this part of him, anyway.

Normally, Hob gets a bit guarded the first time he tells someone he’s trans. It’s hard to predict with absolute certainty how people will react, especially ones he’s just become romantically involved with. He’s had it go poorly, to say the least, in the past.

He doesn’t feel that way with Dream. It’s not because there’s so much trust between them—they’re still new, after all. No, it’s something about Dream himself. For all his prickly and standoffish nature, being close to him feels like sinking into a warm lake, into a dark sleep where secrets and hidden wishes float up like glowing reeds to the surface. Deep, personal feelings feel safe with Dream; he cradles them in his hands and soothes them. Or that’s how it feels, when Hob is touching him.

Personification of dreams, indeed.

“A dare?” Dream echoes.

“Sort of," Hob says. "Got frustrated with people saying women should or shouldn’t do this or that or the other thing, so I decided if they felt so strongly about it I’d just be a man. Moved somewhere no one knew me, dressed differently, got stronger, practiced the sword—and that was that. No one seemed to care much, once you were at war. So long as you could swing a sword and not get yourself killed.”

“A choice, then,” Dream says. He’s listening very intently, hands folded on his knees, untouched tea on the coffee table before him.

“At first. Was only after I’d been living that way for a few decades—before and after we met—that I realized while there might be a handful of women out there living as men for the freedom of it, that they didn’t all like it. Given the choice they’d rather just be women in a more equal world. You know?”

Dream hums in understanding.

“But I didn’t want to go back,” Hob continues. “I felt like... who I'd become was the truth of me all along.”

“Identity, while not wholly immutable, is resilient against adversity and circumstance,” says Dream. “You found what your heart wanted you to be, if in a circuitous manner.”

“You seem very unbothered by it,” Hob observes, sipping his tea.

Dream frowns. “Why would I be bothered by it?”

“Dunno.” Apparently he can’t fully shake that this’ll put a wedge in us feeling. “People sometimes are. Feel deceived, or something like that. So they say.”

“If they are deceived, it is by their own assumptions,” Dream says, with disdain. “You should be as you dream yourself, Hob. No more nor less. Put aside these petty physical trappings.”

“I do actually have to live in these ‘physical trappings’ even if you don’t, you silly thing.” He can’t help laughing. “Besides, I rather like being some kind of living creature in the world, rather than what? A ghost? Best I can do is make this body as close to how it should be as possible.”

Hob’s come to like his body, for the most part, in the form that he’s made it. He didn’t always. But he needs a body of some kind to be alive, and he likes being alive. So what he couldn’t change, he made peace with.

Besides, they have hormone treatments nowadays. Brilliant stuff. Makes it so much better.

“Anyway, now you know. I wanted you to. Since we’re together.” It’s still a marvel. Together.

“Thank you,” says Dream, with evident sincerity. “It is a privilege to be gifted your secrets.”

“Not really a secret, but I get what you mean.” He takes Dream’s hand, just to touch him, and admits, “Telling it to you is like… I don’t know. Feels like when I was younger and first admitted out loud, ‘I’m a man. I want to stay like this.’”

It hasn’t been a proper secret in a very long time. But giving it to Dream is like the freedom of releasing a held breath, even so.

“I am the harbor and cradle of dreams,” Dream says in reply. He traces his fingers over Hob’s. Does Dream’s strange form just spring from the ether? Hob wonders. Or does he have to choose it? The way Hob chose his? “Dreams of being and becoming… these are most precious for they grow from tough soil. I can only protect them, I cannot create them. You must do that. And I expect that were I to find you in the Dreaming, there would be a fantastic garden there, indeed.”

Dream himself is the most fantastical thing. “Well, darling, just know your work is appreciated.”

Dream’s lips tip up in a tiny smile. When he meets Hob’s gaze again, his eyes have gone dark and starry. He folds Hob into a hug, and—

oh, it’s like being hugged by the universe itself.

Hob feels the light breeze of a warm dark night, when he’d lain by the dying fire in a war camp in the French countryside, and looked up at a million stars and first whispered to himself what if this is really who I am? Dream is that breeze and those stars. The dying embers that had lit him as he’d run his hands over his body and felt it differently than he ever had before, and been terrified because what would it mean?—but also thrilled and alive. Dream is the night wrapping around him in that moment, the night that was listening to his dreams no matter how quietly he admitted them, Dream is that and more and the voice in his heart telling him it would be okay.

A younger, more uncertain Hob would have needed this. Hob now is older, and he already knows who he is and what he wants, but he falls into Dream’s embrace all the same. A tear slips from his eye, and Dream kisses his cheek, wiping the tear away with his tongue before leaning their heads together.

“I could craft you any body you wanted in the Dreaming,” he says lowly. “However I think the one you have made with your own hands is more remarkable.”

Oh, God, he’s going to tear up again. “Dream, you are the most beautiful, wonderful thing.”

Dream hums in pleasure at the words, and lets Hob hold him close, lets him cradle his head to his chest, a dream kept close to his heart. One that he knew as soon as he saw it walk into the White Horse. Sooner even than he truly knew himself.

Then Dream looks up at him with a hopeful expression. “With these truths revealed, are we able to be intimate?”

Hob laughs so hard he has to tip his head back against the couch. “Wow. One track mind with you, isn’t it? I spill my heart and that’s what I get?”

Dream grumbles, tucking his face in against Hob’s neck to press his lips to Hob’s throat. “I find myself impatient of late.”

“Knew all along you were only with me for my body.” He’s grinning, though. Can’t stop.

“Well. Considering it is such a lovely one.” He plucks at Hob’s shirt buttons. Lecherous little nightmare.

It feels fucking good, though, to be desired.

“C’mere, then,” he says, and drags Dream into his lap.

Dream settles there with a purr, starts playing with Hob’s hair, but says, “I would not truly derail this moment, nor distract from your feelings if you do not wish it.”

“Oh, I wish it. You’ve no idea how much I want you right now. You’re like a prize.” He cradles Dream’s beloved face between his hands. “Stick around for long enough and you’ll get the most incredible Dream at the end of it.”

“Or at the beginning,” Dream says, and Hob’s heart swells so much to hear him voice that that he has to kiss him.

When he does, Dream makes a low, pleased sound, settling deeper in his lap. Yes, this moment, this life, is certainly the prize for all of those years hanging onto those dreams:

the dream of his lover

and the one of himself.

#1389 hob: while you were busy with the gender binary i studied the blade #trans hob #dreamling #my writing #i think after this hob gets to ask his burning questions about how gender works for the endless and dream is just like [meme of marge #simpson holding a potato but it says 'trans and nonbinary people (except desire)'] 'i just think they're neat. #unrelatedly i did have to choose my gender--' and hob's just like 😐......... #[dream a known king of self awareness] #this is like sending someone a casserole when they get home from the hospital except the casserole is gay fanfic XD #a different kind of sustenance... #hope it's okay!! 🥺

[scoutpologist]

this is my favorite "am i nonbinary" quiz of all time, if you're ever questioning then this is a good one to try

#op #nonbinary #agender #bigender #genderless #trigender #polygender #genderfluid #questioning #just a big fan of this website