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unwelcome-ozian · 2 months

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poetrybyonur · 1 year

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It’s what toxic people do. It’s called conditional love. Opportunistic love. Loving you only if they get their way, but belittle and mock you publicly when you don’t let them manipulate you. After you have seen that they are capable of self reflection, yet they choose to be this way, you know this is who they are. It is their personality. It is their choice. And I choose to remove them from my life.

#poets on tumblr #love quotes #love poetry #romantic poetry #love poem #onurtaskiran poetry #romantic writer #gentleman poet #poets and writers #love #not worth the dive #shallow pond #toxic behaviour #toxicity #sour grapes #narcissistic behavior #conditional love #idealise #devalue

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supremechancellorrex · 11 months

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What I find interesting about tumblr is how it can really make you more impulsive. I recently got into a heated debate that turned pretty hostile and my first instinct was to fire off a justifiably angry post about it, condemning that person, so I did. But, now, I realise... I was completely right and I agree with everything I said about their homophobic, Jedi apologist ass.

At the same time, I began to realise I don't want to expend effort chasing after toxic fans, giving them attention that could be spent elsewhere and having negativity infest my feed. I'm supposed be enjoying myself too here, so I'm gonna clean up my shop a little and focus on people worth knowing.

#tumblr is being a bitch #toxic fans #toxic behaviour #homophobia #criticism isn't a bad thing #still tho stop using real minorities as anti-criticsm meat shields for fictional characters/groups #it's exploitative #you know who u r #star wars

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shannara810 · 18 days

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I love Luke's character because hes allowed to be angry. And hes right in his anger. The problem is that he lives one toxic/abusive situation for another.

It's a Rabbit Hole.

Luke never had a positive force in his life. He was on survival mode pretty much always and this let his anger issues and traumas fester on his soul.

If you have no means to recognize what is affecting your behavior, you will repeat the same toxic patterns over and over again: a cage for another cage of your own doing.

It's like when the victim of an abuse becomes an abuser himself/herself to get some kind of control back. You repeat what you have experienced even if you don't know you're doing it.

#percy jackson #luke castellan #toxic behaviour #ask for help

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ak-rye-47 · 7 months

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You know whats worse then toxic people s? The toxic people who realize they are toxic and do alot to change it but can't JUST f*ckin can't OR SIMPLY WON'T CHANGE simply cause it's CONVENIENT am one of them. And no. No. I don't deserve sympathy. I don't deserve friggin " oh it'll be okay, u 'll do better" OR others like me

And definitely NOT deserve those people whom they/I have hurt. And Definitely do NOT have the RIGHT to ask them to come back in thier/my life. Its their choice if they want to but they/I definitely can't EXPECT or FORCE them to.

ESPECIALLY cause when they/I KNOW they/I hurt them REALIZE i hurt them WHILE i did it or AFTER i did the wrong. And STILL do unacceptable shit to others while i guilt over it!! Yelling,manipulating, and things i am very ashamed of doing and can't even admit on a friggin post. And OFFCOURSE not better then other abusers or whatever JUST cause i admit what i did and feel guilty. I did what i did and it hurt people and they are/were in pain and thats that! No amount of guilt change that

My point is that...there are two sides victim's/survivors and attacker/assaulter someone who hurt others or whatever. I have physically harmed people just not too severe or gravely that can't be healed from (physically or emotionally atleast i hope not) or a legal action is required for but Do have psychologically hurt them which WILL prevail for awhile cause of my words and actions.

My other _main_ point is that this is something that has a root cause. I definitely do and i have no idea what it is. Maybe i was myself a victim and don't realise it and look past it thinking it's notmal or just how i turned myself into. BUT that IS NOT an EXCUSE for what i did even if at times it was Unknowingly. That pain wasn't Meant to be passed on. What i think is people like me need F*CKIN THERAPY and need to be away from people!!!! AND I WANT THAT . I want a friggin CHANGE but i am unable to Bring it cause of lack of necessary resources . Also I'll admit another thing I don't wanna cause it's easy that way cause it's too much work it's too hard and still fret over it and fellin guilty or pity over yourself is much more portable for me and easier path to go also cause feelin guilty and pity oneself is addictive and makes one feel better of themselves after what they or i had done. So am not here for sympathy I'll say again cause i KNOW am undeserving what i can HOPE for is empathy and too can't be demanded forme and other people who actually realise and want to change their ways or not for that matter.

Again! I am aware what i did and NO i can't won't don't DARE ask for sympathy what i can ask for is Forgiveness and that too as i said is a choice and will not F*kin ASK for it EXPECT it FORCE IT . And i have done this shit in case u wondering to people i have been in friendships and relationships and part of my fam. And they have suffered cause of me. I won't defend it but maybe cause l have very low attachment rate. Am very selfish. Can't be bothered with what other people feel at times cause of me. Attention seeking( won't deny this post kind of for it ) and a bit of a narssicist( am weak at spelling this gboard don't help much 🥲). So yeah!!!

So here lies my confession/vent or f*ckin whatever. Thanks for your patience to read my stupid rant for so long. I just fu*kin felt i needed to. Or used this page as a journal to let shit out or some other shit.

Violence out!! 🙂🚬

#toxic relationship #toxic love #toxicity #toxic behaviour #victim #fuck abusers #fuck me for abusing people #fuck bad behaviour #abuser

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notgoingwell · 10 months

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magpie-allosaurus · 1 year

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One side of me: I should meet and talk to people

My other sides who know how that ends:

#self aware #toxic behaviour #me #i am the problem

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theocddiaries · 10 months

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VIDEO BELONGS TO: @patrickteahanlicswtherapy Follow him, he makes such interesting videos that can help you see things in a different perspective. This topic is so important. Most people will think just saying "sorry" is enough. Apologising and excusing are very different thing. Owning up to your mistakes is to admit you were wrong, apologise and learning form the experience.

Also, I wanna add: do not stick around people who claim to "forgive you" and keep reminding you of it to make you feel horrible and like you're in debt with them. You either forgive or you not. Using a mistake to keep people under your thumb is disgusting. If you think or feel like you can't go past whatever happened, then part ways, but don't wear people minds down. If you made a honest mistake or acted wrongly, apologise and move on while learning from that experience to become better. We're here to fall and get up. Don't beat yourself up endlessly for being human.

(I guess it goes without saying this only apply to mistakes than aren't 'abusive'. Abuse is not a mistake, is a repetitive, toxic behaviour towards someone).

#apologies #toxic behaviour #life advice #helpful #not my content #toxic relatives #toxic traits #healing #toxic family #toxic relationship

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jase-is-ace · 1 year

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Twitter depletes my mental health

#zip it jase #jase has the mic #tumblr #twitter #toxic mofos out here souring my mood #toxic behaviour #chronically online

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loveyourlovelysoul · 2 years

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More often than not, the easiest reason or answer to something is also the correct one. Still, we tend to make up in our mind and overthink the craziest, fakest, weirdest and randomest reasons behind anything that happens. And we don't even ask or try to find out if we're right or wrong. We prefer to stress ourselves instead of eithe rfinding out we were right or wrong asap.

Isn't this crazy? How we always prefer to hurt ourselves even when it's not necessary. Probably cause it seems easier and less scary? Either way, I don't think it's healthy, neither for us and nor for our relationships.

#words #healing #important #relationships #recovery #thoughts #toxic behaviour #mental health #stress #mind #spilled words #spilled thoughts #spilled ink #love #friendships

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unwelcome-ozian · 8 months

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#manipulation #toxic behaviour

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poetrybyonur · 1 year

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Not everyone has “their demons.” Only those who feed and entertain them do. Some of us use a weapon called emotional intelligence to slay any demon who tries to become parasites to our mind and soul. Stop becoming their hosts and letting them feed on you. Stop blaming others for irritating or awakening them, and stop making it the responsibility of others to lull them or “handle” them. It’s no one’s obligation to “love your demons.” You’re the one in control. They are parasites, not your pets. Slay them before they destroy you.

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ossie50 · 3 months

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Do you work with an energy vampire?

An “energy vampire” describes a person who, through their behaviour drains others emotionally and/or mentally, often leaving people feeling exhausted. These people typically thrive on negativity, constantly seeking attention or validation. They thrive on playing the victim in situations. They may be overly demanding, manipulative, or excessively dependent, creating a draining dynamic for…

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#define boundaries #energy vampires #feedback #toxic behaviour #victimhood

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tapan4evr · 9 months

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Toxic people see your boundaries as revenge on them, and think you are nothing but a problem. When in reality, it’s their toxic behavior that led to those boundaries in the first place.

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#boundaries #human behaviour #intention #mindset #people #problem #reality #tapan4evr #toxic behaviour #toxic people

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empoweryoucoaching · 1 year

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Accountability

Too often we don’t realise what we have until it’s gone. Too often we’re too stubborn to say “I’m sorry”, or “I was wrong”. Too often, it seems, we hurt the ones closest to our hearts and we let the most foolish things tear us apart. How hard is it to say, “I’m sorry”? How much will it change you to say, “I was wrong” if that simple phrase saves your relationship? How challenging is it to lay…