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#tw physical bullying
imsaanvikhanna · 1 year
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how many of you, if someone were to spit in your face, would break that person's fucking jaw?
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one-time-i-dreamt · 2 years
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I hit my bully at school, the principal saw me, and decided that the best punishment for this would be to force the entire class to play Metal Gear Solid 2: Sons of Liberty every Friday at 5:30.
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enbygirlblogging · 2 months
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do you ever experience a wild moment of sudden empathy for everyone in the world. like yeah i knew a guy who bullied people a lot, and who i really used to hate, but then i found out he got beaten by his stepdad and watched his sister die a horrible and graphic death first-hand, and suddenly the hate didn't come so easy. yeah i knew a girl who abused me for the better half of my life, but looking back, she also definitely had no one in the world who loved her, including her own family. my issues with her are a lot more personal, but i just don't have it in me to really loathe her the way i once did. i've never had a good relationship with my father, but he never had a parent worth looking up to. and i'm not saying any of that trauma excuses being a horrible human being, and i'm not saying you have to forgive everyone who ever wronged you, or even really that you should.
but i guess i'm saying maybe i forgive the people who wronged me.
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bluecoolr · 8 months
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justaz · 2 years
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something i always thought about when it came to amnesia is how different people would act. like the whole nature vs nurture thing, your experiences in life shape how you act, think, and behave. if you’re uplifted throughout your life, more often than not you’re going to be a pretty confident person. if you’re put down and belittled throughout your life, you’re not gonna have the best self image or self esteem. in a lot of writings, when a character has amnesia, they seem to behave the same as before they lose their memories, while they’ve lost their memories, and after they gain them back. it’s always been something in the back of my mind but nothing that like totally bothered me.
something i think is cool though is that even though it’s not explicit i think i can see evidence of this in percy jackson. i cant make a case for jason as we never knew him before he lost his memories, but we were literally inside percy’s head for five books (and some side stories).
again under the cut bc it’s a long one teehee
first things first though lemme just say: percy is not dumb! he’s actually really smart and is emotionally intelligent and observant. we’ve seen this throughout literally the entire series, not just a specific book or a singular series. i’m talking about every instance he appears in the riordanverse.
lemme also say that percy was abused. this isn’t a headcanon or whatever, it’s literally canon. there’s and instance of it happened in the third chapter of the lightning thief when percy goes home after ditching grover and interrupts gabe’s poker game and as he stomps into his room gabe brings up his report card and calls him “brain boy” which insinuates that gabe constantly belittles percy’s intelligence (as he also calls him that when percy and sally are leaving for montauk) and it’s safe to assume that he didn’t just stop there (“guy secret” (physical abuse) and “he’d find a way to blame me” (gabe went out of his way to cause conflict with percy)).
so percy grew up in a home where he was consistently put down and went to schools where he was bullied no matter what (“sarcastic teachers - every jerk who’d called me stupid in school or laughed at me when I’d gotten expelled.”). being put down in this way your entire life would not lead to high self esteem and confidence. so while percy was emotionally intelligent and observant enough to pick up on luke’s bitterness to the gods, annabeths crush on luke, grover being thalias protector, chiron telling that half truth about the oracle in the attic, medusa hating annabeth by tensing up for a split second, etc., etc., he did not have the self esteem to pick up on annabeth, rachel, calypso, and nico being into him unless they spelled it out for him.
even then, when calypso told him that she had feelings for him he couldn’t understand bc “i’m just me” and it took rachel asking him what it would take for him to kiss her and annabeth literally kissed him under mt st. helens and it took another year for them to get together (i think there’s another reason there but that’s for another day), and nico had to tell him straight up that he had a crush on him for percy to realize (which tbf,, nico was so angry towards him that i don’t blame percy for not picking up on it).
the point is, percy is extremely emotionally intelligent and observant as long as he’s not part of the equation. when you bring him into it and consider other peoples feelings towards him, his own insecurities get in the way of him picking up on extremely obvious signs (calypsos treatment of him, actually just the entire battle of the labyrinth book).
(i would also add that he down plays his powers/strength a lot because of these insecurities but that doesn’t pan out with what i’m talking about bc when his memories were stolen, he didn’t know the true extent of his powers so he didn’t change much in that department as he still underestimated his own strength as with the water canons during war games.)
anyways, after he arrives at new rome and is y’know an amnesiac, he seems a little off from how he was in pjo (which i think would’ve been really interesting to see if he went by perseus instead of percy but that’s a whole other thing) and i think it’s bc of the amnesia. since his memories were gone, he didn’t remember gabe or his school bullies or sarcastic teachers so his self image kinda boosted a bit and he owned his intelligence and looks and what he had with him bc it was all he had.
he noticed that reyna had recognized him and wanted to kill him (or was angry, i can’t remember exactly) when he first arrived at camp and he also noticed she was the leader quickly and knew that he shouldn’t question her in front of the other campers and remained silent. he picked up on octavian blackmailing hazel, hazel and franks romantic tension, the fact that nico recognized him, etc., etc. further more, he owned his intelligence and didn’t shy away from it. he noticed that while octavian was saying one thing, he was simultaneously saying something else, he picked up on the manipulation (? is that the right word? idk, silver tongued-ness of octavian). he knew that octavian would be a powerful political enemy and since a lot of decisions in new rome are made in a political way (? does that make sense?) that octavian would be a powerful enemy in general.
in his meeting with reyna afterwords, he had apparently counted the lines on her arm and picked up on the fact that they stood for the years that she was part of the legion and the ring and the spa, blah, blah, blah, basically just reread their whole meeting in son of neptune. reyna even says that he’s smarter than he appears (which, yeah, might be a dig at him, is also a compliment bc she did just call him smart so-). he also almost immediately picked up on the fact that reyna was insinuating that they could be…something and he could choose what that something was. without the memories of his past and the subsequent self esteem issues, he immediately picked up on the signals reyna was sending him. so now that he doesn’t have his memories, when he’s part of the equation he can still reach the right answer without his insecurities clouding his judgement.
then when he got his memories back and we moved onto moa, we kinda got pjo percy back. the scene that sticks out to me the most is percy and annabeths date in rome. annabeth tells percy that she knows him and percy wants to respond with “and you like me anyways?” but doesn’t, showing that with his memories coming back, so did his insecurities and shitty self esteem.
so while it’s not explicit and attention isn’t called to it, it’s nice to find proof (i guess) in pjo/hoo that the amnesia actually affected the character is a realistic way (i guess).
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traumatizedjaguar · 4 months
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trauma vent about sibling abuse and parental neglect:
my parents admitted to me that my older brother had abused me when we were only little kids/babies. my parents and brother literally admitted my brother was my abuser from as young as when I was a new born who couldn't walk or talk yet. yes, thats right, my older brother abused me when I was a new born. my brother actually said, "So what? I was only 2 years old!" they told me to get over it, but they said it nicely. :)
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kankuroplease · 1 year
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What were the uchiha gang in the school like? I have a feeling that Obito and shisui were one of the kids whose parents got called on almost daily because they like got into a fight as they should because they are uchihas.
Madara: he barely went unless Tajima dragged him there personally, until he met Hashirama in class. Then he started going regularly and causing problems for everyone.
Izuna: A bullying smartass with good grades because he couldn’t stand to look dumb. Was really really into chemistry.
Itachi: top of his class. Never caused a single problem and actually helped maintain order for the teachers.
Shisui: that one person that chats up every social group and not one student had anything bad to say about him. He just had a problem with bringing switchblades to school and backing up Obito in fights.
Obito: he ran a fight club for money, bring your bully and I’ll kick their ass for free. Average to below average grades and a complete class clown. Got in trouble for trying to copy Kakashi’s homework and tests.
Sasuke: always in fights because of anger issues and people thinking they can test him because he didn’t have a large number of Uchiha in school with him. Took every opportunity to snooze and still did better than Naruto in school.
Michi: second in her class. she was the quite girl that got bullied because people that she thought she was better than them. Spent her lunches in the infirmary reading and studying to avoid people that weren’t going to matter in a few short years.
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it’s not that obvious at first but there comes a point after so many people push you around in the halls, after so many people fucking step on you on purpose when you sit on the ground, after so many people yell at you to get out of the way when you’re not even in the way, that you realize everyone actually hates you.
Yeah. I’m “you” in this scenario.
And at this point I am more than aware that almost everyone at my school and almost everyone on my winter guard team would rather me be dead than be near them. I know I’m the worst. I’m autistic, I’m queer, I’m not conventionally attractive. All things they hate. And they make it very known that they hate people like me. They treat me like a disease to be eradicated or to not go near, they treat me like a pest that must be killed.
They hate me. And I hate them too, if I’m being honest. I hate everyone who has ever wronged me. That includes my entire family. Everyone at school every day who tries to harm me. My dad, who used to hit me and had made it so now I get scared whenever someone makes sudden movements around me. My mom, who tried to abandon me just because I was being “annoying” (I was having a meltdown). My sister, who hits me, throws things at me, and yells at me when my parents aren’t around. I hate all of them. Fuck whoever said hating people is wrong because I have a reason to hate these people. I can only just barely manage to pretend to like them.
Well, less about my feelings. It’s horrible at school. I’ll go into detail for this. I looked at someone and told him to shut up (they said a slur he was definitely not allowed to reclaim) and he laughed at me and asked why I was looking at him weird and made everyone laugh at me for trying to speak out. When I first came out as trans a group of girls would beat me against the fence when we were outside and shout political slogans and bible verses at me. One time a girl screamed the f slur into my ears so loud I couldn’t hear for a whole minute. Recently, they’ve started stepping on me, shoving me around everywhere, and challenging everything I say. They always either say I’m acting like a baby, that I am too sensitive, or that I should kill myself.
That last one hurts a lot, as someone who attempted suicide once.
When I do so much as walk they push me around, step on my feet, and try to trip me. One time a group of people shoved me against a table when I was walking in the cafeteria and then yelled at me for being in their way. I wasn’t.
A group of girls who I didn’t know confronted me in the bathroom and tried to tease me for being ugly. And probably for something else, too. Word travels fast around my school. There’s a whole drama TikTok account for my school and I am 100% sure that there is something about me on there. Because it’s not just people who know me who hate me. It’s everyone who sees me.
At some point I gave up fighting all this. I’m a freak or something. That’s what one of the girls who beat me against the fence said. Who knows if it’s true? The only thing I’ve gotten out of this is to trust no one and be as dramatic as possible. If I show my emotions so wildly they don’t approach me. I scream. I sob. I laugh like I’ve just heard the most funny joke in the world. I do that even if that’s not showing my actual emotions. It creates distance when it does work. Some people dislike me even more for it. Who cares? They already hate me.
Every friend I’ve ever had has left me because I’m just a magnet to hate and bullying and pain. I don’t care. Just don’t understand why they would become friends with me if they don’t like me.
I don’t care about anything about this anymore. Especially not everyone hating me.
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twoheadedfather · 9 months
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even as a child i wanted to make other people hurt the way i hurt because that was the only way i thought i could make my abusers stop or make other people understand my pain
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aro-culture-is · 2 years
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aro culture is thinking valentines day peaked in elementary school where you just got some cards with like, a pun and maybe if you wanna be fancy, some candy for everyone. that was neat but then boom, romance came into the mix and its sorta weird feelin now
still love the pink n red n heart shaped objects though, those r cool
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fletcherwilbury · 3 months
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@sochilll December Prompt List Day 20: Games
Warning for Arguing, physical violence, physical abuse, eye trauma, bullying, threats
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bitchapalooza · 5 months
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Isn’t it canon that Russia is abused by her bosses? Like she’s forced to do all this shit or she’ll be punished? Anyway, Russia went from being the victim to the abuser and ngl I’d love to read a whole character analysis for why this is possible but I don’t know psychology enough to write it
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arquaticdreamer · 1 month
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TW: vent art/traumaart/Divorce/PA/CSA/bullying/and sui///ideation/minor blood. Something I just needed to post. I put this in nonspeaking cause it's also much to do what It feels like to be nonspeaking and not be able to convey what you desperately need to when you're trapped in your own body.
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mariasabanahabanabana · 2 months
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A lo largo de mi vida he sufrido de todo tipo de agresiones, sexuales, físicas, mentales, pero ninguna se compara ni me preparó para el infierno en carne y hueso que está institución educativa privada me hizo pasar.
Desde hacerme cambiar mi manera de hablar, actuar o pensar, hasta el hecho de perjudicar de por vida mi salud mental...
Aqui una lista de acciones de lo que me hicieron pasae
- acoso sexual: 2 veces
- bullying: 8 años seguidos
- racismo: 8 años seguidos
- Xenofobia: 8 años seguidos
- acoso físico: 2 años
- acaso verbal: 8 años
- ciberbullying: 1 año
Quieren boicotear algo? Bien háganlo, PERO CON ESTÁ INSTITUCIÓN, no cuento con las pruebas suficientes para alzar una demanda, pero vivo con el único propósito de que esta institución caiga y salgan a la luz todos los secretos y cabezas de los actos más atroces que han cometido a lo largo de los añosb
TRADUCCIÓN
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Throughout my life I have suffered all kinds of aggressions, sexual, physical, mental, but none of them compare and none prepared me for the hell in flesh and blood that this private educational institution put me through.
From making me change the way I speak, act or think, to the fact of damaging my mental health for ever
Here is a list of actions they put me through
sexual harassment: 2 times
- bullying: 8 years in a row
- racism: 8 years in a row
- xenophobia: 8 years in a row
- physical harassment: 2 years
- verbal harassment: 8 years
- cyberbullying: 1 year
Want to boycott something? Fine, do it, but WITH THIS INSTITUTION, I don't have enough evidence to file a lawsuit, but I live for the sole purpose of bringing this institution down and bringing to light all the secrets and heads of the most heinous acts they have committed over the years.
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notthebeststufftbh · 7 months
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I'm sure everyone says it but here's your reminded that "treat others the way you'd like to be treated" is a method of PREVENTION. Not defense
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I’m still angry about this doctor I had a year ago who told me I couldn’t have PTSD because I wasn’t raped or in a car accident, when I told him that my brother had physically abused me and my schoolmates were bullying me into having near daily panic attacks and I couldn’t tell him about the other abuse I was going through because my abuser was in the room with us. It just makes me want to kick something sometimes.
I hope you know that this doctor was wrong and that any kind of trauma can result in PTSD, all kinds of abuse definitely included. So I'm very sorry that this "professional" invalidated your pain like that - and I hope you know that he had zero right to do so.
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