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#Demisexual Panromantic
doodle-stroodle · 2 years
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Mikan! <3
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Year 1 Annocement: Not All Asexual (And the people in the ACE Umbrella spectrum) HATE Sex
YES Not All Asexuals hate sex. 
Asexualtiy is a lack of sexual attraction to others. Does not mean they cannot have sex
YES some ace people have no sexual attraction to anyone 
YES Most ace people have little to non 
YES THEY can have sex 
Sex is a physical act and no sex does not make your sexuality. 
You could be a lesbian your whole life but only ever slept with me. Does not make you any less of a lesbian. 
Same with Asexuals. Asexuals can choose to have sex with their partners or casualy. Asexuals CAN be aroused and have libidos. 
Some of the kinkest people I know are Ace and Demi (Myself included) 
Your libido and actions do not define who you are sexuality attracted to 
If a gay man can marry a woman and have three kids but come out gay in his 60s. 
YES he was gay the whole time he did not turn gay and no he was not bi or straight while with his wife 
He was still a gay man just having sex with a woman. 
Asexuals can have sex sometimes there partners want it, sometimes they do it because they like the act. 
Take me for example. I am a PANROMANTIC HYPERSEXUAL SEX POSITIVE DEMISEXUAL. I have only ever really been sexually attracted to 3 people in my whole life. But I have had MANY sexual partners. Cause I love the physical act of sex I enjoy giving someone else pleasure and no do not get off it sexually but it DOES have a simular feeling. 
So yes Asexuals can enjoy sex, they can have orgasms, they can do the devils tango. 
Yes some asexuals are sex repulsed and so are others in the ace spectrum they are valid. But we need to stop the stigma that if your in the ace umberella that we cannot enjoy this stuff and are lying about being ace or demi (or anything else) because what our hormones want. 
They are all valid and should not be shamed for what they feel
Side note how many times did a straight person have sex with someone they were not sexually attracted because they were horny? 
Yeah it was just a physical act for them too. 
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short-and-ugly · 1 year
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this bitch is demi you cannot convince me otherwise
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eunacis · 2 years
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It me.
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softredribbon-kins · 2 years
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Demisexual Panromantic Kokichi Ouma icons for @vizz-1 !
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herwold · 2 years
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Trans, demisexual, panromantic moodboard
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queer-is-future · 7 months
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so when straight people ask me why I say I’m “queer” or “gay” instead of sharing my actual identity as a panromantic demisexual non-binary sapphic queer I just tell them “ok look, when you’re talking to someone who isn’t local and they ask you where you’re from and you either say the name of the largest city nearby or ‘town name, suburb of large nearby city’ so they can get some geographical context of where you’re located right, bc they’re probably not going to know the name of the little town you actually live in.”
but if you’re talking to a local you can say the name of your actual town bc they have a greater chance of knowing where/what that is.
ok well when I’m talking to a straight person I start with queer bc chances are they aren’t as familiar with the context of all the little towns in that big queer city and need gps (gay positioning system) to find me.
if I’m talking to another queer person and I say I live in a suburb of gay city in a town called panromantic on the demisexual side of the tracks which is in the county of queer and I live off the intersection of non-binary and sapphic, they’d probably be able to find me with little to no problems, make sense?
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captainjackscoat · 26 days
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I want to go to a gay bar
However I do not want to go to a gay bar because I do not, nor will I ever, drink alcohol. I do not particularly want to be around drunks.
So instead of a gay bar, I propose a Queer Cat Cafe.
Non allergenic cats ofc
There's a section of the cafe where the cats can't go if you don't want cats near you. That section is the library.
There are lil pride flags everywhere, even the obscure ones.
They sell pride pins for £1.50ish each at the counter.
There are LED lights.
It's autism friendly, lights can be toned down if needed and everything is neatly spaced out
You can have a sticker to write your pronouns on
Mostly queer artists/songs played
feel free to add on
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irenekohstudio · 2 years
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Happy Asexuality Awareness Week!
Designs available at irenekohstudio
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beawritingbooks · 10 months
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Here is how I explained asexuality to my mother:
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My Mom: What exactly is asexual?
Me: It means that I experience little to no sexual attraction.
My Mom: I just don’t understand that. You thought [name redacted] was cute.
Me: I still think [name redacted] is cute. I just don’t experience any sexual attraction towards them.
My Mom: That doesn’t make any sense to me.
Me: Well, I can recognize when someone is ugly, cute, uniquely hot, and when they are considered sexy, but I still don’t experience sexual attraction to any of them.
My Mom: I’m not saying that you don’t feel this way, or that I don’t believe you, but how could that be possible?
Me: Okay, so, let’s say that I have 4 pairs of shoes in front of me. The first pair are crocs, the second pair are ballet flats, the third pair are those chunky spice girls platform sandals, and the fourth pair are red stilettos.
My Mom: Okay…
Me: Now, I would classify the crocs as an ugly shoe. Do you agree?
My Mom: Yes.
Me: I would classify the ballet flats as cute.
My Mom: So would I.
Me: I would classify the platform sandals as ugly-hot. I know you hate them, but they call to me, and I still love them to this day. Does that make sense?
My Mom: *laughing* Yes.
Me: Lastly, I would classify the red stilettos as hot and/or sexy. Like, that’s a sexy shoe.
My Mom: Absolutely!
Me: Okay, now, even though I can recognize that these shoes have varying degrees of attractiveness, I do NOT want to fuck the shoes…and that is also how I feel about people.
My Mom: Ooohhhh, that makes way more sense to me. I get it now. Well, I don’t “get it,” because I’m straight, but I understand what you mean.
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Basically, this is how I felt trying to explain things:
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nerdygaymormon · 11 months
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mugbearerscorner · 11 months
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echosbento · 4 months
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My boyfriend and I were talking about how each of the batfam make a good allegory for different queer orientations so y'all getting the list <3
Bruce: closeted homosexuality, despite the skin tight leather I actually did wind out settling on the idea that Batman is the het masking and Bruce is the true queer self
Dick: out/open homosexuality
Cass: aromantic allosexuality or transgender
Jason: demisexuality
Tim: bisexuality
Steph: pansexuality
Damian: aromantic asexuality
Duke: heteroromantic asexuality
Note this does NOT equate to my actual headcanons for their orientations, that's in the tags, it's about the way I associate their stories with the way people see and/or experience different queer/lgbt+ orientations. Reblog with your own thoughts on how you think their stories could be allegories for diff queer identities if you want! If you're cooler than me you could put some reasonings, instead of just the horrifying realization that they might've been right when they said Batman was the hetero to Bruce's homo
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thefrogginbullfish · 2 years
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Happy Pansexual and Panromantic Awareness and Visibility Day! 💗💛💙
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grimalkinmessor · 1 year
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Hi welcome to my very tired rant
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aceoffangirls · 1 year
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Y’all being bi/omni/pan while also being aroace is extremely weird and confusing because like I do not feel romantic or sexual attraction but if and when I ever do it would be to more than one gender
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