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gloomiedyke · 10 months
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Two absolute MUST WATCH older movies for genderqueer folks (and really ALL queer folks):
1. To Wong Foo, Thanks For Everything, Julie Newmar! (1995)
- Happy ending
This one is an all time favourite of mine. It's funny, sweet, light-hearted, sincere, and has a happy ending.
It was so unbelievably ahead of its time, too. Do you understand what a big deal it was for Patrick Swayze and Wesley Snipes to play these roles? The IDEALS of masculinity, the idols of all the boys in their time, and they starred as Lady Noxeema and Miss Vida?
And they took it SERIOUSLY. Snipe's portrayal of Noxeema's simple, genuine joy in her performance. Swayze's gentle portrayal of Vida's sincere relief in being her true self (god, but the look on her face when she saw herself in the mirror as Vida...). This is a comedy movie, but the queerness itself is not the butt of the joke. These characters are handled so tenderly by all three lead actors.
It's an absolutely lovely story about community, and friendship, and celebration of self.
2. Soldier's Girl (2003)
- Sad ending, but with a hopeful edge
- this one's a true story, and the trans woman it's about is still alive and working as an activist today!
An absolutely, unbelievably sweet, heartbreaking, and VITAL story. As someone who hates sad queer movies: this story DESERVES to be seen, and even though I bawled at the end, I never regretted it for a moment.
It's stunning, and so carefully, honestly told. I don't have the words this movie deserves, but please watch it. Barry Winchell deserves to have the truth of his story told.
And so much of the movie is filled with joy and love, I promise. The grief is there at the end, but there's so much good before it.
As a bonus: Lee Pace, the actor who played our transfemme main character, became friends with the real Calpernia Addams due to this movie! They brought her on to make sure everything was right, and she worked with him to help him nail the role. Their interactions were very cute.
(also Lee Pace makes a STUNNING Calpernia. I was deeply in love with her throughout the movie. Not to be a lesbian but oh my god)
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Anyway, these movies changed my brain chemistry. And I think our younger queers especially need to see some of our first examples of genuinely good queer stories. And ones that aren't Rocky Horror, as much as I adore that one.
(mostly I just need other people to talk about these movies with. Please. Anyone.)
Bonus - some pics of Lee and Calpernia, because I think they're friendship is cute:
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cigaratbp · 6 months
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What's meant for you will never go away, you don't have to force things to stay. That's why you can never claim that 'something' is actually meant for you, because you will never know if they will really stay; you will just see their intentions over time. Unless you know how to distinguish intentions that exist for temporary reasons from those with pure purpose. And not all people with pure purpose display comfort and happiness. You see, people who are destined in your life cannot be defined just because they made you the happiest person for a period in your life. But don't forget that, in this life, you never have to chase what wants to stay with you. Everything will come and go. So be authentic, work on yourself so much that the ones who are truly meant for you will match your authentic energy. Without putting much effort, they will connect with you easily, purely.
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soracities · 3 months
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"Absolutely no one comes to save us but us."
Ismatu Gwendolyn, "you've been traumatized into hating reading (and it makes you easier to oppress)", from Threadings, on Substack [ID'd]
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thisonesatellite · 6 months
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...so this morning i'm at the public pool, done with my laps, putting on makeup for work and there's a woman and a man -- both easily in their 70s -- who obviously don't know each other coming down the stairs, and she has a little trouble with her balance so he goes, "Can I help?" and holds out his hand and she takes it, navigates the steps while holding on to him and talking about the importance of exercise and he deadass breaks out the "Come here often?" to which she says, "Yes, but some mornings it would be nicer to stay in bed" while batting her lashes at him, and it was such God Tier Flirting that it reaffirmed my entire faith in humanity.
YOU ARE NEVER TOO OLD FOR A MEET CUTE.
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latinotiktok · 8 months
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queriesntheories · 9 months
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REBLOGS ARE OFF CAUSE THIS GUIDE IS TERRIBLE AND YOU DESERVE BETTER
I will instead redirect you to THIS more comprehensive guide, and cobalt.tools. Cobalt solves the problem of low quality video when you're done with VLC, and it can also take videos from a dozen other social media platforms.
Support the cobalt dev and the better guide writer, not me. I'm just a person who boiled down a wikihow guide and a youtube tutorial into a TLDR. I did not do very much work. They have.
I might turn reblogs back on, but for now I implore you to put your attention where it's needed most. Thanks for understanding. (original post under the cut)
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alright i am sick of yt to mp4 sites being shady and full of viruses and finding websites that seem to be working and then don't work
so HERE'S HOW YOU DOWNLOAD YOUTUBE VIDEOS WITH VLC!! VLC FREAKIN RULES!!
get your youtube link
open vlc, go to media > open network stream
paste your url in the box and PRESS PLAY!
wait for the video to open then go to tools > codec information
copy the entire file location (click the box, then ctrl-a to select all, then ctrl-c to copy)
paste into your browser of choice (i use firefox)
right click video and press "save video as", choose your file format if you want
DONE! NO VIRUSES OR SKETCHY STUFF!
the quality might be a little crummy but if you don't mind that, then shabam! video on your computer! then you can email it to yourself and have it on your phone too if you want! if you need a guide with pictures wikihow has you covered my friends
happy downloading and stay safe on the internet :D
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nonebinary-leftbeef · 11 months
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DEVASTATING the lyric you've been mishearing is better than the real one
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madseance · 10 months
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"it's not queer fiction unless the queerness is explicitly declared in the text according to currently accepted terminology and in a way that meets the approval of the entire audience" I mean follow your heart I guess but I trust myself as a queer person to recognise queer themes
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jisuto · 1 year
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gloomiedyke · 1 year
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cigaratbp · 6 months
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God showed you the destination, a vision, but didn’t give you the plan on how to get there, because if you knew the plan would take you down a hellish road, make you cry every night, fill you with doubt and questions about why things happen the way they do, and if you knew all of these were part of the plan, then you wouldn’t even dare to reach the destination.
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kyouka-supremacy · 4 months
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*Takes you by the shoulders* I ADORE character profiles and character trivia and likes and dislikes sections. I love knowing this ruthless, heartless, cruel man of a character has a childish dislike for mandarin oranges. I believe in the inherent beauty of all characters, no matter the background or moral stance, being made fundamentally human by assigning them insignificant culinary preferences. I stand by the supremacy of humanizing villains by giving them relatable tastes and trivial interests and ordinary hobbies. I treasure the hidden reminders that everyone is inherently human even when everything else we know about a character might suggest the contrary.
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soracities · 4 months
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Jeremy Radin, from "Lazar Wolf the Butcher" (poem written during staging of Fiddler on the Roof at Paper Mill Playhouse, shared on his IG page) [ID'd]
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warningsine · 1 year
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suiheisen · 4 months
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women………….. | DOROHEDORO
(by the way. this is noi.)
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shadow-tism · 4 months
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Please do your daily click!
This is a great way for people without any funds or no ways to contact their representatives can help out!! 🍉🍉🍉 (link below)
Free Palestine
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