#friend problems

[mxxn-shine]

[am i a shitty person?]

you had a fight with your friend, one of your closest friends, and the fight somehow led to the both of you breaking it off with each other. the quote "you were a shitty person tbh lets never meet again bye" kept on nagging you. it honestly felt wrong, going to him to talk about your problems, out of all the people you could go to. (the both of you weren't exactly the closest, actually.) normally, you were worried that talking about your problems would burden him, and it led you to keep your problems to yourself around him. but maybe today will be the first. (there's always a first for everything, you try to convince yourself.

[...]

three dots popped up, and honestly, you were surprised that he was answering at 'the god damned ungodly hours of a day' as he liked to call it. you had expected a reply.. maybe around the time he woke up, or during the day.

[no]

'no'. that was it. it was likely of him, no inspiring message nor reassuring words. not that you expected him to send those kinds of answers. (but the sinking of your heart could say otherwise) knowing that he'd be upset, or maybe ignore you for a day or two if you didn't answer or leave him on read, you texted him back.

[thx ig i kinda needed that today]

you paused, considering if you should send a different answer. you sighed, tapping the delete button quickly, opting for a different, more 'you-like' answer; dry, simple, and never long.

[k. thx.]

after you checked the time, and you got to know it was 3:25 AM. (you felt guilty after you knew. since he'd say something to you tomorrow, maybe complaining that you ruined his 'healthy 8 hours of sleep' or something else) you yawned, choosing to go to sleep and not checking your phone if he answered or not.

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on the other hand, the unresponded state of his text was... driving him crazy (which your are sure that he'd never admit himself) his thoughts were jumping around crazily in his mind, like he just downed a cup of coffee at 8 PM. he sighed, rubbing his face in frustration. 'it sounded better in my head than text.' he thought, keeping it in mind as an excuse for his 'out of character' text.

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[y u ask tho?] [u def know u arent a shitty person] [if u dont u should, bc u know i dont keep shitty ppl around to be my friends]

#k so this just popped up into my head #im hoping u guys know who i wrote abt #but u guys will know from the tags haha #bakugou x reader #bakugou katsuki #bakugou drabble #text fic #bakugou x gn!reader #friend problems

[baggebo-the-silly-goober]

tw: suicide mention

guys err uhh me and my friend jokingly be mean to eachother but idk how to break it to her that i dont rlly want it happing anymore (pushover alert) so can you help. she also said "go ahead" when i said i wanna kms when i enter my school but other than that shes just concerned abt my health ig. idk i just dont feel so good and everything is just miserable unless with one of my (platonic) bbgs. also i feel a weird negetivity whenever im around that friend? its not with anyone else its just that with her. or maybe school. or both. also i feel like i wanna die? maybe just its girl things.

#tw vent #vent post #vent #rant post #personal #personal rant #sorry guys #im a pushover lmfao #while i was reading this me and my husband started playing. it did this while i was venting another time too. #tw sui vent #tw sui talk #suic1de #help #friendship #friends #friend problems #idk #please be nice #urigneruthnoeirtungiohtr #pushover #im silly #idk what else to tag #idk what im doing #idk man

[artemisia-stars]

girl rant ♡ (send help)

i love my friends, and i am so so so grateful for them.

and rationally i know i would rather have a few quality friends than a ton of friends who don't care about me.

but at my school, there are only about 50 people in out grade. most of those people are in one of two big friend groups, with about 5 outliers, me and my one friend among them- and these girls are close, and they're all wonderful people, i am friends with many of them through clubs and classes, but i'm not close to any of them. i try not to be a jealous person but its so so so hard always being the odd one out. its so hard when my insta is filled with girls posting pics from the holiday parties these two friend groups are having, its so hard seeing all these girls i thought i was close with having so much fun, with so many other people, without me.

I know i sound bitter- i have friends, and i hang out with them often. but i only have one friend in my (private) school, and she lives so far its hard to hang out, two friends who I met over the summer, who live over an hour away, and one friend who literally lives in a different country. my best friend, luckily, lives on the same street as me, and i see her all the time. I love her, and all of my friends, and i dont know who i would be without them ♡

but the self hatred and self destructive thoughts that flood my mind when i walk into school, my one friend isnt there, and i am reminded just how isolated, lonley and pathetic i must seem? it is unbearable.

i may have friends, but i am never their first choice.

sorry i just had to vent ♡ if you read all that ty lol, and if anyone struggles with similar feelings, or has advice, plz comment or dm me i would rlly appreciate it -`♡´-

｡ﾟﾟ･｡･ﾟﾟ｡ ﾟ。 happy holidays ♡ ♡ ♡ 　ﾟ･｡･ﾟ

#female hysteria #femcel #female insanity #female rage #feminine rage #friends #hell is a teenage girl #help #send help #friendship #best friends #friend problems #coquette #cinnamon girl #lana del rey #pinterest girl

[loife1m]

I find it really annoying that these two people are like hyper fixated on each other (as friends) and act like it’s only them and when one of them texts on the group about somewhere they wanna go and I respond or someone else responds, it’s like they say: oh sorry I wanna go with [friend]. We don’t even hang out as a group now

#aka Loife rants lmao #aka loife rants #life update #friend problems

[chaar-din-ki-chandnii]

I need to stop telling myself that every time I'm upset, I'm the problem? I don't get it? how people make GOOD good friends? am i the only one almost constantly getting hurt by things they say or do or the way they behave sometimes?

am i just too sensitive? (definitely. but how sensitive? to constantly be getting hurt?)

and at the same time, I can't let them go? because as selfish as it may be, functioning alone in a society for a person like me is nearly impossible if not COMPLETELY impossible.

#feeling insecure #desiblr #desi #friend problems #toxic #uncomfortable #friendship

[not-a-kaleshi-saanp]

Ek baar ek mitra ne Dil Aisa toda ki aur kisi vyakti ko kabhi jodne ke mauqa hi na mila.

Phir ek ladki aayi, mere toote Dil ko ek Sangeet ke raag sa dhaal kar, mujhme praan se daal diye....

Meri pyaari saheli...meri Shreya! 💖✨

#desiblr #desi tag #desi tumblr #su bolu! #desi girl #desi shit posting #just desi things #desi young adult...? #poetry #desi life #boy problems #friend problems #soulmates

[addicted2coke-theothercoke]

You're at the top of the emotional world, you love and trust your friends completely, and then they say something that shakes you up to the point you can't even talk about it

They wouldn't do that to you?

Of course not, they care about you, that's so crazy to ever think such a thing

But they'd do it someone, and they don't see it as wrong, cause if they saw it as wrong they wouldn't have told you

God I'm going to be sick

#12 am thoughts #i hate my brain #i hate this #bad thoughts #friend problems #i don't know how to tag this

[robin-hood-013]

People who are upset that you’re healing are the absolute worse. Especially if they’re traumatized as well. They get upset that you outgrew them. That you’re trying to move on when they just want to be in the same place and miserable. It’s worse when you realize they didn’t want to be happy with you, they wanted to feel awful with you. I don’t think I’ve truly understood the saying “misery loves company until now”

#robin speaks #friend problems #friend breakup #mental health #trauma #I’m fighting the urge to try and fix everything

[freshpickle]

#help a gal out #friend problems #i #poll

[kogetaikid]

Um, guys, remember THIS?!

I’m no long gonna post it as a conflict with a friend has arose last night. I’m in a very uncomfortable position with my friend, Ropoid, and don’t think I feel comfortable posting a recap that he’s involved in.

THANKS FOR LISTENING SORRY FOR THE INCONVENIENCE

#txt #sorry guys #sorry for the inconvenience! #friend problems

[sincerely-angel1]

Poetry #3 💕

“She says” Tw: ED

4/1/24

She says she's just stressed,
But her hair is brittle and thin,
And her skin is pale and sallow,

She says she’s just picky, But I see her shrink away. From anything with calories, Like a vampire from the sun,

She says she’s not hungry, But her ribs stick out like a birdcage, And her eyes have sunken so deep, I fear they’ll disappear.

I tell her she's beautiful,
But she just laughs and says,
'You're just being nice.'

She fades before my eyes, A shadow of her former self, Her laughter hollow, Her spirit dimmed.

And I’m lost too, Lost in worry Worry I don’t have a right to address And fear, of scaring her away.

-🌊

#poetic #im tired #writers and poets #poetry prompts #poet #poetblr #poets on tumblr #original poem #poem #poems on tumblr #poetry #poems and poetry #my poem #poetsandwriters #i wrote this #my writing #on writing #story writing #fiction writing #novel writing #writersblock #creative writing #writing #tumblr writers #disordered eating thoughts #tw disordered eating #eating disoder trigger warning #tw eating issues #friend problems

[yikes-ajax]

Y'know, the thing I hate about socializing is that there is no in-between. It's either "you're not trying hard enough, take opportunities", or "you're trying too hard, dont come off so strong". Like how the fuck am I supposed to tell someone I really want to be their friend but don't know how because I haven't had a friend since I was 9 and the most socializing I get day to day is from my parents? Like okay I'll just start leaving the bodies of my kills during a night of hunt on their doorstep, that should get the point across subtly but not as forward as a text asking if they want to join my howling on a full moon.

#look i cant make a single serious post #i deadass cant even complain like a normal person #but theres this girl at work and she is SO sweet and pretty and she nearly gave me a heart attack when she put her number in my phone but #when i text her she WONT TEXT BACK and my hearts low-key breaking because how do i show i wanna be her friend #i cant even tell if im crushing on her platonically or romantically i am a fucking mess #light vent #complaining #social anxiety #friend problems #social issues #social isolation #social anxiety things #werewolf #werewolf things #shitpost #kinda

[chrysalismandtea]

the fact that friendships change and sometimes you can’t stop them from changing and you never know what is going to happen next or when they’re going to end. just. why do we have to go through this in life. isn’t everything else hard enough already

#friends #friendship #friend advice #friendblogging #friend dynamics #friend group #friend issues #friend posting #friend problems #friend quotes #friend things #friends are family #friends are hard #friends are the best #struggling #struggle #the strugge is real #ace spectrum #lgbtq #lgbtqiia+ #friendships #friendships are hard #friendshipbond #friendship dynamics #friendship issues #friendship is hard #friendshipjourney #friendship problems #friendship quotes #friendship vent

[legendarycollectiveflower]

I'm so mad I can't be mad at her

#my bestie pissed me off today #i hate her (i don't) #literally how dare she #best friend #chaotic academia #college #bestie #friend problems

[autisticlee]

the older I get, the more of a struggle making friends seems to be. it was always a struggle but it only gets worse, never better.

first, the fact that adults don't have best friends, they have partners (ive had several people say this to me when i've said I want a best friend). they go date and forget i exist. second, many adults get so caught up in adult life they forget how to enjoy things.

I saw a post twitter recently that autistic people aren't "more childish" it's just that we know how to enjoy things more or don't care as much about social expectations and all that. I can't figure out how to have friends that don't enjoy the same things. it ends up feeling like we have nothing to talk about. most adults I meet have no hobbies or special interests. they only have jobs and partners and kids and that's their entire life focus. if they do have hobbies and things they like, it's hardly ever thing I like. I tend to enjoy things that are usually fandom based. I was into animes and then paramore as a kid, then I was into kpop and bts, now I like genshin impact (though not on a special interest level, but it's the most prominent interest atm because of one friends I use it to bond with).

the thing about fandom related interests while getting older and trying to make friends is that you're almost always outnumbered by younger people. except for the few years I spent on the internet (my paramore era in my teens) I usually ended up being the oldest or one of the oldest among people I knew and socialized with. that's fine when you're early 20s spending time with late teens or mid 20s and they're early 20s or if you're a teen with younger teens. sometimes it's an older fandom that all grew up and is mostly older now (pokemon). but when you get to 30s+ you can't be hanging out with the teens or fresh adults. first of all, adults generally shouldn't be befriending children, second, you generally have nothing in common with them, even fandom views. when I try to get friends and only teens in a fandom reach out to me, it's very :/

but sometimes it's only the teens that are willing to reach out, try accepting me, and are nice. most adults already have a long-established friend group i'm not welcome to intrude or are more judgey about who they like. then I feel bad when I have to turn the nice teens down. i thought about trying to be like an internet big sibling or parental figure for teens who need adult support figure in their lives, kind of like a found family, but I barely know how to adult and don't think i'd be the good influence/support i'd hope to be. they deserve better🥲

but yeah the point of this was making friends is harder the older you get and it already felt nearly impossible lmao 😭

#autistic #autism #lee rambles #actually autistic #adhd #neurodivergent #audhd #autism things #special interests #nd #friend problems #lonliness #growing up/getting older when you dont have “your people” is so lonely and sucks

[shayshaybiscuit25]

Uh-huh. That's it I am done. Like how can you possibly say you don't have money, but yet can be seen at a restaurant.

#Friend problems #Nothing to do with Chris