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sadieshavingsex · 1 year

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I’m tired of healing I’m tired of waiting to heal I’m tired of researching what’s wrong with me I’m tired of feeling pathologized im tired of pathologizing myself im tired of not feeling safe im tired of overanalyzing everything im tired of not being able to make a decision im

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robinandcat · 3 months

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Robin & Cat - Relationship Anxiety pt. 19

“Relationship Anxiety” Page 1 / Robin & Cat Page 1

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thatbitchmarge · 6 months

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That moment when...

You realize that you are the "red flag" due to all the trauma you've been through.

You overreact to every small inconvenience, for people have left you, abused you, and threatened you for less.

You overthink every change in their tone, behavior, demeanor... You count the seconds until their next text. You convince yourself it's so easy for them to find someone better. "They are just so perfect!"

"And his ex? She looks like a Barbie! Soft skin, luscious, blonde hair... And those eyes? You could drown in them! So blue! God, she's so gorgeous! How could he ever look in my direction? Is he doing charity now?"

"He'll eventually get bored of me... everyone does"

And the worst of all? You hide most of it out of fear you'll make them leave due to your "champagne problems".

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exclusivelyhomosexual · 1 month

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Turns out, I had no idea how much I fear love until someone presented me with the real thing

#love #rocd tw #relationship ocd #rocd #relationship anxiety #disorganized attachment #avoidant attachment #fearful avoidant attachment #disorganized attachment style #fearful avoidant attachment style #queer relationships #fear of intimacy #fear of love #trauma #tw ptsd #tw cptsd

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nmolesofadrenaline · 5 months

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#abuse survivor #emotional abuse #love love love #on love #bad relationships #heartbreak #breakup #hurtquotes #im hurtin #hurt/comfort #dark academic aesthetic #dark academism #dark academia #light acamedia #light academism #toxic relationship #strained relationships #dysfunctional family #relationship anxiety

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dustyviolet · 3 months

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what would it feel like to lie on your chest?

to wrap my arms around your torso,

to have my ear pressed atop your heart?

as our legs lace together under the covers,

like we’re held by a red string of fate.

would you kiss me?

would your arms’ embrace be warm

or would you hold me like your past lovers,

leaving cinders along my skin

from your touch?

would you leave me the following morning?

bedside cold and empty.

or would you pull me closer

until our very molecules merge

into one being?

#poem #poetry #love poem #love poetry #writing #original poem #poems and poetry #my poem #my poetry #poems on tumblr #short poem #uncertainty #overthinking #relationship anxiety

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dearinnerchild · 1 year

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i fucking hate relationship anxiety

#rocd #relationship anxiety #relationship ocd #ocd #bpd #fp bpd #bpd favorite person

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sardonic-simp · 4 months

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I need a hug :/

#ramblings.txt #the anxiety is through the roof today #like bahhhhhhh #relationship anxiety #nooooooo #like it's not even a major thing but i am vvvv !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! about it

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somethingrewritten · 1 year

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"I hope you know you don't have to do anything to be loved properly. You don't have to act a certain way, or look like someone you aren't. I believe that if you have to change yourself to be loved, it isn't real love after all. So don't cling to it. You can be you, and be loved for exactly that. Be vulnerable, let yourself fall in love, be broken by it. But never stay somewhere where the condition of stability is change. That isn't love."

#love #lost love #stability #change #self love #broken love #break up #relationship anxiety #relatable quotes

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conscious-love · 2 years

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lorinkrenn ~ Instagram

#Lorin Krenn #lorinkrenn #conscious love #conscious relationship #relationship #love #relationship advice #anxiety #relationship anxiety #nervous system #unhealthy relationship

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sadieshavingsex · 8 months

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wow. there is no one who can love you the way you want and need to be loved except yourself. there is no one who can undo and replace the painful upbringing you received from your parents or your God but yourself. nobody is ever going to be able to provide the level of care, understanding, and due diligence required to help you heal. nobody. nobody else can fix you and help you. you are the only person who can fully love yourself, know yourself, understand yourself. it’s you. it has to be you. nobody else can ever give you that or be that for you

#mine #relationship anxiety #sex therapy #exvangelical #religious trauma #sexually repressed #ex christian #ex fundie #purity culture #christian purity culture #bpd #fawn response #ptsd #anxious attachment #inferiority #I’m so sad but it’s so true nobody I look for out in the world will ever help me or have the answers #it’s me or bust baby

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robinandcat · 3 months

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Robin & Cat - Relationship Anxiety pt. 23

“Relationship Anxiety” Page 1 / Robin & Cat Page 1

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asixnfr0g · 6 months

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It might just take me a millennium

For me to learn that

Wedding rings are not handcuffs.

~ asixnfr0g

#poets on tumblr #poetry #love and heartbreak #trauma #relationship anxiety

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vixensmart · 10 months

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just found out that the feeling I get when someone flirts with me is not butterflies in my stomach but is in fact a panic response

#relationships #relationship anxiety #dating #dating anxiety #anxiety #anxiety disorder #GAD

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ditsy-dragon · 1 year

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I feel like people don’t talk enough about how damaging anxiety can be to your relationships. They talk about depression and bpd and other obvious factors of mental health but anxiety is always left out. The constant fear and overthinking is damaging to your mental health ofc but once you start overthinking about your relationship and those fears are spoken? Your partner can feel invalidated and like they’re not doing enough.

When the reality is…

They are doing more than enough(in my case); helping with anxiety attacks, holding your hand, giving long hugs when you need them, reassuring you, staying even though you have severe relationship anxiety and not to mention being the exact opposite of what you fear.

But even then it doesn’t stop the fear. My partner is amazing and still those anxious thoughts creep in. Like that he doesn’t actually love me or he’s going to leave me and when I say these things too much he becomes frustrated because he’s already told me and shown me in so many different ways that he wants me and loves me. And sometimes if I need specific attention my anxiety makes me too scared to ask and it just gets worse and worse and worse until eventually we have a fight because I couldn’t get those thoughts out of my head and couldn’t ask for what I needed. It’s understandably frustrating on his part bc it seems like he’s not ever “good enough” to make those fears go away. He is.

But my chemicals aren’t chemicaling right. Just staying by my side means so much but still relationship anxiety can be so damaging. People need to talk about this more and honestly, it should be something we learn about in school. That way the people who need to learn coping skills for this type of anxiety can and people who have a partner with this type of anxiety can learn the best ways to help if they don’t already know.

#anxiety #relationship anxiety #mentalheathawareness #mental health #why isn’t this taught in school #add it to the list #mental health matters #more than precalc #i never use it

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sweetpeauserboxes · 2 years

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[id: a light pink userbox with a pastel pink border, and pastel pink text that reads “this user suffers from intense relationship anxiety, but thinks they are ready to confront their fears and give love a second chance” on the left is an image of a pink heart /end id]

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