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samijami · 21 days

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Radfems are not feminists and never will be

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prince-ashitaka · 10 months

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Lets create a house where yelling means we’re having fun. When you hear a door slam you know it was accidentally pulled with too much strength, not slammed out of anger. When there is silence, it is Contentment, not another passive aggressive fight. The dog is no longer barking to protect, he simply just wants the cats to play with him. Let’s create a safe, warm environment that makes you feel like you can breathe, not hold your breath. Let’s stomp on the eggshells we use to tip toe on. Together we will make this house into a home. And welcome all with open arms into this kind and loving space.

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thisuserislesbian140511 · 8 months

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#lgbtq #lgbt safe space

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reiningsoral · 3 months

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dyall. people. bitches. stop making a fuss over ppl's identities.

"but they have genderfluid and also mlm in their bio!"

fuckin. so what?????

"but they use it/its pronouns!"

doesnt affect you. shut the fuck up.

"but they use neos and emojis as pronouns!"

literally so what?? it's harmless!!!

"but they wont label themself for me!"

idgaf, not your business.

"but they say they're an animal!"

literally ok? how. does that affect you.

"but they think that theyre something that doesnt even exist!"

yes and that's very cool of them

"but they use animals and nouns as their pronouns!"

do i look like i care? no? that's because i dont.

"but they-!"

DOESNT FUCKING AFFECT YOU. OK. YOU HEAR ME??? IT. DOES. NOT. AFFECT. YOU.

YOU SHOULD NOT CARE SO MUCH ABOUT HOW SOMEONE EXPRESSES THEIR IDENTITY. IT LITERALLY DOES NOT TAKE A N Y T H I N G TO NOT BE AN ASSHOLE.

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rainbowpiss34 · 3 months

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i got a manicure for the first time every yesterday :33

#manicure #aroace #aroace pride #asexual #aromantic #aroace safe space #ace #aro #Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week #aromantic spectrum #aromantic week #asaw 2024 #pride nails #pride manicure #lgbtqia #lgbt pride #pride #ace pride #aro pride

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crystalsandbubbletea · 5 months

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Aromantics are valid.

Asexuals are valid.

Aroaces are valid.

The world doesn't revolve around relationships, grow the fuck up.

If someone is happy single, then they are fucking happy. No, they aren't "wrong in the head", they are valid.

If you don't agree, stay the hell away from me.

There is a '+' in LGBTQ+ for a reason.

The 'A' is NOT for 'Ally', it is for Aromantic, Asexual, and/or AroAce.

People on the Aromantic spectrum and Asexual spectrum are LGBTQ+.

#crystalsandbubbletea #aromantic safe space #aromantic #asexual #aroace #aroace safe space #asexual safe space #aroace rights #asexual rights #aromantic rights #lgbtq+#lgbtqia+#lgbt+#arospec #acespec #ace spectrum #aro spectrum

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risesthenight · 7 months

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aromantic and asexual people deserve representation. we deserve to see characters who feel neither sexual nor romantic attraction. we deserve to see characters who only experience romantic or sexual attraction. we deserve to see characters who experience different types of attractions at different levels. we deserve representation for the variety that is the aromantic spectrum and the asexual spectrum.

#aromantic #asexual #aspec #aromanticism #asexuality #this is a safe space aroaces #aroacespec #aroace positivity #aroace characters #aroace #lgbtq positivity #lgbt safe space

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sapphic-sprite · 1 year

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y’all, I’m going to be real. I DO NOT CARE how you identify. you do not need to ask me “do you support x?”. unless you are an online troll who is using an actually harmful sexuality or gender identity in which then I’m blocking you. I’m not going to judge you or tell you how to identify. Be who you are and know this is a positivity account and you’ll never be seeing any kind of discourse or negativity around other peoples identities.

#felt the need to put this out there #rhi rambles #I sometimes get asks about this and legitimately there is nothing to worry about #lgbt #lgbtq #I am so serious about this being a safe space for y’all to just exist

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viktheviking1 · 2 months

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I forget to celebrate any and all trans (holi)days but celebrate every other lgbtq+ day for the same reason why I remind all my friends to eat food, drink water, and go to bed, but don't do those things for myself.

I just forget when it's about me ( ^ w ^ ")

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sappho-ism · 1 year

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Nothing makes me happier than meeting another lesbian irl.

Like omg hi… you’re so cool… and amazing… and please be my friend.

#lesbian #lesbian textpost #lesbianism #lesbian safe space #wlw #lgbt #lgbtq #lesbian pride #lgbtqa #lgbt pride

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agels-not-hooman · 2 years

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#lgbtq #lgbt #lgbtqiia+#gay #lesbian #bisexual #trans #transgender #intersex #asexual #aromantic #aroace #agender #queer #safe space

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uncanny-tranny · 10 months

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I'm going to preface this by saying that I have really complex feelings about this, and much of it is inspired by my personal experiences and a bit of learning about what other trans people experience. If I come across as messy, it is because of these reasons.

There's this unshakable feeling I have that when allies and even other trans people talk about trans people, transition and motivation for transition, and anything related to such, that there's only certain things that x type of trans person can (and should) experience and talk about.

Like, when people talk about FtMs/trans men/transmasc people, a common idea is that we're motivated to transition to game the system, to manipulate people into treating us better because we're now seen as men. A huge reason I never even bought into that idea is because, since transition (especially medical), I have been treated worse than I ever have been. Since transitioning and being on testosterone, I've been catcalled, had people insist I hand my number over, and I have to emphasize that I've never experienced these things until a couple of years ago (to clarify, this was in my real, corporeal life). I honestly can say that, while transition has saved my life and soul, I am treated worse by others than I ever had been pre-transition. However, because the idea of transmascs is that "they were victims of misogyny and they only want to escape it through transition" is popular even among some trans people, I feel like it's almost... taking something away by acknowledging that. Add to this that I'm white and that TPoC have so many experiences that intertwine with race, and that race absolutely goes into how trans people are treated.

I am not saying that my experience is the only valid or true one. I am very aware that I'm probably an outlier. However, I just notice that, time and time again, people hear what they want to hear about transness, and if people have even slightly different points of view from their experiences, it doesn't matter, or worse, those people are duplicitous and conniving.

#trans #transgender #lgbt #lgbtq #ftm #nonbinary #transphobia #transphobia tw #misogyny tw #i just feel like there are very few spaces i feel safe even talking about my experiences with #because it's either ending up in transphobia ('see? you'll NEVER escape!!!') or downplaying or denying my experiences (men don't face that)#i just wish you could talk about the good and the bad without people picking at your carcass like vultures y'know?#because that's how it feels. it feels like i've been laid out on the ground to be *picked* apart and torn #making this after being harassed once again. catcallers get the boot.#it's just amazing to me how pre-transition i was almost... immune to that shit #the worst treatment i faced was being an undiagnosed autistic kid in school (which was ableism and not applicable to the conversation)

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caesthoffe · 4 months

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people have said "the girls and gays" so much that a lot of cishet women are under the impression that gay bars are spaces that should prioritize their comfort as well, even if they're not queer

#if you're a cishet/non-queer woman who feels safe in gay bars thats great #but you are ultimately still a guest there just as a cishet man is a guest there #and you should be mindful of the spaces you inhabit #im not saying “never go to a gay bar ever again” im just saying to think critically #discourse #queer #queer discourse #lgbt discourse #caesthoffe.txt

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sirenium · 6 months

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Exclusionists will be blatantly bigoted and then turn around and claim that the pan lesbian they sent death threats to is the true danger to the community 💀

#if you want to erase those who are different than yourself from spaces that is BLATANT bigotry. full stop.#queer #lgbtq #lgbt #mspec lesbian safe #pro mspec lesbian #fuck exclusionists

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risesthenight · 8 months

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Aro vs Ace

As someone who’s aroace i’ve noticed a very clear cultural distinction between people who are just ace and people who are aroace. One of the most commonly used phrases i’ve seen in the ace community is the classic “we’re still human, we still feel love” excuse. A phrase that throws every aromantic individual under the bus when certain aces try to defend their orientations to straight people.

If you grew up aroace, or just aromantic, you’ve most likely felt broken. Surrounded by love being broadcasted as a milestone, and forced upon everyone with romcoms , true loves kisses, and “there’s someone for everyone” type phrases. If you grew up ace, you felt broken too. Surrounded by first times, the purity of virginity, and the fantasies that everyone seemed to have. However, people are more likely to be accepting of aces, because they see it as a choice to stay celibate. While that’s not true, they have something to lean back on, something pre-existing that allows their “choice” to be accepted. But when people hear of someone who doesn’t experience love? That is much less likely to be accepted. You will be told that you are broken. You will still be believed to have made this as a choice, and people will try to convince you to rethink the decision. There is nothing to lean back on, because the idea of being loveless, will always going with being heartless. You’re suddenly a monster, you are not pure.

Over the past few years, asexual has becoming a growing label in the community. Asexual characters appear all over media, it’s actually a much more common label now. There is still discrimination, there is still hate, but there is more acceptance than there has ever been before. Aros are at a point where they’re still more likely to be shunned for their lack of attraction, all while watching their Ace friends be accepted. Because at least they still love, right? They’re not completely broken, unlike them. Because love is love. The very phrase that isolates us from the community. If love is love, where the hell do we go? What if there is no love?

For this reason, I always resonated more with the aromantic part of aroace. Whenever I scroll the ace tag, or talk with ace people, I’m still finding myself being outcasted, feeling as if the label shouldn’t even apply to me. To scroll the aro tag, I feel much more at home. They don’t hold messages with cruel undertones, there is no undermining of ace identities, just an embrace of our collective independence.

I’m aroace, but I hardly feel ace.

#aromantic #asexual #pride #lgbtqia #aroace #aroace positivity #relatable #lgbt safe space #safe space #queer

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milomilesmib · 3 months

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Take notes, y'all. I have never felt more safe in a bathroom than I did tonight.

#trans #trans man #trans woman #trans women are women #trans men are men #trans safe space #trans rights #lgbt #lgbtq community #lgbt pride #lgbtq #lgbtqia #2slgbtqia+

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