#let go of toxic people

[inmyperfectworld]

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#canva #healing #letting go #let go of the past #let go of negativity #let go of toxic people #let go #daily reminder #words of the day #toxic people #toxic ways #mental health #self healing #in order to heal you have to let go #my words #facts #the truth #black tumblr #let go today #let go era #best version of yourself #heal yourself #heal your soul #message of the day #quotes

[selfhealingmoments]

#toxic #toxicity #toxic people #toxic relationship #people pleaser #emotional abuse #childhood trauma #dysfunctional family #inspirational quotes #self help #positivity #new beginnings #new life #self improvement #mental health #self reflection #be yourself #letting go #life lessons

[thevillainsfangirl]

There are some ships that you just know would be 100% canon if they were an M/F ship, and that's mainly what pisses people off the most in these situations.

It isn't just about the ship; it's also very much about the homophobia (whether the creators know it or not) that is preventing the ship from being canon when they otherwise would be.

#(@ Antis: DNI. KEEP MOVING! I know many might like this post but y'all ain't welcome here! 👋🏽) #I know this happens with F/F ships but I mostly see it with M/M ships and I think toxic/fragile masculinity has something to do with it. #Even from woman writers. It's these pre-conceived things we're fed about what men should be. 🙄 #So I was going to say ''If they weren't both men'' but I decided to let this post be fully accessible. #(Also I feel like people would yell at me for that. 😟 Even though it's... just where I see this issue happening the most. 🤷🏽‍♀️) #stuilly #romancek #sterek #hartwin #harringrove #nygmobblepot #chadthan #subscorp #stucky #stony #blerena #dan x chuck #julie x helen #lgbtq media #lgbtq representation #homophobia #heteronomativity #I'm not *absolutely certain* about Hartwin since so many people have an issue with their age gap. (Even though Eggsy is A GROWN MAN. 🙄) #txt

[dumblr]

Solitude over toxicity.

#quotes #wise words #thoughtful #solitude #toxicity #know your worth #let them go #create your own happiness #eliminate negative people #good vibes only #positive vibes only

[thepeacefulgarden]

Promises you must make to yourself (and keep) when it's time to detach with love

I will stop trying to control anyone but myself.

I will set boundaries with this person, and I will not rescind those boundaries.

I will make those boundaries clear.

I will not give in to temper tantrums, threats, tears, bargaining, guilt trips, or other manipulative tactics. Instead, I will walk away.

I will stop doing things for them that they are capable of doing for themselves, and should be doing for themselves.

I will stop "loaning" them money I know I'm never going to get back.

I will let them be responsible for their own lives, and their own choices, and I will take responsibility for mine.

If it's necessary, I will remove myself and any children and/or pets from the household, and I will get us to safety.

I will prioritize my safety and well-being, and the safety and well-being of any children or pets.

I will not cover and lie for this person anymore.

I will no longer defend or make excuses for their unacceptable behavior.

I will prioritize my needs over their wants.

I will know that I am doing this because I love them and care about them, and I will absolve myself of guilt.

I will cultivate a support system of my own.

I will absolve myself of responsibility for their happiness, their life choices, their behavior, their words, and their responsibilities.

I will regulate my emotions when they try to dysregulate me. I will not lose my cool, no matter how much they agitate me.

If I cannot deescalate them, I will walk away.

I will absolve myself of responsibility for their feelings. I will let them be mad. Or sad. Or whatever else.

I will not bail them out of legal trouble.

I will not bail them out of any other kind of trouble or crisis.

I will no longer give this person second, third, fourth, fifth, hundredth chances they don't deserve.

I will accept that the situation is what it is, and I will stop trying to minimize or deny how bad it is.

I will accept that I cannot change or control them, and I will stop trying to do so.

I will find a sense of meaning, identity, and purpose outside of my relationship with them, or feeling "needed" or "wanted" by them, or anyone else.

I will let them face the consequences of their behavior, and I will absolve myself of responsibility for those consequences.

I will know and understand that I have done my best, and I cannot help someone who won't help themselves.

I will know that, no matter how much they may protest otherwise, I am not being selfish.

#stop enabling #boundaries #codependency #unhealthy relationships #toxic people #difficult people #detaching with love #detachment #letting go #self care #self care is not selfish #people pleasing #fawning #self respect #mental health #coping #addiction #healing #recovery #trauma bonding

[hypnotic-kink]

Toxic people ….”Just get your shit … and go”

You’re dismissed ~~ now go.

#toxic people #hypocrite #let it go #leave women alone that post their pics already #your rules apply to all except yourself #so childish #yes i blocked you because you are obsessed with posting about me. Always keep your enemies close they say but enough is enough #Don't u dare disagree w/a narcissistic Dom ..lol #you may call me a bitch #but i'll *never* be your bitch 💋

[lslehmon]

Thinking rlly hard about how ivan strangled till with his thumbs over the arteries and not the windpipe. It was never a way to end till himself or a double suicide attempt it was purely selfishly sacrificial.

#alien stage #alnst #alnst till #alnst ivan #alien stage spoilers #alnst theory #i dont think ive seen people point this out #but theres a very specific way to strangle someone to kill them #and thats not it #that and the lack of any markings after ivan lets go #stupid idiot..... go join sua in gay baby hell ivan #doomed toxic yaoi versus doomed pure yuri fight #lehmon.txt

[hypervoxel]

The first time Vox said, "I love you," to Valentino, it went horribly wrong, because Val laughed and made a joke about how often he's heard that as a sex worker (especially now that he's in Hell and has become a walking talking aphrodisiac that Vox was currently high on). Vox is now so self conscious about his feelings and has never voiced them that way since. In Val's mind, he told Vox to only say that if he means it, but Vox hasn't told Val he loves him ever again, so Val certainly isn't going to be the one to say it first.

#Vox and Val also experience love and attraction very differently. not incompatibly tho. i mean they're not healthy by any means #but they make their toxic cesspool of a relationship work. for them. #voxval #anyway i will find a way to work this detail into my fics. but it is the basis of like a dozen of Vox's Issues #where Vox is like 'i can't let the people i trust most see me vulnerable' even tho it literally would not be an issue #because he confessed his love once to Val and Val laughed at him and acted like Vox was the same as anyone else he'd fucked #(bc Val was not ready to admit that Vox had wormed his way into Val's heart. Val doesn't love easily‚ #he finds sex and desire a whole lot more readily than any emotional notion of love—but Vox is one of the few people he would say he loves) #so Vox always has this nagging anxiety that he is not nearly as important to Val as Val is to him #(doesn't help that Val rants to him all the time and whatever is going on with Angel Dust this week) #and then of course. Vox confessed to Alastor and Alastor rejected him very soundly. #and. what are Vox and Val doing if not making their relationship issues with other people impact their relationship with each other? #staticmoth

[divinefem333]

You can't heal in toxic environments.

#self love #self worth #self care #self help #self healing #healingjourney #mentalheathawareness #mental health #mindset #positivequoteoftheday #spiritualgrowth #spiritualguidance #toxic people #toxic environment #protect your energy #boundaries #let go

[anotherdescentintomadness]

YiZhan Parallels: This WYB // This XZ

Sharing parallels, coincidences, and vibes from my bsky account, because we need more love in this fandom and in the world in general.

#yizhan #wangxiao #wang yibo #xiao zhan #With all the anti shenanigans lately #I’m feeling in a mood to celebrate YiZhan. #Maybe in other places on social people are exposed to toxic anti sludge #but I’ve curated my tl so that unless I go looking for specific news on terrible anti behavior ALL I SEE IS LOVE #It’s one thing I really appreciate about the turtle fandom: in the spaces I occupy at least.. it’s all about love #Abundant thinking.. celebrating love.. appreciating beauty.. honoring and holding space for two people who love each other #So I decided to share these *coincidences* and parallels that I post on my bksy #Mostly so I can have them all in one place. But I thought some of you might like them too #Wang YiBo talks about love all the time #How powerful it is. How it can inspire us to greatness. How we will always prevail if we have love in our hearts. #If Wang YiBo can act in love after all he’s been through we can too right? #Let’s follow the advice of our Heart-Shaped Boy #Love over all

[maskyartist]

god no one speak to me about this au i am fucking INSANE about it im so crazy stupid insane i cant-

cult leader creek au belongs to @idkwhatimdoingherebutyuh + @corvidclaws

#masky says #doodles #trolls dreamworks #trolls viva #trolls clay #trolls creek #cleek #creek x clay #people need to see the appeal of this ship or i'll go fucking bonkers crazy insane #learning clay is manipulated by creek has me fucking crazy #you know smart boy clay is gonna spot that shit a mile away and hes got his doubts about creek's ancestor shit #but mmm the energy of clay just LETTING himself be used cause he misses being loved #creek really out here using love bombing for toxic yaoi reasons no one speak to me i love this au

[selfhealingmoments]

#fake friends #fake people #toxic people #shadow work #be yourself #self reflection #self help #self improvement #self worth #know your worth #positive thoughts #self confidence #love yourself #mental health #letting go #inspirational quotes #new beginnings #positivity #new life

[butwhatifidothis]

It's been a few months since that whole thing with that Edelgang mod peddling genocide rhetoric, I wonder if they ever moved on from believing such horrific things and using such horrific rhetoric-

...so the answer to that is no. They have not.

#edelgard discourse #just to be safe #''guys they're not slaves they're just legally barred from having any authority whatsoever and they should be subject to the ruling race'' #two days ago from today (March 11th) #noooo but tell me context makes this sooooo much better pleeeease #maybe call me a nonce again while you're at it that was fun #i know you're going to cover this mod's ass again and scramble to come up with why saying this shit is fine because yadda yadda blah blah #since you're all incapable of kicking out toxic people the LEAST i can do is let everyone else know what you allow to fester in your space

[dumblr]

"Learn to say no to people who mess with your head. The ones who keep doing things intentionally to upset you. The ones who always play the victim even though it's obvious they're wrong. The ones who expect you to prioritize them but won't do the same for you. Avoid them.'

- Mufti Menk

#quotes #wise words #thoughtful #mufti menk #inspiring quotes #avoid them #toxic people #let them go #know your worth

[sakura-hayashii]

03.03.24 - 3:48 pm

tell me something, anything. tell me that you want me, or tell me if you dont. give it to me straight, i promise that i can handle it, so just stop confusing me. if you truly want me– if you genuinely want to be with me, then im all in. i am willing to give you everything i have. just say it, say anything, please. you dont even have to tell me if you love me, and you dont need to promise me forever. but just tell me that you want to try, just tell me if there is an ‘us’ or even a possibility of a ‘us’... tell me if its ‘you and me’... just tell me. because if you cant, then let me go. and dont even try to put me somewhere in between. you either want me or you dont, its that simple. tell me. please.

- S.H. // things ive never said #21 (via 2amthoughts)

#things ive never said #2amthoughts #personal thoughts #love #unrequited love #mental health #heartbreak #heartache #giving up #literature #letting go #heartbroken #pain #for you #moving on #moving forward #poets on tumblr #original post #original #aesthetic #i wrote this #unwrittenstories #tumblr #toxic people #writers on tumblr #words #writing #unspoken #personal #spilled ink

[thepeacefulgarden]

#letting go #detachment #unhealthy relationships #toxic people #stop enabling #detaching with love #self care #self compassion #self respect #self love #self forgiveness #boundaries #codependency #people pleasing