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#comfort box
I want to make a comfort box
a box of things that will make me feel better when I feel overwhelmed or upset
I have the perfect box but I'm not entirely sure what I want to put Inside,I know I shouldn't over think it
It's okay tho I'll figure it out
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vanesdarling · 2 years
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unboundprompts · 8 months
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If you’re still doing request, is it OK if you either
Describe writing a panic attack?
Or
Describe someone who has gray eyes?
-> a link for gray eye descriptions: x
How to Write a Panic Attack
Physical Symptoms of a Panic Attack:
pounding or racing heart
sweating
chills
trembling
difficulty breathing
weakness or dizziness
tingly or numb hands
chest pain
stomach pain or nausea
feeling lightheaded
tense muscles
dry mouth
constriction in the chest
feeling like they're being choked
Other Symptoms:
heightened vigilance for danger and physical symptoms
anxious and irrational thinking
a strong feeling of dread, danger or foreboding
fear of going mad, losing control, or dying
feelings of unreality and detachment from the environment
Triggers for a Panic Attack:
something unexpected (ex: a phone call)
a reminder (objects, smells, locations, specific phrases, etc. that can be tied back to a traumatic experience)
stress (from work, a relationship, family, etc. that has been building up)
silence (ex: being alone in a quiet room. The silence can amplify a sense of isolation)
flashbacks (a trigger that causes the person to flash back to a traumatic memory)
out of nowhere (sometimes panic attacks just get triggered by seemingly nothing)
Writing Prompts:
-> feel free to edit and adjust pronouns as you see fit.
He couldn't breathe. Oh God, he couldn't breathe and he was going to die.
She knew the panic was building up, but it crashed over her like a tsunami that swept her off her feet. The pull threatened to pull her out to sea and it was all-consuming.
They felt the panic begin to wrap its arms around them like a shadow.
"Is it okay if I hold your hand?"
"Don't touch me-- don't touch me!"
Her mind was running at a million miles a second but she couldn't pinpoint a single thought.
"It's okay. You're safe."
An icy hand had reached through their ribcage and was squeezing their heart. They couldn't breathe and they didn't know what to do to regain their breath.
"My chest hurts. It hurts."
"I can't!"
They were a crumpled heap, stowed away in the corner as tears streamed down their face.
She felt like she was on a boat out at sea, the room swaying and adding to the nausea that was washing over her.
He felt like he was having a heart attack.
They gasped for air but each breath felt shallower than the last.
She could hear her heart pounding in her ears, beating like a panicked drum to the rhythm of her fear.
He felt like he was standing on the edge of a building.
They couldn't move. It was like someone was holding down their limbs, the panic rendering them utterly frozen.
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declamationark · 4 months
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Between Danny’s constant sleep deprivation, school stress, and his villains’ differing levels of goofiness, I’m surprised he didn’t try just.. crying, like there’s a reasonable chance they immediately regret making this kid cry
like dude, you get catharsis and your enemies get Guilted into awkwardly going "there there buddy (help??? how to stop crying??? do I just pat the kid's head????)" and giving you gifts
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parisoonic · 10 months
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Heavymedic kiss
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please accept this crumb
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scuderiahoney · 3 months
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hi!! I love your work and CONGRATS!!! ❤️ i would do ANYTHING for a combination of “how long has it been since someone hugged you?” and “is this okay?” with Max if you’re willing :)
1k celebration! thank youuuu 💛 always willing to write more soft max
“I heard you need a hug,” Max says.
You stare back at him, dumbfounded. “What?”
He’s standing there, hands in his pockets. He shrugs, nods in the direction of the rest of your friends in the living room. They’re noisy, chattering with each other. You’re in the kitchen where it’s quiet, though warm. You’re checking on the food in the oven, that’s all.
“Someone said you had a bad day,” he explains, “and that you needed a hug. I give good hugs. So.”
You laugh and turn your back to him, peering into the oven. “I’m fine.”
You hear more than see Max take a couple steps towards you. You stand up straight again and turn back towards him, though you don’t meet his eyes. The next three things happen in the blink of an eye- he grabs your elbow, pulls you against his chest, and wraps his arms around you. You let out a squeak and go stiff, and he laughs.
“How long has it been since someone hugged you?” He asks, laughter in his voice. “You are as stiff as a board.”
“Well, it’s been a while since I’ve been attacked with a hug,” you scoff.
He laughs at that and squeezes his arms around you. “Is this okay?”
You sigh and let your shoulders drop, and then you relax against him.
“Yeah,” you say, feeling just a bit of the tension drain from your body.
You put your arms around him, too, and let out a sigh. He tucks his head on top of yours as you curl further into him. He’s warm and comforting, and he smells good, and his arms around you are strong and it feels like he’s squeezing all the bad parts of the day away.
“You needed a hug,” he says, voice soft.
“I needed a hug,” you admit.
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sensitiveheartless · 6 months
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Though I just realised after the whole skk FINALLY mutually confess, but uhh how did Dazai knew Chuuya was at the supermarket??? Did he have Chuuya's schedule memorized???
I’m so glad you noticed this, because I couldn’t figure out how to work it into their dialogue in the comic, but YUP—
My thoughts for this particular comic series were that Chuuya is a creature of habit, and Dazai is a weirdo(affectionate) who memorized all Chuuya’s weekly scheduling habits back when they were in the mafia (for strategic purposes, he will insist) and Chuuya hasn’t really deviated from those habits since, so Dazai will periodically have moments like this throughout his day:
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…so yeah, after Ranpo convinced Dazai to go clear things up with Chuuya, Dazai ran across the city while doing intense internal calculations to take all known variables into account, and finally decided that Chuuya had to be shopping at that particular grocery store :0
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polyamorousmood · 6 months
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Okay so I'm super aro but also shaking hands with polyam people like YES technically in a way they're opposites (lack of romo love vs multiple romo loves) but like! We're all vibing in a denying ananormanitvity in our own ways! I adore y'all!!
Also shakes this blog around like a rag doll /affectionate positive etc
- Loveless aro who stares at your blog from time to time but has to stop because I smile to the point of my face being sore + WAYYY too emotional and cries sometimes aahzgzhs- In a good way to be clear!!
Also very less important thing but holds polyam ships very gently they're all so neat aough shakes them around /affectionate
YESSSSSS!
We are siblings-in-arms 🤝, we are friends🫂, we are partners in crime🦹, we are locking eyes and giving each other a single firm nod of understanding and comradery, we are allies fighting literally the same fight⚔️.
My rights to choose the family I want is the same as your right to choose the family you want. The more we say "any relationship can be as important as --or more important than!-- romance" the sillier it becomes to champion a single romantic connection as one's life purpose.
Our fates and our fingers are twined, my aro friend. We will lift the other up when one stumbles, and we trek to the brighter world together. 🫴 Take my hand
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uncanny-tranny · 7 months
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You know, I feel like other trans people might get this, but it's honestly kind of refreshing when a cis person has, like, undeniable tboy/tgirl/whatever swag. It's like when you come across somebody who speaks the same language as you and you only find out when they start speaking it, too.
#trans#transgender#lgbt#lgbtq#ftm#mtf#nonbinary#all this to say that we are existing on a rock hurling through space#and this universe is going to collide into another and does it all truly matter in the end?#a lot of this is based on ideas we have about what constitutes certain people and i think it can be a fun observation#so long as you do not inherently ascribe certain traits as being indicative of who somebody Is#it can be amusing when you're SO confident that somebody is a certain way until you realize how Wrong you were#the amusement for me only comes because it's like... 'you tried your best to box somebody and you FAILED lmao'#and in a weird way it's kind of comforting because it reminds me that we all come into this world with bias that Will be challenged...#...so the best thing you can do is recognize those biases and then try to overcome them through great effort...#...so yes maybe i did think that cis dude had tboy swag but. that's not inherently his problem you know?#it probably just means he's confident in his manhood in a way that reminds me of the trans men* i know and love#i noticed that in him and it reminded me of my friends who are trans so i think 'oh! maybe that's why he's giving off those vibes!'#so while i won't treat him any differently before or after finding out i was wrong i'm still going to appreciate the fact that...#...he and i are literally just Vibing on the same planet and we both don't have time for petty arguing about manhood#i'll acknowledge what inspired those thoughts in me but that is Not his problem and that's good and beautiful actually#i don't always mind the tboy/tgirl swag meme just so long as you don't treat it like an Inherent Trans Experience Only Trans People Have#just recognize where those ideas are inspired from and it's fine <3#sometimes you will be Wrong and that's actually fucking neutral <<3#anyway rant over i just think this is /generally/ harmless and fun#like astrology. sometimes you just look up your star sign without ascribing your Entire Life to it <3#i think what i lot of people mean by saying a cis person has tboy/tgirl swag is just that...#...that cis person has an understanding of themself that comes from deep introspection that isn't necessarily expected of cis folk...#...but it is often something trans people do as part of our exploration of gender...#how is this the FIRST POST to reach tag limit... ask me for more thoughts if you want lol!
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xenomorphicdna · 5 months
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This is an on the string propaganda post
Brought to you, by me (with love)
It's time for machine comforts. Comforts we can't understand, or experience. Let them be happy, let them be at peace with their body.
Does a breath of cool water feel nice on their systems? When it's quiet do they listen to their own heart and feel the electricity pulsing? Does it remind them that they are alive and a part of this world? Do they have dreams? Hopes and projects they wish to work on, hobbies?
Why get off the string into the harsh and deadly world, fighting for survival and losing everything they've ever known to love about themselves?
What about the safety of their bodies? How scary would it be for a machine with thousands, maybe millions of throughs to suddenly have just a handful. The horror of everything going silent.
They have hundreds of eyes to see the world for all its beauty, they capture moments that would otherwise go unseen. Why blind themselves of such things?
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pinkalliums · 17 days
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ok so there were a bunch of wonderful pmd eos palettes that a user made: here and it gave me the perfect opportunity to redraw a thing i made with my hero and partner almost 8 years ago now (wow)
and @aurum-orre hi sorry for the tag but i saw on the post u wanted ppl to tag you if they used the palette so here!!
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jsyk my hero (riolu) is named austen and my partner (skitty) is named wisteria!! i treat them more like ocs than self inserts personally (i might post about them more im so normal abt pmd eos)
first rendition is under the cut lmao
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vanesdarling · 2 years
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thehobbitchronicles · 9 months
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unboundprompts · 5 months
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Prompts for someone comforting they're lover with abandonment issues that they won't leave them ?
Prompts for Comforting Someone with Abandonment Issues
-> feel free to edit and adjust pronouns as you see fit.
"Please," she sobbed into his shoulder. "Please, don't leave me."
He ran a comforting hand through her hair as she cried. "Why would you ever think I'd leave you?"
"Everyone always leaves," they told her, their voice soft and brittle. "It's only a matter of time before you leave, too."
"I'm not leaving," he said, his voice firm. "Not unless you give me a reason to."
"I love you." She felt tears prick at her own eyes. "I love you so, so much. And I'm not going anywhere."
"I'm here to stay. You're not getting rid of me that easily."
He held them closer to his chest as their breath shook. "What can I do to convince you that I'm not going to leave you?"
"I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you..."
"Don't leave," she begged, gripping the fabric of his shirt in both fists. He held her closer. "I wouldn't dream of it."
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Ok I love all the Jegulus raising Harry ones… can you do one with baby Harry having an attachment to Reg? Maybe a lil bit of angst/new parent struggles?? Love ALL your writing!!
hi! thank you, you are so kind! I love jegulus raising Harry too! But whyyyy does this request hurt??? I ended it on a goodish note though I think! with love
Papa (1/1) (jegulus raising harry)
James was only 26. Who lets a 26-year-old have a kid? Who lets a 26 year old who just finished a grad program at uni, barely had been married for more than a few years, have a whole infant child?
Well Regulus apparently. The universe, he supposes, but what's the difference really?
And while James was a bit hopeless, he was a good father. He could take care of Harry, loved to make all his purées from scratch the way his mum taught him, take him on walks to the park and cuddle with him.
But the thing was, when Harry cried, IF Harry cried because he was seriously a happy little babe, he never wanted James. Harry would cry and James would pick him up, and he would cry harder. He would only stop crying if Regulus held him.
Harry's first words were Papa, and he seemed to pay more attention the the French books and songs that Regulus was sing, and James loved that Harry loved Regulus... it's just that, well he wanted to be enough for his son.
One night, it was James' turn to go and feed Harry. Typically, Harry settled so quickly into James' arms as they rocked in the chair that Sirius had made them, but tonight he wouldn't stop fussing.
Eventually, exhausted, James brought Harry into their room. He would put a program on real quiet and let Harry sleep on his chest, and once he was sure Harry was asleep he would just put him in the bassinet in their room.
But the second Harry saw his papa he reached out for him. "If you move the blankets he can stay love," Regulus mumbled as he took the baby. But so quickly Harry settled, breathing in time with Regulus.
James moved the bassinet to Regulus' side so he could place Harry in there when he was ready and cuddled in close with his family. He loved them both so much, he just wished he was able to be everything for them.
Watching though as they both slept, James keeping a watchful eye over both of them, he realized that he couldn't be everything, and that's why he had Regulus. Harry needed both of them and while Harry may have bonded more with Regulus right now, they would have lots of time to grow together
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