#gifted burn out

[mikrhsnobara]

If going away for your home makes you feel free then I’m not sure everything is alright.

#strict parents #mental health #burnt out gifted kid #school #academic validation #tw depressing thoughts #burnout #gifted burn out #gifted kid syndrome #trying my best #not being able to do what you want because you will get in trouble for it? #toxic love #toxic parents #emotional blackmail #gaslight #daddy issues #mommy issues #parents issues #parenting

[heybiji]

dandelion casually dropping traumatic information while insisting that instead of killing the problem wizard they simply burn his tongue

#dungeons and dragons #dnd #dnd character #dnd oc #dnd art #dandelion treehollow #warlock #drow #all he does is talk... and talk... and talk #they did not actually burn the wizard's tongue it's cool #instead dande used his disguise magic to look like a sexy vampire and promised the vampire larper wizard the dark gift if he behaved #love when dande gets to put on a show because he says wild shit like i hate when people beg for their lives it makes me want to act out #dande had a wild episode #start of the episode: gets to pretend to be a sexy domineering vampire #end of episode: screaming and sobbing in pain after the curse-bomb in his head went off because he broke one of the curse-rules #where he can't sneak away from the party because the last time he did that be betrayed them big time #it's complicated... and delicious #also right before that the paladin was telling him he needs to find god LOL because he's worried about dande's soul #and dande blew him off saying he has plenty of time he's not gonna die (again) #only to then be convinced he's being killed by the curse in his head...... #embarrassing.................

[black-rose-writings]

My mom, after spending an extended weekend with my dad's old college classmates and their families: It's so weird that all of these very weird, intelligent and structured men who got their masters in engineering in the late 1980s have sons that are all autistic and daughters who all have mood disorders.

Me: Yeah, very weird. Why could that be?

#autism #depression #something tells me the daughters are also autistic #I mean I know I am #our brothers just got diagnosed in elementary school and got help and accomodations #while we were labeled gifted and got no help at all #just more responsibilities and pressure #until we burned out at the ripe old age of 16 #and were now feeling as failures and disappointments to our parents on top of everything else #while also being the first generation to grow up with social media #idk that may just be me

[ryuusea]

happy bday louis james moriarty!!!

#all the headpats for him and knives he wants I gift him #hands out take ibuprofen and brotherhood and burning down a mansion with us #louis james moriarty #he’s actually my 2nd fave idk if ppl know? after liam #the bros are on my top 3 #yuukoku no moriarty #moriarty the patriot #birthday

[onlyjaeyun]

i'm gonna log off for a while because i'm really mentally drained from constantly hearing how unhappy and disappointed some of you guys were with both SB and CH'snendings and developments.

i know some of you guys come from a good place and mean no harm but imagine working on something for so long and then you yourself are already sad about how things ended but you wanna use it as a way to do better next time but people constantly tell you how you should do better next time and its always "i was so excited but it never came" and "i wished things would have gone this way" after you spent days crying out of frustration because your brain didn't corporate.

people who have never written (one shots or series doesnt matter) don't know the burden of leaving unfinished works up there. i keep telling you guys that i tried so hard to somehow give you guys an ending because if i hadn't you guys would have never received ANY ending so i tried to make the best of it.

i dont take the hate to heart anymore bc i couldnt care less and i know as a writer i should be open to criticism but i'm a little tired of my work being constantly nitpicked when i do this for fun.

i know updating daily was what burnt me out pls stop telling me that i obviously overestimated myself i fucking know.

whatever, it actually doesn't matter anymore because CH is over and i dont think i'll ever write smaus that long ever again bc the criticism is so not worth the mental effort and stress.

i do this for FUN. you know how artists doodle in their notebooks, this is what this blog is to me. i make mistakes, i over/underestimate things and myself bc this is life. it's just..not that deep for y'all to constantly camp in my inbox and make me feel bad about it when i already accepted it.

i'm gonna do some self reflection and think about it all so take care babies 🤍

#; rambles #i've literally been receiving huge paragraphs about just how excited people were about certain things in both CH and SB and several people #have told me how i should have just stopped daily updating and listening to y'all and taking breaks and not burn myself out bc now they're #disappointed and it sounds a LOT like my parents when they realised im just another burnt out former gifted child so #i'll see you guys around 🤍

[ditzdove]

#dib membrane has gifted kid burn out #adult dib #digital art #art #zim x dib #dib membrane #invader zim art #zadr #shitpost #dib becomes a Geologists #iz zadf #zadf

[drunkndead]

i feel like im missing out on the whole teenage experience. day by day i while my time away behind books, scars and calories.

#ed but not sheeran #ed vent #self deprecating humor #self h@rm #sewerslidal #sh #sh meme #depressing memes #selfharn #sewercide #tw sui vent #tw sui implied #gifted kid shit #burn out

[spacedace]

Jason Todd and Jazz Fenton were both "a joy to have in class" kids and no I do not feel like I need to elaborate.

#dc x dp #dp x dc #batman #danny phantom #jazz fenton #jason todd #they have trauma your honor #jason chose violence upon entering his gofted student burn out phase #jazz also chose violence but the psychological warfare variety #they're also burned out gifted kid adults #you can't change my mind on this

[thegoldenavenger]

Liu Qingge date lineup… I was thinking about how funny it would be to see how dating might change your lifestyle

#kamaetedraws #svsss #liu qingge #bingliu #liujiu #bingliushen #(implied) #svsss lqg never gets in on the fashion party bc lbh and sqq are too busy spoiling each other #liujiu lqg's hair is better taken care of bc sqq does that for him. sqq doesnt like braids tho #liujiu lqg also has The Most decked out clothes bc sqq embroiders them when he is feeling petty #he likes hiding bamboo motifs and chrysanthemums #lqg doesnt care except when he does in which case he vacillates wildly between #'haha look how much sqq wants to show me off' and 'UGH can he NOT leave my clothes alone for ONE second' #bingliu lqg has servants who bully him into taking care of everything he normay ignores so that's why his hair is longer #lbh replaced his whole wardrobe with Bingge Colors and burned all the cqms stuff #AND he is always giving lqg fancy fiddly little gifts of jewelry and stuff #lqg doesnt actually care for it but he's gotten better at manipulating so he sometimes wears it as a bribe #bingliushen lqg is SO embarassed right now and is thinking about hiding his little bingqiu belt tassle so he doesnt get dragged into this #(but he is obviously coming out winning. #HE still has his principles he tells himself HE still dresses his own damn self HE isnt so fussy and self absorbed about his relationship #he is a little jealous)

[void-pitcher]

i will literally never stop thinking about that one glass onion analysis video that said “i wouldn’t say i’d destroy [the mona lisa] to save a stranger’s life, but honestly? it’s kinda fucked up that i wouldn’t. we should value a person’s life, stranger or not, more than a piece of art.” like that changed something in me. bc our society DOES value art. not new art, not artists, sure, but it values the results. they put the results at a higher value than the artist themself, and if they think the results is worthless? they’ll still value the artist less than the result.

#thinkin abt my one friend who said she’d rather die than not complete her art #and another who said he’d kill himself for talent #and another who said the mona lisa was da vinci’s legacy and if it’s gone he’s gone #like what are y’all on abt? what value must u put on art to value urself as less than? how little do u value urself to put ur art as more? #i want so badly to be able to say i’d burn the mona lisa to save a stranger but idk if i would #and like this guy said: it’s fucked up #what we make doesn’t determine our worth. what we can or can’t do doesn’t determine our worth. how much talent we have doesn’t determine our #worth. and it shouldn’t. #idk. it just feels so twisted. and it’s not even abt what art they can make in the future. #it’s abt how we and the ppl around us are alive and that’s our most valuable gift #not some oil on a canvas #glass onion #glass onion a knives out mystery #art #mona lisa

[mikrhsnobara]

Scrolling through Pinterest and Tumblr to find inspiration to study and promptly not studying because inspiration (?)

#mental health #academic validation #burnt out gifted kid #school #tw depressing thoughts #burnout #academicism #high school #dark academia #gifted burn out #chemistry university #chemistry major #chemistry #uni student #university #study tips #studying #student

[desultory-suggestions]

You haven’t failed if you haven’t accomplished as much as you wanted to by now. There’s so much more time, and you are so much more than what you can do.

#mental health #suggestions #suggestion blog #self love #anxiety #depression #student #career #accomplishment #overachiever #burn out #motivation #wellness #gifted child #gifted kid burnout

[lazykebabvagina]

Recommend me music about being the burned out "gifted" kid or tht can be interpreted that way. Think this is me trying, quarter life crisis by Taylor Bicket or nothing new.

#nothing new #phoebe bridgers #autism #burned out gifted kid #elder daughter #taylor Swift #music #music recommendation #mental health #mental health awareness #olivia rodrigo

[madeofbees]

me: I hate that I can never focus on books or reading, I need to go to a cabin in the woods with a stack and not be disturbed until I finish, there’s nothing like the feel of a paper book in your hands and the smell of an old, well-loved favorite and even the chunks that fall out bc you’ve read it over a hundred times and the binding is fragile books

me when the Wi-Fi goes out: böōōkš ?? never heard of her

#books #reading #bookblr #actually adhd #reading is hard #just finished #pride and prejudice #for the millionth time #but this time read by #rosamund pike #excellent #adhd problems #books are only (1) form of sensory input #which can create a new world #but it takes a minute to get into it #and in that minute I’m thinking about 29484628 other things I could be doing #burnt out gifted kid #I once was smart / but now I can’t focus long enough to read a damn book #burnout #burned out

[lesbian-disaster-academic]

Confessions of a Burnt-Out Gifted Kid (part 1/?)

[VIDEO ID: A sketched figure, labelled “me now” looks to the side with a worried expression on their face. They say, “You don’t have to be perfect or exceptionally great. You don’t even have to be GOOD”. The scene changes and it shows a slightly younger-looking figure labelled “teenage me”. They look angrily off to the side and say, “But I do.” They point to themselves. “I have to be all of those things all of the time”. END ID]

(Inspired by this video)

#adhd #actually adhd #executive dysfunction #actually neurodiverse #adhd paralysis #adult adhd #attention deficit hyperactivity disorder #gifted kid burnout #burned out #burned out gifted kid #burnt out gifted kid #burnt out #* DISCLAIMER: not rly on board with the term ‘gifted kid’ as it exists in euro-western colonial conceptions #i was designated ‘gifted’ in school but the term feels kinda problematic to me (i can expand on this in another post if u want!!) #but I guess it’s the most relevent term to use here in the tags #*shrugs* #academia #academic burnout #my art #personal #vent post #confessions of a burnt out gifted kid

[ditzdove]

A sketch I’m never gonna finish

Some story behind this, zim is told by his tallest that he’s defective and a failure and to never return to irk. This makes him spiral and leaves earth for 10 years. Leaving behind dib who in this time gives up on his paranormal studies and caves to his father’s wishes and goes to college for science. Zim returns and is thoroughly disappointed in what dib’s become and plans to bring his rival back to his former glory.

#art #digital art #dib membrane has gifted kid burn out #uggggggggggggggh #trans dib #dib membrane #invader zim dib #zim iz #iz zim fanart #invader zim art #invader zim headcanon #dib becomes a geologists #iz zadf #not really zadr but just to be safe #zadr? #zadr