#ocd safe

[ghostslimu]

you will never be a bad person for not reblogging a post on tumblr, please remember that

#opinion #ocd #ocd safe #dont you fucking dare disagree with me. dont even try. i will not argue you will be blocked on sight #intrusive thoughts about your own morality are one hell to live with #youre not helping mentally ill people by threatening others into reblogging your awareness posts. youre harming them

[narconfessions]

i needed a place where i could get out my negative thoughts towards people i hate so i can express myself without hurting anybody, and i talked to the amazing @sunshinesolaic who inspired me to create a password protected blog on here for me to vent, but also suggested creating a private discord server just for yourself to vent your thoughts, so thanks to yggs for that and sharing for anyone who is looking for ways to more healthily vent their intrusive thoughts!

#npd #npd safe #actually npd #aspd #aspd safe #actually aspd #bpd #bpd safe #ocd #ocd safe #actually ocd

[demonadelem]

Rare pity, mercy and compassion of the giants called humanity

#web weaving #tw spiders #arachnophobia #wrong time wrong place wrong size #yes some of these are a metaphor for the mistreatment of minorities #not ocd safe

[scrimbly-mc-scrombly-iii]

If you advocate for mental health awareness, but joke about things like intrusive thoughts and schizophrenia, think it’s disgusting and lazy when people who are depressed can’t do things like showering or cleaning their room, use terms like “narcissistic abuse”, and believe that having ASPD, BPD, or NPD makes someone a bad person, you are not a mental health advocate. You don’t actually care about helping people or de-stigmatizing mental illness, you just want to make yourself feel like you do. You can’t pick and choose what disorders and symptoms are acceptable, and which ones make someone a bad person. Either you support everyone, or you support no one.

and if you’re neurodivergent/mentally ill and you do any of those things, you are part of the problem. there’s no such thing as “good/moral” disorders, or “bad/immoral” disorders. We all need to have each other’s backs.

#mental health #mental illness #tw abelism #npd safe #bpd #npd #aspd safe #aspd #ocd #schizophrenia #cluster b #neurodivergent

[writethatdown]

friendly reminder that you are safe if you choose not to reblog posts threatening ‘x’ bad thing will happen if you don't. i know that it can be anxiety inducing, especially to those struggling with intrusive thoughts. i promise you that you are safe love. if u needed a sign to believe that you and you're loved ones are safe, here u go. ʕ •ᴥ•ʔ > this bear is protecting you rn ♡

#it's so disheartening how people choose to spread around such evil posts #gentle reminders #a reminder #reminders #gentle reminder #self care reminder #ocd #ocd brain #intrusive thoughts #intrusive thinking #comfort post #comfort #mental health #positivity #self care #reminder #it's okay #you are safe here #<33333

[batfamhyperfixation]

Tim had his spleen removed, right. This means he would not be able to withstand bacterial infection as well (a.k.a. getting sick, which happens a lot when people get injured or sleep deprived cause their immune system weakens), so for his own safety, he would likely take care of himself more than the other bats would care for themselves. He probably wouldn't get in a fight he knows he would badly lose, or win but get very injured during. Tim would be the calm and calculating one. He already is deemed as smart and a great detective, so that makes him even scarier.

He gets a reputation as a vigilant far more dangerous from his siblings, cause he perches like a bird above the fight, but if he gets involved, then the villains know they're goners. If it's Dick, Jason, Steph, Cass, even Damian and Batman himself, people don't get as intimidated, but should Tim come in, they back off so fast. In this essay I will...

#like if you are gonna fanon Tim #fanon him right #the boy is not a self-sacrificing never-sleeping always-taking-risks person #he is a repremand-bruce-when-hes-injured wordlessly-hands-you-a-bandaid stands-on-the-side-watching-the-stupid-stunt 'I told you so' bitch #he is safe and judgemental about those who aren't (his whole family) and he is a bitch about it #tim drake #tim drake robin #tim drake red robin #tim drake headcanon #when someone in the family gets sick Tim starts having panick attacks and refuses to touch them or anything they touch #when covid hit Tim literally spiraled and ran away to a safe house. he hand sanitized everything. he double masked with those quality masks #Tim was that person who screamed at people not wearing masks and if someone looks sick he will barely touch them and handsantize constantly #he always has those little travel bottles of hand sanitizer on his person #i just think Tim would have contamination ocd especially after his spleen is removed #like he doesnt like to touch people or be in crowded places because of this and he likes cleaning cause it makes him feel more in control

[a-sip-of-milo]

Sending my love to the neurodivergents who fit common stereotypes.

Those with OCD who are obsessive about cleaning.

Those with NPD who can be manipulative and controlling.

Those with Autism who have "childish" interests and/or behavioural manners.

Those with BPD who are unhealthily possessive over their loved ones/FP and can be the toxic one in relationships.

Those with ADHD who bounce off the walls.

Along with everyone else. You deserve a space to heal and grow just as much as the rest of us do.

#cluster b safe #cluster c safe #cluster a safe #npd safe #bpd safe #bpd #npd #adhd #ocd #cluster b #autism

[neuroticboyfriend]

some disabled & neurodivergent side of tumblr safety & etiquette:

dont: dump negativity on positivity posts. if you dont relate to a post, it's either not aimed at you, or you're not ready for its message (and thats ok!)

do: make your own posts expressing how you feel; your feelings still matter and your blog is just the place to express them.

dont: speak over people with different experiences than yours, or speak on things you don't know about.

do: have an open mind and educate yourself on things you don't know much about - uplift the voices of people with direct experience.

dont: send unprompted vent or advice asks to blogs that dont have that as a stated purpose.

do: check out a blog to see if they take vent/advice asks; if you dont see anything, ask if you can vent/seek advice first - or add a disclaimer at the start of your asks, with TW.

dont: engage with triggering content. dont post your triggers publicly either, my lord.

do: engage with content that helps you express, process, and cope with your health. take breaks when you need them, too.

dont: treat bloggers like celebrities or like they owe you a response.

do: treat bloggers like regular people; respect boundaries.

dont: demonize ANY condition. including paraphilic disorders, sexual/moral OCD, personality disorders, addiction, or factitious disorders

remember: we're all dealing with our own stuff, and we're all in this together. if anyone acts as if this isnt true, they're probably not in a good place themself.

(feel free to add on!)

#softspoonie #disabled #neurodivergent #disability #disabled community #neurodivergent community #mentally ill #mental health #mental health community #spoonie #daily reminder #reminders #positive reminders #positivity #mental health positivity #self care #internet safety #neurodivergent positivity #disability positivity #cluster b safe #cluster b #addiction #pro para #paraphilic disorder #ocd #moral ocd #pocd

[joeythefrog]

I see your ADHD Race, your ODC Davey, your autistic Albert. And I raise you OCD Race.

Due to misrepresentation and the stereotypes of OCD I haven't seen this ever, but I need to.

Race who always needs things to be even, who used to have concerning fits of 'violence' as a kid where he would slam himself again walls, kick things, punch stuff until both sides of his body felt even. Who had to go to hospital with a broken nose because he just had to keep punching it.

Race who has rules revolving around keeping people safe (OCD is having a bad scary thought and doing an action to make it go away as a base summary) and cries whenever Jack pulls him away from drumming his fingers against the table or running laps around the room because he's being annoying or scaring people and screaming that he doesn't want everyone to get sick and die

Race who swings like a pendulum between thinking that he's insane and being convinced that everyone thinks this way -he's the one who can't take it and struggles

Race who doesn't give a shit about how clean his room is and is very rarely afraid of dirty things because that isn't what OCD is

Race who lies in his bed for hours in the morning and bawls because he wants to get up but he can't because he wants his friends to live

bonus points for Dasher crawling in with him and Race holding his son close as he sobs because he is so breakable he can't risk it

Race who only ran because when he was walking anywhere he would get the thought that something was chasing him or that the world was ending and he wouldn't be safe until he got home and was able to stop.

Race who got his name because of it because he was running through manhattan as fast as he could because he wanted to be safe but the world was ending

#racetrack higgins #newsies #if I see another 'oh Davey has OCD because he likes to colour code things and he likes things to be clean' I will snap someones neck #jack kelly #david jacobs #spot gets picked up and thrown over Races shoulder when he needs to run away and wants Spot to be safe #spot newsies #spot conlon #sprace #dasher (newsies)

[cupboard-of-npd]

Sometimes I think we need to be reminded that mental health is an incredibly vast spectrum and there is no right way to have a mental illness esp if you have comorbid disorders

#npd safe #aspd safe #cluster b safe #pd safe #garlic breath #actually npd #actually ocd #actually autistic #actually adhd #actually neurodivergent #actually mentally ill #mental illness #neurodivergent #neurodiversity #mental health

[pricklymuffinzzzzz]

Jokes I don’t think are funny,

Jokes about when mixed ppl don’t look mixed

Jokes about how “borderline” or manic someone is acting

Jokes about “the voices”

When someone jokes about how they haven’t eaten all day, like okay??

When someone jokes about another persons mental illness when they haven’t gotten permission.

When someone jokes about wanting to go to a mental hospital, saying “I need the vacation” “silly people vacation” etc, treating it like it’s not severely traumatic. Stop joking about that shit.

Oh and stop fucking joking about having ptsd, it’s not fucking funny, shut the fuck up

I can’t stop anyone from making these jokes but can y’all shut the fuck up sometimes? Like unless you’ve experienced it, when you have the trauma it’s funny. But when you just say that shit for fun it’s so fucking annoying.

#tw vent post #tw vent #tw schizophrenia #tw bpd vent #actually bpd #bpd problems #tw bpd #actually ocd #did vent #actually did #bpd vent #bpd feels #bpd thoughts #bpd mood #bpd #bpd safe #schizophrenia #actually schizophrenic #tw discrimination #mixed race #vent post #personal vent #vent #tw eating issues #tw ed descussion #tw ed implied #tw mental illness #tw mental hospital #tw medical #tw medical trauma

[unknowinglydeceasedlol]

idk who needs to hear this but you *can* relate to someone’s struggles with a specific disorder without having said disorders

it’s honestly one of my biggest frustrations when you’re venting about a disorder you have or see people talking about it online and then you see people chime in “omg I didn’t think I had this but I relate to this so I have it!” and i don’t mean those people who have genuine concerns about having a specific disorder. (fyi, if you have genuine concerns regarding a specific disorder you may have, this isn’t about you!! it’s perfectly valid to stumble upon a disorder you didn’t know existed that explains your situation perfectly and have questions about it <3)

i’ll use this as an example but if someone is currently struggling through cancer and they vent to you about extreme exhaustion and fatigue, most people wouldn’t be like “omg I feel exhausted and fatigued too!! i must have cancer!” but would probably say something along the lines of “ive struggled through exhaustion and fatigue myself due to other reasons so i can understand what you’re going through and how you feel.” it’s okay to have questions about disorders and want to know more to maybe better situations you’re going through/ are in but just seeing one thing you relate to and claiming a whole disorder because of it can be very damaging to the people who have said disorders.

as someone with a cluster b personality disorder, there’s already so much stigma around them and that’s excluding all my other disorders/ problems. i’ve seen people who have no idea what BPD is, relate to a small portion of it, claim it as something they have with no research into it or professional advice, and then unknowingly play into stereotypes or spread more stigma about it. there’s so much more to a disorder than one or two things you see someone posting about. there’s also a lot of other things someone could have that also change how disorders present themselves in different people.

a person can have disorder A and vent about it but what you don’t know is that they also have disorder B, C, D, and E. although their main post is about disorder A, disorder C, D and E can also be big factors in it without you knowing. you might be relating more to the disorder C and E aspect of it over the “main” disorder A part of it than you really realize.

the purpose of me saying all this is not to be hateful, “gatekeep”, discourage people who genuinely have concerns, want to participate in genuine conversations about these topics, or for any other malicious reason. im just coming at this as a person to who’s genuinely really exhausted. it’s already so hard living with certain disorders and then you see people online who glorify, romanticize, or even fetishize certain disorders while cause harm to those people who genuinely suffer from it.

i stumbled upon someone’s post on a different platform and her whole shtick was “i have BPD but I’m uber normal abt it and not bat shit insane like literally everyone else who has it + having FPs is totally amazing and not super draining and exhausting” and it was honestly heartbreaking. her whole reasoning for having bpd was that she got obsessive over people she was in love with so therefore it was her FPs and got depressed if they didn’t spend time with her.

if you’re genuinely curious and have real concerns, please do your hardest to research it and/ or seek professional advice if possible. don’t put others who have the disorder down when they don’t meet or work with your agenda. thank you.

#actually ocd #actually bpd #actually autistic #actually mentally ill #actually delusional #actually adhd #actually bipolar #actually anxious #actually manic #mentally fucked #mentally unstable #mentally exhausted #bpd problems #bpd tag #bpd safe #bpd #bpd life #bpd things #bpd blog #bipolor #autism #adhd #borderline personality disorder #actually borderline #bpd vent #vent #vent post #borderline pd #cluster b

[borderline-culture-is]

bpd + moral ocd culture is wondering if u are being abusive, manipulative or too clingy in every display of affection you do

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#bpd + moral ocd culture is #bpd + moral ocd culture #borderline culture is #actually borderline #borderline personality disorder #bpd #bpd culture is #actually bpd #bpd culture #bpd safe #ocd #actually obsessive compulsive #moral ocd

[schizopositivity]

everyday i hear people publically say stuff like "sorry repeat that again i have adhd i have trouble consintrating"

but i dont feel safe saying "sorry repeat that again im schizophrenic i have trouble consintrating"

like yes being able to talk about some mental illnesses publically is a huge step forward and im happy for you

but i literally dont feel safe telling people publically that im schizophrenic due to the decades or longer of stigma

widespread mental health awareness completely ignores us schizophrenics when were the ones with horrible stigma and a long history of medical abuse

if you have a mental illness that is getting public awknoledgement congratulations, now do your part and stick up for the hidden side of the community

#yes im jealous i have a right to be #im kinda drunk ok the rants are coming out tonight #psychosis #schizophrenia #schizophrenic #nd #mental illness #neurodivergent #actuallyschizophrenic #pseriouslypsychotic #mental health #mental health awareness #adhd #autism #ocd #just tagging those cause those are the ones everyone talks about where its safe to talk about it in public

[seventh-district]

OCD will literally remove your brain's ability to register when a task is Complete and then create 10,000 incredibly ridiculous and extremely specific rules for you to follow in every single aspect of your life (to keep you safe, of course, it tells you.) and then tells you that if you don’t do them Correctly and Completely every single time it tells you to (it tells you countless times per day) then the Entire Fucking World Will End and then it’ll do this fucked up thing where it makes you believe that nonsense.

and then people that don’t have it will make silly little jokes about being soooooo OCD and make t-shirts with fun little acronyms on them like Obsessive Coffee Disorder and tell you how much they like it when things are organized and clean, too!!

and then you’re supposed to just. laugh. like you haven’t been robbed of your entire being and potential and been taken over by a mind and life altering disability

#PSA: don’t fucking tell me to Seek Therapy or Try Medication. i am Aware. i have Tried. it isn’t that fucking simple #and this is my blog. i’ll complain about my illnesses all i want to. if you don’t like it i strongly encourage you to unfollow me #ocd #actually ocd #cw ocd #cw mental illness #mental health stuff #Seven.txt #Obsessive Compulsive Disorder is actually SO goddamn insidious. and only ppl that have lived with it will understand that #it’s a terrible terrible thing. to have something ruin your entire life under the guise of keeping you safe #it’s like being abused by your own mind and i don’t say that lightly #okay. stopped crying long enough to get this post out of my brain and onto my blog #gonna put Walking Disaster on loop and return to my Mental Illness Floor Time now #if no one hears from me for a little while it’s not personal i just. need to not be a Person right now. i’m so tired

[a-sip-of-milo]

People seem to just. forget that being neurodivergent in itself is a disability? Autism, ADHD, OCD, eating disorders, personality disorders, DID/OSDD, etc. are ALL disabilities. More people need to realise this.

#neurodivergent #actually neurodivergent #adhd #ocd #cluster b safe #cluster a safe #cluster c safe