#women in relationships

[cooki3face]

I think I saw something earlier or last night that said that men who refuse to grow up will find women who suit their lifestyles and the mental age in which they would like to be instead of growing up, learning to be a man, learning to fulfill his role he’d rather not do the inner work and stick to a constant who will allow him to be immature and will enable him. There are so many situations (especially those I’ve seen first hand) where a man will act out, will mistreat a woman in his life, and often times his dream girl as well, and fumble that girl/woman and not be able to find what it is that he desires on a deeper level any longer or for a really long time. I’ve also seen in other instances men acting out and the women in their lives being hurt by them and mistreated by them and not being able to put their foot down and not settle for his behavior and that further agitates the situation and creates so many delays. I talked about something like this a really long time ago “men will be with/choose who they feel suits their lifestyle best” this doesn’t even always have to do with the physical manifestation of one’s lifestyle either (quality of life, hobbies, passions, or career choices and aspirations) this can greatly have to do with emotional shortcomings, bad behaviors, bad habits, unhealed aspects of one’s mind and inner self, etc.

He wants to lie, be deceptive, mistreat women in his life you may see him cling to someone whom he perceives to be or IS emotionally immature, someone who cannot hold him accountable without holding herself accountable for her lack of healing, shortcomings, habits/behaviors. Someone who struggles with a lack of self worth, self respect, perhaps someone who has people pleasing habits, who may not be capable of putting herself first or leaving in an effective way.

After all, we all embody the energy that we most often attract and as people we mirror each other and are attracted to one another through energetic frequencies. This is why we find we often come across people, friends, romantic relationships, sexual relationships or connections with others that cause deep and profound inner purging or emotional distress. Many of us have unhealed aspects and there are plenty of others whose issues cast light on our own. Those who choose to learn to be better and live a life that requires expansion and growth will learn and those who do not will remain in a space of stagnancy or create delays for oneself.

#men in relationships #women in relationships #healing #self love #self care #self improvement #dream girl #self discovery #self expression #healingjourney #self healing #manifestation #divine feminine #divine masculine #energetic frequencies #karmic relationships #soul ties #trauma #trauma bonding #heartbreak #relationships #relationship advice #shadow work #enlightenment #ascension #growth #people pleasing #attatchment #attatchment styles #healthy relationships

[subbyvirgo]

“Cum for me”.. “make a mess for me”.. “that’s it..that’s my good little slut” …🥵🥵 like yes please coach me through each and every orgasm.

#subby bunny #austin texas #bd/sm brat #bd/sm kink #black beauty #black tumblr #black women #subbyvirgo #bdsmblog #bd/sm relationship #bd/sm community #bd/sm breeding

[mauvefiles]

When a woman is consistently spoken to softly & treated gently, she becomes a new woman. You're helping her heal her nervous system, you're helping her heal generational trauma, you're allowing her feminine energy to flourish, you're helping her to remember who she is.

#black women in femininity #goddess energy #black femininity #hypergamy #high value dating #dating advice #relationship advice #self confidence

[tiffanyachings]

what i love about the queer women rep in tlt is that so much of it is just like. gideon reading her titty magazines but getting zero action. ianthe trying to kiss harrow and getting rejected. harrow begging a hallucination of a corpse to have sex with her and getting rejected. marta turning down judith, judith turning down corona, corona unsuccessfully flirting with camilla. nona's one-sided attraction to corona and camilla. camilla’s third-wheeling (x3) and plain lack of interest in getting it on with anyone. gideon and ianthe fighting over harrow when they’re both losing out to a frozen ice bimbo. ‘but she never gave you anything. you never got anywhere.’ ‘did you???’ << honestly sums it up.

#i want to see women FAIL. i want them to be visibly queer outside of a relationship #the locked tomb

[stargatelov3r]

I love characters that think they can't allow themselves to love or be loved

just to have someone stride into their life to turn that concept upside down

#like yisssss i live for that shit #so many of my fave characters/relationships #like #samantha carter #elizabeth weir #president t'rina #dana scully #kathryn janeway #see how all of these are women #i love women in case you haven't guessed as much yet

[wedarkacademia]

From my pov, every woman's love language revolves around not needing to ask.

#mine #words #quotes #original quote #dark academia #spilled words #spilled thoughts #dark aesthetic #book quotes #text #words words words #dark acadamia aesthetic #women #true words #life #relationship #relatable #truth #true story

[svdaily]

#valentines day #valentines aesthetic #soft life #soft landing #soft black women #black luxury #black girls in luxury #luxury lifestyle #hypergamy #wealthy lifestyle #black tumblr #mood board #princess treatment #gifts for her #relationship goals

[cooki3face]

Severely unpopular opinion but the use of purity culture in order to protect your children is not helpful and is incredibly dangerous and harmful. Not educating your children about sex, not allowing them to date when they come of age or start building their experience within their love lives is an issue. Dating and intimacy has always been somewhat difficult to navigate but it is especially difficult today. Your children should be dating when they are of age so you can coach them and help keep them safe and teach them the value of self love, of boundaries, what it means to be respected and valued, etc. people are robbing their children of valuable life experiences under the cover of keeping them safe or continuing to be in control of their children. This is especially popular in ethnic households and especially popular in ethnic households and communities who have daughters. There is no better way to teach your child the right values, to teach your child what it means to respect themselves and others, to teach your child how to create a safe space for themselves and others than to allow them to experience themselves and others. When you willingly make your child ignorant, when you willingly cover your child’s eyes and ears, when you willingly choose not to teach them certain lessons for your convenience, you send your child out into the world unprepared. Your job as a parent and as a caregiver is to raise them up to be prepared, and to keep them safe.

#self love #self care #self improvement #self discovery #dream girl #self expression #healingjourney #self healing #manifestation #dating #relationships #women in relationships #men in relationships #parenting #childhood healing #growing pains #teenagers

[gay-otlc]

Actually I think we should talk about how incredibly fucked up it is for sapphic women to say shit like "I'm no better than a straight man 😔" when attracted to a woman in a way that isn't 100% pure and wholesome, or act like men's attraction to women is inherently dirty, predatory, or objectifying.

#like i mostly get impacted from this as a straight trans man #and the way people- even my friends- have acted like my attraction to women is now morally worse since i came out as trans #but this also affects like. bi/mspec men? it's shitty to shame them for their attraction to women! #and even cishet men. acting like objectification or predatory behavior is just inherent to male attraction to women #let's shitty men off the hook because 'they can't help it' or whatever #or victim blames anyone abused by a cishet man because 'what did you expect from being in a relationship with him' #yeah so like. sapphics stop saying this challenge #transhet #anti-transmasculinity #again i'm tagging because that's my personal experience with that sentiment but it has a ton of other issues too #antimasculism

[billybills-world]

Cum watch me take a shower 🍆 💦💦

#bi selfie #gay men #trans women are beautiful #biseuxal #hot nude #trans girl #transgender #bi sex #gay man #bd/daddy's baby girl #bd​/sm daddy #bd/sm community #bd/sm relationship #bd/sm brat

[gent-illmatic]

Intimacy 💗

#muni long #moodboard #lovers #intimacy #beauty #gentillmatic #quiet luxury #i love you #i love her #i love him #black people #black beauty #black women #melanin beauty #melanin #black culture #black couple #relatable content #relationship #love core #brown #level up #aesthetic #vibrational energy #law of vibration #law of attraction #high vibration

[marzipanandminutiae]

as a woman who grew up with an emotionally abusive mother constantly telling me I needed to wear more makeup/more revealing clothing/date (boys) more/go out to "normal" parties more, I despise "she should be at the club"

god forbid some people- especially young women, who already have to deal with a thousand different behavioral standards from a thousand different directions -not have the same dreams and desires for their lives as you do for yours

fucking hell. the correct response to "women should stay at home and have kids and be submissive wives" prescriptivism was not MORE PRESCRIPTIVISM

(I also just saw a poll asking if people partied as teenagers, and OP responded that the answers were "killing them" because No was winning. like? why is everyone so personally invested in other people having a very specific kind of fun?)

#memes #s t o p telling women what to do #being the partying type does not automatically equal being a Free Independent Woman and vice versa #guess what? I'm a 30-year-old lesbian with no kids (yet) and a career and I have NEVER liked clubbing. #I didn't like it when I was 19 or 21 or 25 and I still don't like it now #(I do love my mother; we have a complicated relationship. but the fact is that she did some things fitting the definition of emotional abus

[femmefatalevibe]

Femme Fatale Guide: 15 Essential Business Skills Everyone Should Master

Articulate, confident communication

Crafting effective, compelling pitches

Operating and communicating through a solution-oriented framework

Research of all types (Google, market research, studies, polls, interpersonal conversations, etc.)

Learning how to streamline, edit, and organize information in a clear and logical way

Accumulating high-level working knowledge/proficiency in all tools and programs directly related to your type of work/industry

Budgeting and financial optimization (investment, tax benefits, etc.)

Reading and interpreting legal contracts/documents

Setting rates, boundaries, and learning when/how to delegate

Good posture, direct eye contact, and a firm handshake

Building streamlined systems for onboarding, different repeat project scopes/workflows, and KPI measuring

The art of following up, listening to (potential) clients' needs, asking thoughtful questions, and benefit-oriented salesmanship

Consistently reading, learning, and studying current events/cultural platforms/industry and field-related knowledge

How to spot customer/client/business partner red flags

Self-management, task/project prioritization, and optimization of your personal energy clock + levels

#femmefatalevibe #business tips #career advice #career path #career goals #professionalism #women business #female writers #female entrepreneurs #professional development #personal development #relationship advice #people skills #social skills #life lessons #higher self #personal growth #boundaries #self esteem #self confidence #conflict resolution #communication skills #interpersonal communication