i want
sometimes, you just want something so hard you have to lie about it, so you can hold it in your mouth for a minute
most days i want to live
to experience
how real hunger has a real taste
most days the garden‘s almost enough.
your vulnerability
little pink flowers
on the sage, even though
the man said we couldnt‘t eat it. not this kind.
and i said,
then, gosh, what‘s the point?
not all days. but most days i do
but
i don‘t want
to be vulnerable
in a field i am the absence of field.
this is always the case.
wherever i am
i am what is missing
do you love me enough that i may be
vulnerability is courage in you and inadequacy in me
weak
with you? do you love me
i‘m drawn
stripped of everything
to your vulnerability but
that might be lost, for only
the things i will
have
repelled by mine
for ever?
Dancing Greatly, Brené Brown | 《山河令》 Word of Honor (2021) | Lies About Sea Creatures, Ada Limón | Most Days I Want To Live, Gabrielle Calvocoressi | Keeping Things Whole, Mark Strand | Essays In Love, Alain de Botton
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Alain de Botton, Essays in Love [transcript in ALT]
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“Do you love me enough that I may be weak with you? Everyone loves strength, but do you love me for my weakness? That is the real test.”
— Alain de Botton, “On Love: A Novel”
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
Alain de Botton, Essays in Love
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Loneliness is the space between you and the people you want to be close to.
-- Alain de Botton
(Palma de Mallorca, Spain)
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The values captured in art shouldn’t remain in the museum - they should go with us into the playroom.
- Alain de Botton, Art as Therapy
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
Alain de Botton,
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The most interesting faces generally oscillate between charm and crookedness. There is a tyranny about perfection, a certain tedium even, something that asserts itself with all the dogmatism of a scientific formula. The more tempting kind of beauty has only a few angles from which it may be seen, and then not in all lights and at all times. It flirts dangerously with ugliness, it takes risks with itself, it does not side comfortably with mathematical rules of proportion, it draws its appeal from precisely those details that also lend themselves to ugliness.
Alain de Botton, from 'Essays in Love'
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sevdiğini ilan etmek, eksik olduğunu, iğdiş edildiğini ilan etmektir. sevmek sahip olmadığınız bir şeyi vermektir.
bruce fink - lacan'da aşk
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Alain de Botton, Essays in Love [transcript in ALT]
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Forse è proprio vero che di fatto non esistiamo finchè non c’è qualcuno che ci vede esistere, che non parliamo finchè qualcuno non è in grado di comprendere ciò che diciamo; in sintesi, che non siamo del tutto vivi finchè non siamo amati.
Alain de Botton, Esercizi d'amore, 1993
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
Alain de Botton, Essays in Love
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“Anyone who isn't embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn't learning enough.”
— Alain de Botton
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