How to be happy with yourself
How to be happy with yourself. Self Improvement Training
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She watched him with a kind of gratified awe. He'd been barely able to read when he'd arrived, but the goblin boy had set out to improve his reading as a boxer trains for a fight. And he was fighting something, but she wasn't sure in her own mind what it was and, of course, her Ladyship never explained. He would sit all night under the lamp, book of the moment in front of him, dictionary and thesaurus on either side, wringing the meaning out of every word, punching ceaselessly at his own ignorance.
Terry Pratchett, Unseen Academicals
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The current illustration I'm working on is based on this oc of mine, my Obey Me MC Isadore who I designed to look like a calico cat 🥺
He's a male witch who lives in a remote cabin and mainly works as a tarot card artist, and he has a pet cat named Sasha who likes to roll around in magic residue and knock things over
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I’ve had soulanii blocked for almost a year ++ now maybe and here’s why. She stayed friends with these freaks for so long, who BTW were also nasty fucking bullies (I should know, I am one of the people who cut ties with them for a start and for A VERY BIG REASON) they are hateful with a capital H.
the fact that she’s hidden her identity and changed her blog this many times should be a red flag in itself:
she’s NEVER reached out to apologise to anyone (that I know of) and has even been caught interacting with people she SHOULD apologise to... but people are gonna defend her because she seems nice I guess.
Well I think she’s actually really fucking insidous. If you do something wrong you should try to make it right, not hide and pretend none of it ever happened.
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Welcome to the new digs. I’ve created a new tumblr as part of a consolidation of my media presence. I’ll be adding things here and there and posting more often. The old Freedom City tumblr will remain active at johnirathomas.tumblr.com, but johnirathomas.com will point here. I’ll keep you up to date on exciting projects like, well…
There’s this handsome devil, out just before Thanksgiving, 2023. It’s the first in the Candle Light Press Classical line. Kulseth and Larmour draw a line connecting modern Brazilian Jiu Jitsu and ancient pankration fighting. It may be the first such book written by at least one person who’s been in a proper fight or three. I served as editor and saw this work through production. It’s an incredibly interesting work and I hope you’ll check it out.
Here’s their blurb:
What has Brazilian Jiu Jitsu to do with the Ancient Greeks? A lot, according to Joshua Kulseth and David Larmour, investigating the connections between the Greek pankration and contemporary BJJ and MMA. They argue that today's Brazilian Jiu Jitsu gyms, training, and competitions offer the closest modern analogy to Ancient Greek wrestlers and pankratiasts and to the ideals of Greek agonism embodied in the Olympic Games.
Their book, Agony: Brazilian Jiu Jitsu and the Greeks combines Kulseth's first-person narrative of experience in combat sports with Larmour's expertise in ancient Greek athletics, literature and mythology, and is illustrated by original artwork by Jeremy Smith.
When we struggle today for self-improvement or victory in Brazilian Jiu Jitsu and Mixed Martial Arts, the ancient Greeks walk among us-not only the ordinary citizens of Athens or Sparta doing their daily training in the local palaestra, but also famous athletes like Milo and Arrichion, heroes of myth like Odysseus and Heracles, poets like Pindar and Sophocles, and even gods like Zeus and Prometheus.
The ISBN is 978-0989537155 and is available or orderable anywhere books are sold.
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"The Worst Cardio Mistakes Everyone Makes For Fat Loss (Avoid These)"
Surprisingly intelligent and not click baity, despite the title lol. Check out his channel, he's an excellent resource!
Basically this video shows evidence for balance of strength and cardio, while giving real world examples and solutions.
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the Nightmare Side Weiss is clearly not supposed to be Weiss herself but an amplified manifestation of all her worst qualities created by the Nightmare (so extremely arrogant, bigoted and her physical appearance - lacking the scar and asymmetrical hair - ties back to her need to be ‘perfect’); an obstacle that RBY must defeat in order to free Weiss but also as an obstacle for Weiss as a manifestation of what she has to overcome to become a better person that, thanks to the Nightmare, is refusing to let her do so so she’ll keep generating negativity for it to feed on until it has no further use for her
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Okay like, I think it'd be too long to put in the tags of the last post so I'm making my own post but ngl that method helped me A LOT. It helped me unlearn So Much stuff by having that first thought, interrogating it, and replacing it. Cuz way back, the thing I'd do is have the first thought, hate myself for it, never try to have it again which isn't helpful At All. And then I reached a point in my life where it was like, have the first thought, avoid it, which is just as worse.
And then last year, when I realized A Lot of stuff bout me, I had to work on unlearning so much during then and like okay, this is like treading the territory of "you gotta be unwell a lil bit to heal" typa thing, like imagining your favourite characters Right There. But mine is like, a lil to the left. Cuz when I realized all the stuff I gotta unlearn, there wasn't any character from a media that can count for that just yet (I got hyperfixated on Cain months after the realization but if I've known him earlier he would've ngl took on the patron saint role in my life of unlearning unhealthy stuff)
So what I did was... used an OC. It wasn't Alec and Ray surprisingly enough cuz in my head they have their own lives and it was a lil harder for me to put them in that role. And it just so happens I have One OC that is specifically made with an awareness that makes it seem like he's a self-insert but not really. It's Alerik. The designated creator of the universe that is practically aware of the truth behind that universe and his own existence so it was easier to pull him. And it worked.
Cuz whenever I do the have first thought, interrogate it, replace it thing, I can't get it right in a way that when I think of interrogating Myself, my brain's immediate reaction is always "hatred" so then when I got Alerik to do the interrogation, my brain couldn't react immediately cuz it isn't just Me, there's Alerik now and he's both me and not at the same time, he's a piece of me. That I love. So my brain couldn't react with "hatred" towards a character I made with love, it worked. I could interrogate myself, figure out "why" I reacted the way I did, "why" I had that first thought, and what I could do moving forward without hating myself or avoiding anything. And I love it. Cuz after a year of just that, slow and steady, I managed to unlearn most of the bad habits and get rid of the self-hate. I love myself now! And the world! And everything just seems so much beautiful this way.
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The basics steps of being graceful:
Cultivating elegance involves a combination of physical grace, refined manners, and a poised demeanor. Here are some tips:
1. **Posture:** Maintain good posture. Stand and sit up straight, conveying confidence and grace.
2. **Grooming:** Keep yourself well-groomed. Pay attention to personal hygiene, skincare, and tasteful grooming.
3. **Clothing Choices:** Choose well-fitted and appropriate clothing. Classic and timeless styles often convey elegance.
4. **Polished Appearance:** Pay attention to details like manicured nails, clean shoes, and minimal accessories for a polished look.
5. **Speech and Vocabulary:** Speak clearly and use a well-modulated tone. Expand your vocabulary and express yourself eloquently.
6. **Graceful Movements:** Move with purpose and grace. Avoid hurried or abrupt motions.
7. **Mindful Gestures:** Be mindful of your gestures. Subtle and controlled movements contribute to an elegant presence.
8. **Cultivate Poise:** Develop emotional intelligence and maintain composure in various situations.
9. **Courtesy and Kindness:** Treat others with respect and kindness. Display good manners and consideration.
10. **Confidence, Not Arrogance:** Elegance is about confidence, not arrogance. Be self-assured without being boastful.
11. **Educate Yourself:** Stay informed about current events, culture, and various topics to engage in meaningful conversations.
12. **Cultural Awareness:** Be aware of and respectful toward different cultures, customs, and traditions.
Remember that elegance is a subjective quality, and it's about being your best self in a poised and refined manner. Continuously work on personal development, and embrace a mindset of grace and kindness.
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