#self reflect

[brownsugar4hersoul]

“Don't just learn, experience.

Don't just read, absorb.

Don't just change, transform.

Don't just relate, advocate.

Don't just promise, prove.

Don't just criticize, encourage.

Don't just think, ponder.

Don't just take, give.

Don't just see, feel.

Don’t just dream, do.

Don't just hear, listen.

Don't just talk, act.

Don't just tell, show.

Don't just exist, live.”

| Roy T. Bennett | The Light in the Heart |

#brownsugar4hersoul #roy t. bennett #note to self #daily reminder #self reminder #reminder to self #reminders #reminder #reminder to myself #self care reminder #remind yourself #life reminders #life reflections #deep thoughts #deep thinking #deep quotes #self reflection #self reflect #life advice #life lesson #soul candy #soul searching #self growth #life lessons #always remember #keep in mind #quotes to remember #remember this #life quotes #self care

[dyke-on]

"We want more queer media!" *Queer media exists* "Ugh this is literally the worst most cringe thing ever if you like this DNI and it's problematic because reasons"

#don't think this ain't you #self reflect

[inmyperfectworld]

Your dating choices are a reflection of how you feel about yourself (self-perception/self-esteem).🪞

#black tumblr #harsh truth #it's true #it's true though #it's true tho #self reflection #self reflect #self realization #self perception #self esteem #my words #my thoughts #my real life #my reality #random thoughts #random blog #thought provoking #sit and reflect #self reflecting #reflect #dating #relationship choices #relationship

[pricklypear1997]

This is gonna sound so cringe, but I think the reason why for 7 years of reading ASOIAF, I was in denial about the subtle hint of Arya and Gendry’s budding romance is because I relate so much to Arya and I’ve always been fighting against the thought of love, intimacy and marriage because I too have felt like it’s been pushed on me since I was a child… seriously. I know we live in the 21st century, but people love forcing heterosexual romance (and romance in general, even) down their children’s throats. It’s more common than people admit, it’s just more subtle these days. As a young woman, I’ve always been told and expected to grow up one day and fall in love (with a man specifically) and have children later in life. I have seen and experienced a lot of things no child should and I have detachment issues as well as very poor self esteem. Like Arya, I feel ugly and have ptsd as well as severe depression. The idea of trusting another person, being intimate and in love with them is terrifying for me. I read Arya’s chapters and I see a traumatized girl who’s lost her family, has seen cruelty face to face, has had to kill in self defense and has been told her whole life that her freedom, feelings and body are not worthy of respect and protection. She’s also at war with herself and her identity (something I too very much struggle with in result by being adopted by a narcissistic emotionally abusive parent of a different background than me), so how can someone so unbalanced, scared and unhealthy like herself be ready to fall in love? It has to come out, in her own time eventually. It’s a hard lesson I’ve had to learn, but all humans long for companionship and family. We need it. It’s wired in our brains to find it, no matter how much we protest. The problem is when others constantly force it and create expectations that make us feel constricted and trapped. Arya needs to feel free, (I need to feel free). Gendry makes Arya feel free. He accepts her for who she is, wholly. He appreciates all her unique qualities and difficult personality to an insane degree, and that right there is true love. She also seems feel the same way for him, but unlike him, is so unaware of it… I want this romance to grow slowly. Let it simmer for a while. Don’t make them get together immediately. Arya still has a lot of healing to do. To an extent, I wish for something like this to happen to me in the future. Reading the series makes me hopeful. Reading about a character I deeply relate to on another level does help me understand myself better, and I appreciate George R R Martin for writing such an awesome dynamic character like Arya… I couldn’t thank him enough. All the characters he writes are very interesting, even the ones I despise and I feel we can all and should self reflect and learn from a Song of Ice and Fire.

A reminder; Read the books, forget the show.

#george r r martin #grrm #asioaf #ramblings #i relate so much to Arya you will never understand lol #a song of ice and fire #arya stark #gendry x arya #gendry baratheon #slow romance #budding romance #psychology #trauma #fantasy #lore #asoiaf lore #asoiaf meta #game of thrones #shower thoughts #self reflect #character development #good character writing #how to write trauma #compelling storytelling #personal #interpersonal relationships

[houseofpurplestars]

This is super easy, yall. If you don't like a thing, curate your own experience. If you still see it, well, learn to live with it.

You know what is triggering to me? Pregnancy. The words b*tch and c*nt. Shit people say and talk about literally all the time. Do i go around policing it like a fascist? No i mind my fucking business. Have some self control and please stop ruining everyone's day. I promise you everyone is doing their best in this shitty world.

#renfield #dracula #vent #yall absolutely have to stop #self reflect #mind your damn business

[missysippiiiee]

My toxic trait: I unintentionally say hurtful shit when I'm upset and then regret it later — which then, makes me even more upset. 🤦🏻‍♀️😅🤣

Your turn. 🔁

#my toxic trait #compulsive thoughts #personal improvement #self reflect #sorry lol #so rude #your turn to shine

[themandalalady]

22-304 Reflect

Today’s MandalaReflect “Life is a mirrorand will reflect backto the thinkerwhat he thinks into it.” — Ernest Holmes “How we thinkshows through in how we act.Attitudes are mirrors of the mind.They reflect thinking.” — David Joseph Schwartz “Like water which can clearly mirrorthe sky and the treesonly so long as its surfaceis undisturbed,the mind can only reflectthe true image of the Selfwhen it…

View On WordPress

#6x6 #abstract mandala #ink drawing #mandala #mandala art #mandala artist #mandala drawing #mirror #mixed media art #mixed media artist #pen and ink #reflect #self reflect #the mandala lady #warm colors

[ticapuravida]

#cat mom #cat daddy #cute cats #cats of tumblr #cute animals #i love cats #caturday #cat videos #cats #self reflection #self reflect #respect #Youtube

[selfhealingmoments]

#mental health #self reflection #be yourself #self improvement #self help #new life #letting go #inspirational quotes #new beginnings #positivity #therapy #self therapy #survival #emotional support #life lessons

[kforkira]

#horrormovies #horrorfilms #horrorshows #films #film #movie #movies #reflection #mirror #look in the mirror #self reflection #self reflect

[controlled-haterade]

.

#im not getting involved with this cuz some of yall are visibly frothing at the mouth #but some of yall clearly weren't on twitter as ur social media of choice when elon took over #i promise you #tumblr is not worse #than twitter right now #and if you wish anybody dead on any website you get banned #i know because it happened to me like 6 times on twitter #so like #self reflect #jesus

[neptunejheart]

It's their ego. Don't take it personally.

#like bro #self reflect #im glad we can talk tho

[spillthethought]

👥

#bro #bts #onepunchman #goodvibes #photography #portrait #bwfilmphotography #bwportrait #bw #raw #self reflect #brother #lil bro

[kinzzatariq]

10 Steps to Self Reflect At End Of The Year!

Reflecting on the end of the year can be a valuable exercise for personal growth, self-awareness, and planning for the future. Here are some steps you can follow to effectively reflect on the end of the year: 1. Review your goals: Look back at the goals you set for the year. Consider what you accomplished, what you didn’t, and why. Reflect on the progress you’ve made and identify any goals that…

View On WordPress

#Blogging #Karachi #Kinnzayyy #New Beginnings #New Goals #New Year #Pakistan #Self Reflect #Women Who Write #Writer&039;s Community

[magicinmyboness]

Three things that bring me joy.

1. I enjoy my own company. I just lie down, watch tv, read a book, write/scribble all the pain and tear them to pieces or talk to myself.

2. Watching travel reels/videos makes me dot all the places I wish to travel to when I get self sustainable, financially. It makes me dream of beautiful places and makes me crave to work hard.

3. Dal Chawal with Papad and Pickle — I can lease out my life until death for this deadly combo. Only meal that I would look forward to. It’s sunshine on a plate. The joy of slurping this beaut is unmatchable to everything else, even biriyani.

#self reflect #microtale #selflove #love #life

[bunnygirllover45]

Here's my own tutorial on how to sleep with your kidnapped victim partner. I did not take comfort as factor btw I think this was a trend?? I don't know I just remember seeing similar drawings before.

#yandere #male yandere #yandere boy #yandere oc #original character #original art #not me self-reflecting on my drawings again