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kitten-forward · 6 months

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mirroringshards · 7 months

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sorry for being mentally ill and actually having symptoms it will happen again xoxo

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autopsyfreak · 22 days

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tired of people on tiktok acting like BPD and HPD are the ‘good cluster b disorders’ or the ‘victim cluster b’s’ meanwhile NPD and ASPD are the ‘evil mean abusive cluster b’s’

stfu.

we’re in the same cluster for a reason, you can’t support some whilst demonising the others.

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vixen-angel · 17 days

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purposely putting yourself in danger, or being visibly sad so maybe someone might ask if youre doin alright.. but then nobody bats an eye.

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gods-saunter-vaguely-downwards · 1 month

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my anger has consumed me, it has made me horribly bitter. Which means I am every bit as bad as my mother.

#but no really #I can’t even have a normal conversation anymore #especially with my mother #npd #actually npd #actually narcissistic #npd safe #npd positivity #cluster b #cluster b safe #actually cluster b #neurodivergent #vent

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your-queer-dad · 2 months

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Here's 20 realistic reasons not to kill yourself today. Remember, anything that keeps you alive and keeps going is enough.

1. We would miss you. I would miss you.

2. Think of all the ice cream flavours you haven't tried yet, or the food combinations you haven't tried.

3. You can't discover a new favourite song if you're dead

4. Imagine all the funny moments you'd miss, all the pointless celebrity twitter fights or the niche internet drama, all the strangers tripping in the street

5. Imagine proving people wrong and going fuck you, watching all the people who doubted you be completely wrong

6. you'll never have finished decorating your room, or your wardrobe, or your collection, you'll always have something unfinished that's worth finishing

7. You'll never be able to meet your internet friends or heroes in real life

8. Imagine how many cool outfits you would miss out on wearing, how many people would think "damn that's a cool outfit" as you pass them on street

9. Your social media accounts will stay unfinished

10. What if your favourite TV show gets a second series? You'll never know how it ends

11. You'll never get to meet a potential best friend or partner

12. You'll never get to be all the fucking awesome versions of yourself you could be

13. You have games to win and arrogant people to prove wrong

14. You'll never get to watch hour favourite movie again, or realise a crucial detail that adds a whole new meaning to it

15. You never get to see the world become a better place if you're not in it.

16. You never get to try new things with your style, your hair or makeup

17. You never get to get that tattoo, or that piercing, or that really cool piece of clothing

18. think of all the debates you would miss out on winning, the feeling of pride swelling in your chest

19. You miss out on trying a new hobby or a new opportunity

20. Your pets wouldn't understand where you went.

Are these all relatively small things? Yeah. But what's important is that you see tomorrow. You give yourself one day more, go to bed and wake up tomorrow. That's what's important, not what happens in a week or a month or a year, just that you get through today and give yourself another chance.

It's okay if it takes you 10,000 'one more days' to get to 'i can't wait for tomorrow'. It's okay if the suicidal thoughts never leave as long as you wait until later and you stay alive now.

I love you. I care about you. I would miss you. Just give yourself another day.

#lgbt #finch rambles #lgbtq #lgbtqia #trans #transgender #queer positivity #trans joy #trans kids #tw suicide #suic1de #suicidal thoughts #teen mental health #actually mentally ill #mentally tired #tw vent #tw sui ideation

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cpressmn · 2 years

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i’m about to start gatekeeping interacting with fic authors from a lot of y’all. u need to learn how to behave

“i need more” “pls continue this” “when are you posting the next bit” why don’t you try showing some proper appreciation for what’s already written before you go demanding more!!!

a lot of time and energy goes into each piece of writing and it is incredibly disappointing for the primary feedback to be “give me more!” if you’re trying to motivate authors to continue, this kind of response has the opposite effect.

you know what is motivating? specific praise.

let me break it down for you.

How To Leave A Comment Without (Unintentionally) Sounding Like A Pri- [GUNSHOT]

point out a few specific things you liked about the fic and why. how it made you feel.

highlight a line or two or three that stuck out to you.

if it’s an incomplete work, express excitement at seeing where they’re going — without a demand for more.

it’s quite simple, and it doesn’t even have to be a long thing. this can be done in a hundred words or less.

and yeah, it takes effort. takes a bit of time. but fandom is about mutual support. it’s about community.

fic authors are not celebrities who don’t even see your attempts to get their attention. there is a real person on the other side of that screen living a real life, and if you want to encourage them in their craft and properly motivate them to write, try treating them like a fucking human being.

authors put in hours to create content (that only ends up not being truly appreciated). i think you can spare a few minutes to leave a detailed, thoughtful comment in turn.

idk just a semi-friendly reminder that authors don’t owe you shit actually

#the entitlement is truly staggering sometimes #with all the respect that is due….what makes you think you get to ask for more content? what have you done to deserve it? to welcome it?#also if you’ve studied any kind of human behavior ever then you know that positive reinforcement does HEAPS better than whatever tf these #demands could be classified as.#shine talks #shine vents actually. WHEW #just a little bit worked up!! very upsetting to see talented people put in so much and receive so little in return.#this is my formal request for y’all to start doing better #.txt #fanfics #fanfic comments #and for anyone saying i’m being too harsh: i said unintentionally :/#if this is you then congrats! this is a safe space to fail at it. now’s when you learn and change your behavior. that’s all

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bpdcodone · 20 days

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I hate when people act like there better than me like no your not. Sit the fuck down

#cluster b #bpd life #npd?#covert npd #npd problems #did system #npd vent #npd positivity #npd things #npd posting #npd traits #actually npd #npd safe #npd #npd culture is #system #narcissistic personality disorder

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honeypleasejustkillme · 1 year

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i am unwell, and not in the cute and quirky unwell like the crying myself to sleep every night unwell

#actually bpd #actually mentally ill #bpd #bpd shitposting #actually borderline #bpd fp #bpd favorite person #bpd vent #bpd mood #bpd problems #i am going through it y’all #please send me positive vibes or something cuz i’m truly about to kms

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mirroringshards · 7 months

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you have any fucking word in the dictionary to describe your abuse. please stop using the one that describes a personality disorder

#and directly puts the blame on mentally ill people #npd vent #npd positivity #npd things #npd culture is #actually npd #narcissistic abuse #malignant narcissism #narcisst #narcissistic personality disorder #narcissism #narc abuse #actually narcissistic #npd #narcissist #npd safe

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autopsyfreak · 21 days

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seeing NPD + ASPD positivity posts on any other platform being met with literal thousands of people flooding the comments to try and justify their ableism and discriminatory behaviour towards us is so fucking gut wrenching

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gremlinwithakeyboard · 7 months

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brain is going on another wild ride tonight and I want off please

#i want to be able to help and do stuff #but I am too much of a nervous wreck to do anything #surely I will be in a better position to help others if I sort myself out first #actually ocd #ocd memes #intrusive thoughts #vent post

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truthful-apologiesxoxo · 2 months

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Edgy 14 year olds trying not to self diagnose themselves with ASPD because they relate to the Joker

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raging-guanche · 1 year

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are you a infantilized "poor baby" autistic or a demonized freak autistic?

#autistic transmasc #autistic transfem #autistic trans #autistic spectrum #autism awareness #autistic acceptance #autistic #actually autistic #autistic positivity #autistic pride #autistic problems #autistic things #autistic vent #being autistic #autism #actually autism #asd

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ed-recoverry · 1 year

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Daily reminder that your body shouldn’t look the same as did when you were 14. It’s not a matter of gaining or losing weight from that age, it’s the fact that your body literally changes over the years. Especially in your teens. It’s just how bodies work. Don’t punish yourself for something you have no control of.

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overkonsumption · 3 months

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growing up intersex was weird (especially since i had “normal” genitalia and sexual organs so i had no idea for a WHILE), like my mom got me girls clothes but during puberty they just never fit right bc i had more “masculine” fat distribution and even plus size women’s clothes didn’t fit right, it felt like i was denied the chance to have clothes that made me feel nice (didn’t help that i was poor and plus size clothes need a lot of improvement style-wise anyways)

when i started getting my period it was hell, i usually ended up staying home at least one or two days per month because of how bad the pain was. it got better when i started birth control, but that made my dysphoria worse so i stopped when i started t (WHICH STOPPED MY PERIOD ENTIRELY ON MONTH TWO!!!!!)

anyways remember that intersex ppl are so cool and awesome and even though i don’t have ambiguous internal or external genitalia ppl who do go through way worse stuff!! intersex ppl deserve medical equality and clothes that fit and periods that don’t make us throw up from pain and so much love

#actually intersex #hyperandrogenism #rambles #intersex positivity #very minor vent in the beginning but it’s more sharing my experience than anything #menstruation cw #ftm

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