#toxic community

[wesleysniperking]

It amazes me how much Zoro fans are willing to defend Zoro’s “6-month long” fight with Lucci. Whereas when it comes to Usopp’s “10 years of uselessness” they’re just quick to not consider that not much time has actually passed in the OP world. So, I guess Zoro’s given more grace since he’s the second main character of One Piece. And the “not much time has passed in the OP world” reasoning is only justifiable when it comes to him.

Got it.

#zoro fans and power scalers couldn’t handle the scrutiny and trolls #meanwhile Usopp fans experience this on a regular basis #I don’t dislike zoro but again #as I’ve said in previous posts #the fandom loves to alienate him from the rest #this doesn’t apply to every zoro fan #I’ve been on Reddit and YouTube a lot so… #the hypocrisy is real #Usopp #one piece #manga #anime #zoro vs Lucci #Dressrosa #zoro v Lucci #egghead arc #zoro #roronoa zoro #sniper king #usopp one piece #op usopp #usopp op #one piece fandom #toxic community

[pixiatn]

Ngl if I was the creator of a popular piece of media and had "fans" trying to dictate what is and isn't valid in the community (headcanons, ships/rairpairs, stuff like that) and then they started lying on my name saying shit like "um, the creator said -insert character- is xyz☝🏽🤓" Id just start reblogging the most nonsensical ship art, make official art of my own, start randomly saying "canon" under headcanons post, maybe kill off a character as punishment

#toxic fandom #fandom spaces #toxic fanbase #toxic community #itd be like when a teachers pet is like #guys she said be quiet🥺 #then the teachers like -i dont need an echo thank you- #and shuts they ass up

[girlwithshipsshitshow]

The way people hate the movie because it’s “queerbait” and the actors aren’t part of the “lgbt+” community” so sorry… SO SORRY PEOPLE HAVE TO COME OUT TO BE IN A GAY MOVIE!! pretty sure you can’t ask people, pretty sure no wants to share their sexuality to be part of a movie that’s so good. Sorry we don’t get movies are shows like this often?!!

Guess people still haven’t learned from the kit Connor situation.

THE LGBT+ community is literally so toxic sometimes

#red white and royal blue #this pissed me off #i hate this #toxic community

[thedarkcrystopilisempire]

Another Update to My Latest Adventure Series Community Updates please hear this out

Link:

#message #toxic community #Adventure series community #Poohs adventure series community toxic

[ashsirens]

All the evidence that shows Lumine is indeed a canon protagonist.

Like these old times, with Sumeru's promotions, Lumine's players have again been put aside and again we had to face antipathy and mockery from some Aether's players.

As I saw that a lot of Lumine's players started to feel insecure about their own games, I wrote this article to prove that contrary to popular belief, Lumine is indeed a canon protagonist and that if ever others toxic Aether's stans come bother you, you can get them this post.

1. The trailers and the concept art

Many people have said that Lumine can’t be the canon protagonist because according to them, Lumine was not an option in the beta.

After some research I can tell you that this argument is false. Lumine was in early development concepts arts of the game as an MC with paimon. She is 100% intended to be an MC/protag by the devs. Heres the early devs concept art :

As surprising as it may seem, official trailers prove it too. In the beginning of the game the trailers show Lumine with the title traveler right next to her. And for those who are going out "Yeah but it was only at the beginning of the game it has since changed". There is a third trailer where she shown as a traveler in Liyue with Paimon during the lantern festival.

2. The manga

Yes. You read correctly. And then you say to yourself : "But how the favorite argument of annoying Aether’s stans is a proof that Lumine is a mc ?" Well this is where we will see that some do not pay attention to the dialogues of the game. (Arguments found on @Genshin_Kineli on Twitter, who makes very good Genshin Impact character theories and analysis content.)

Aether in the manga isn't the Aether at the start of the game because:

1) Paimon is not here to prove to us that we see the traveler. As the game cutscenes go through, it is displayed that Paimon appears in most of them when it comes to the main story.

2) In the manga, Venti use his old Lyre "der Himmel", it’s the same lyre which as been preserved in the church during the Dvalin's arc in the game. While in the game, he use his other Lyre "der Frühling".

3. Aether’s outfit.

The tones of his outfit show that he does not resonate with any elements. And no it’s not geo.

Geo is yellow. Here it’s orange. His outfit in the manga is the same as his outfit by default on his anemo card. Which it’s not logical because like we can see in the game when he resonates with anemo, his outfit takes on turquoise tones.

4. The quest "We will be reunited" let us know that it was MC's sibling who travelled trough Teyvat before.

Plus, Venti's speech at the end of the prologue of the manga :

He wonders if the world became a little bit stronger thanks to Vennessa's perseverance and actions that gave more freedom to Mondstadt but justice as well.

This gives an insight that the Mondstadt within the manga is peaceful instead of seeing the archons being target of the Fatui noor seing the Abyss Order doing their revendous to attack the cities or so.

So it’s possible that the Abyss twin has awakened first, has travelled Teyvat, has acquired all the knowledge to have (for the future abyss order), then comes Khaenri'ah destruction, he/she wake up the Traveler Twin then when the latest gets captured, trying to save him/her, the Abyss Twin becomes mad.

In conclusion, unlike everyone's believe, the manga implies it’s Aether the leader of the abyss and not Lumine.

After, like I said it’s open to interpretation.

3. The Web Events

Yes, the web events is also canon, there is even one with Lumine and Venti who was released before the game comes out, which shows that Lumine was well designed for being the protagonists from the starts.

#genshin impact #video games #gaming #manga #webtoon #genshin impact lumine #genshin impact aether #lumine #aether #toxic fandom #toxic community #Youtube

[huniegloom]

It honestly makes me sad how I just realized how no one really took the time to get to know me and who Im truly am as a person. People only cherry picked certain aspects of things like material things and gone off on that only to shame me for later when I don’t fit the imaginary label they made up for me. I felt like I was forced to play a role that I never auditioned for. Only for them to fire when they realize I didn’t fit the part then they infantilize me or treat me as an zoo animal to laugh at or take advantage of. I’m tired of the attention being centered on me all the time when I’m not even trying. It’s like no wonder I’m burnt out all the time I can’t even catch a break at home and when I’m not performing for them I’m trying to be “edgy” or some bullshit. Like hey believe it or not I probably would’ve been a lot more bubbly and energetic if I wasn’t constantly treated like I’m not human for things that made everyone else “human”. It took me a while to realize that who I am is normal I mirror the people around me so I need to find people who treat everyone equally that and don’t hang out with deranged losers who make fun of people to make themselves feel “normal”

#actually autistic #autizzy #autistic pride #I’m glad people avoid me #but I hate that when #I go off to do my own thing #and ignore it #they don’t like it either #hypocrite #i swear #all hypocrites #tw abelism #tw bullying #toxic people #toxic family #toxic community

[orbitalsockets]

I'd like to share something that recently happened to me that I think could be a learning experience.

I joined a discord for a streamer that I like yesterday. I was hyped to join, I love their work and their vibe and I was stoked to meet new people. However, this streamer is in a relationship with another well known person in the gaming community.

In a video that came out recently, the streamer's partner kept touching them despite repeatedly being told to stop. While I am FULLY aware that I have no concept of what their relationship dynamic is, I was concerned. It wasn't a level of discomfort that lended to any need for legal intervention or what have you from what was seen, but with many people (especially AFAB people) being thrust into uncomfortable situations for the sake of someone else's (usually a cis guy's) content, I was concerned. Not to the point that I was going to jump into a wellness call or scream about it on the internet, but enough that I was a little worried.

Now, before I get into everything, I want to own my side of this : I recognize and accept entirely that I could have been wrong. I would like to hope that no person would upload a video of themselves voiding someone else's consent - But yall have seen YouTube. In addition to this, in the job I work, I engage with people from a wide range of ages and part of my training is to recognize discomfort or anxiety in those I'm engaging with, and ensuring that they're safe in whatever way I can, which is hard to turn off. To me, watching the video and seeing something sus isn't reaching or trying to cause problems, it's me doing what I do everyday. I fully recognize that this could have very much influenced my perspective, and at no point did I intend to cause discomfort. My goal, whether it's one of my people, a friend or a person in media, is to make sure people are okay and to point out when it seems they may not be. (Also I apparently brought this up on their birthday which is EXCLUSIVELY my bad.)

So, I asked about the video in the person's discord. I said they looked uncomfortable in the video, that I could 110% be misinterpreting, misreading or unintentionally reaching, and that if they WERE uncomfortable, I hoped they were okay. I didn't message them directly or @ them for two reasons : a) there were specific rules against it, and b) that within itself felt creepy to do regardless of my intention. I broke no rules in the server through asking.

The amount of legitimate aggression I faced from one of their mods for saying this was absolutely gobsmacking. My message was deleted, I was spoken to as if I was a child, and I was talked down to in front of the ENTIRE discord, which is over 1000 people. The main point I was told was that I was being parasocial and "unhealthy", to which I'd like to address two points.

1) The definition of parasocial is "a kind of psychological relationship experienced by an audience in their mediated encounters with performers in the mass media, particularly on television and on online platforms." EVERY relationship with a celebrity of ANY. FORMAT. as a fan is inherently parasocial.

2) Are we just supposed to avoid speaking up about someone looking uncomfortable in a video? Fans can call wellness checks on Eugenia Cooney, boycott channels that put young women in dangerous positions and petition for channels to be deleted due to their toxicity, but it's too far to ask if someone is okay?

Overall, I'm floored by this. Never in my life have I been verbally attacked and made legitimately uncomfortable anywhere in life, online or otherwise, due to asking if someone was okay. I never would have guessed that recognizing a streamer as a person independent of their content who could be made uncomfortable was something that's considered a bad thing.

To be blunt, I am a firm believer that if you see something that seems off, you speak up about it. I'd much rather speak up when it's actually nothing and look silly than say nothing about something I or others notice and that person be in an uncomfortable situation, or something worse.

If you're in a similar situation, I encourage you to speak up : yes, we don't know peoples' relationship dynamics and yes we run the risk of being wrong, but there is NO REASON that in this day and age that genuine concern should be treated with such hostile return. It is not toxic or bad to recognize when someone looks uncomfortable and call it into question, regardless of who they are or their level of fame. Recognizing when something seems off is not assuming someone's relationship dynamic. I am DEEPLY disappointed.

As for the streamer, I do with all of my heart hope that I was wrong. I know first hand how it feels to be touched after saying no, and I can't imagine how I'd feel if it happened on camera. I hope that I've misinterpreted the video or that the behavior was consensual or apart of their relationship dynamic. I FULLY recognize (I cannot seem to stress this enough) that there is a very large chance that I'm wrong, and I wholeheartedly accept that and apologized in the server for any negative emotions I could have caused by asking, and I maintain that apology.

I don't want to be right, and I did not bring this up to start drama or cause issues. All I want as a person is to make sure other people are okay, and apparently that was wrong.

#YouTube #Youtubers #Twitch #Streaming #Twitch streamer #Serious #serious post #Discord #Toxic #Toxic community #Toxicity #parasocial relationships #Streamer #Twitch streaming #Gamer #Advice #Fandom #Toxic fandom #Gaming

[psithurism-elisheba]

@ Christian Tumblr

If y’all decide to be rude af to Christians who celebrate Halloween this year I will be tracking your IP and feeding you to my Labrador-Poodle hybrids, no one cares that you think it’s a sin, trust us we have heard it a thousand times, your five page long essay on why we are evil sinners for putting pumpkins on our porch will not be read because we don’t care. You’ve got your opinions and we’ve got ours. Have a wonderful october, an excellent  All Saints' Day and if you celebrate it have a happy Halloween 

#Christian #Christian Tumblr #Halloween #Happy Halloween #toxic community #Christianity #lgbt christian #progressive christianity #Religion #christian blog #Christian girl #Summer #Fall #All hallows eve #important psa #psa

[annaberunoyume]

Mental Health issues as a Gay Male | Inferirority, Isolation & Loneliness

This man is speaking the truth. We need to be more opened to calmer lifestyles and not reject other gays because they do not want to be in the ‘’gay scene’’.

#youtube #lewistalks #gay toxicity #toxic community #lgbtq #gay

[mooshroomie87]

Dunno why some autistic people feel the need to be rude to other autistic people for talking about being autistic

#had someone do this in YouTube comments over an autism fun fact under a joke i made #i was rude back to be fair #but I'll only be rude if you're rude first #autism #toxic people #toxic community #autism community #if people are in tune with their autism let it be part of their personality if they want #either way it affects personality #can't help that I learned to love my autism

[diornies]

some of my zutara sketches from twitter!

#zutara #atla #avatar the last airbender #katara #zuko #my art #if u ignore outsider toxicity the zutara twt community is great #theyre so familial in a sense they will stick out for their people umprompted its sweet 🥹 #also I joined like maybe a week or so #and they took me in like a lost turtleduck

[hayatheauthor]

"Why do you care so much about accidentally leaving people out?" Because I've had friend groups where they were the planets and I was their Pluto.

I've had friend groups where our dynamics revolved around a Sun, with everyone vying for their attention if only to bask in their light for a mere moment. Where our thinly strung bonds collapsed the second our Sun left.

I've had friend groups where they bonded as Saturn's rings, finding solace in their shared shortcomings while isolating those more talented than them.

But I've also had friend groups where we bond as Neptune and Uranus—so similar we could be known as twins. Friend groups like Venus and Earth: so awfully different, yet it was those differences that kept us together.

And I would rather create a social system like the latter than the former.

#social system see what i did there (solar system) #idk man i'm sleep deprived this is so half-assed BYE #hayatheauthor #haya sameer #writing community #writer things #writing advice #writer community #haya: writes #friend group #friendship #toxic friends #toxic frienship #poetry #spilled poetry #words words words #short poetry #spilled ink #creative writing #writing stuff #writing inspiration #writeblr #writer stuff #writer

[3cosmicfrogs]

POV: you're Sokka and you're desperately trying to get to know the cute emo linecook from the restaurant next door but whenever he's on smokebreak his greasy stoner boyfriend is also there.

#artfromthefrogs #atla #avatar: the last airbender #atla fanart #zuko #jet #jetko #atla au #so you see the sokka/zuko/jet triangle im envisioning. do you understand my linecook emo zuko vision #can your little baby brain handle tracksuit wearing greasy mullet stoner jet. do you feel the toxicity of the jetko i am cooking up #hmmm i really enjoy stylizing things like this. like edgy lines limited palette. it feels really good! like i can communicate more

[moonlit-positivity]

Here is my controversial mental health take of the day: your negative emotions are not the problem, its the way you handle them that becomes the problem. You being jealous that your friend hung out with someone else and didn't tell you, is actually not the problem. It's when you choose to get angry with them, yell & lash out, or passive aggressively do something they hate to get revenge, or when you ignore them and isolate and self harm, those are all harmful ways to cope with your feelings. Rather than react, take the time to validate yourself, because it's normal to feel jealous or left out and chances are that there are deeper abandonment wounds that are triggered here, probably from your childhood. Take a moment to pause before you react. Then try a direct and open communication to your friend instead. Because I guarantee you they'll respond so much better to you opening up a conversation with, "hey, I felt left out when you hung out with so-and-so without me, can we talk about that? And maybe hang out soon?" Rather than the now laborious and torturous emotional work of having to feel guilty for your rage when you lash out or get revenge. Splitting is normal, because who doesn't get pissed off at someone you're close with? Your switching emotions from highly affectionate to devaluation are not the problem. Everyone gets disgusted & hurt by someone they love at some point in our lives, especially small offenses, I guarantee you chances are that person isn't doing it on purpose and would gladly like to know how you feel, these emotions and conversations are normal and necessary for humans to have. But the inability to clearly and directly communicate your feelings and needs to that person when you are hurt is what makes it toxic. You can absolutely learn how to handle your reactions in a safer manner, how to identify when you're feeling hurt, and how to communicate and ask for clarity and resolution rather than react and escalate. Communication is the backbone of every relationship you will ever have. This is what the emotional work of most personality disorders looks like.

#recovery #trauma #boundaries #mental health #bpd #healing #borderline personality disorder #splitting #emotions #emotional work #shadow work #cluster b #cluster b pds #npd #toxic traits #toxicity #communication #relationships

[queerism1969]

#feminism #lgbtqia #lgbtq community #queer #lgbtq #lgbt pride #toxic masculinity #gender roles #intersectional feminism #patriarchy #liberal feminism #radical feminism #radical feminist safe #mysogyny #trans liberation #radical feminists do touch #radical feminist community #radical feminists do interact #birth control #reproductive rights #abortion rights #abortion #bodily autonomy #reproductive health

[puppybot]

yaoi so toxic they need restraining orders

#changduncan #ben chang #ian duncan #community #community tv #toxic yaoi #old man yaoi