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#this is my opinion and my headcanons so don't tell me how I'm wrong
oxymorayuri ยท 8 days
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โž๐“๐ก๐ž ๐›๐จ๐ฒ๐ฌ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐š๐ซ๐ซ๐ข๐š๐ ๐žโ
Headcanons with my favorite boyssss [ Ace | Kid | Law | Doffy ] Wordcount ยป 1234 (lol no way... you see it? 1234...) Info ยป just cute things ;3
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๐€๐‘๐“๐ˆ๐’๐“: Ace: qmech | Kid: skxviii | Law: oyasumi_mofu | Doffy: Hijiki_DaiXt
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๐‘ƒ๐‘œ๐‘Ÿ๐‘ก๐‘”๐‘Ž๐‘  ๐ท. ๐ด๐‘๐‘’
You both get partner tattoos instead of wedding rings but not something lame like a circle around the ring finger rather something small and personal. You have a little flame on the side of your thigh and he has one on his chest that has something to do with you. Maybe you have a devil fruit or a special weapon? It's up to you :p
You never thought you'd cry at your wedding ceremony because Ace let the most beautiful vows EVER leave his lips. His words were typically Ace and in between your tears he made you laugh. You were almost ashamed when it was your turn because you just wanted to repeat a sentence he once said to you but you changed it a bitโ€ฆ "I'm not interested in living a thousand years, it's enough for me to survive today with you." You spoke. Ace recognized the words immediately and remembered the conversation you shared in the past with a broad grin. He almost yanked you to him and kissed your lips even though the priest hadn't even given his blessing yet. But he doesn't care, he doesn't need the priest's blessings when he has you.
He definitely had his own thoughts about the wedding. For example, he has looked into various traditionsโ€ฆ but it seems like he got something wrongโ€ฆ Instead of carrying you bridal style over the doorstep, he carried you all day. As soon as you set foot on the floor to get a new drink, he picked you up in his arms. His statement? "Come on love, when will I have the chance to carry you in your wedding dress again?". Okay that's smooth.
๐ธ๐‘ข๐‘ ๐‘ก๐‘Ž๐‘ ๐‘  ๐พ๐‘–๐‘‘
Kid probably would never have proposed to you on his own. You've been together for so long now and every time you've seen a married couple your mood has soured. You were annoyed and also disgusted and one day Killer asked you about it and in the conversation you ironically realized that you also wanted to get married lolโ€ฆ when you were with Kid in his workshop you casually mentioned, that you thought it would be a good idea for the two of you to get married as he was working on one of his new creations. He froze at the word marriage and the next second his machine caught fire because he held the welding rod on it for too long. You both panicked and put out the fire and you realized that he found the topic unpleasant and unnecessary, but you are you and you get everything you want, even if you have to force him! Luckily for you, Killer told you that Kid likes the idea of you committing to him forever, but pshhtโ€ฆ otherwise Killer will lose his life.
He will send you away if you want to ask him something about the wedding planning or want his opinion. He'll just tell you that you can do whatever you think is necessary (ugh). You think it's a bit of a shame but you don't mind, you just want him to feel comfortable at his own wedding. After all, it's not just yours. But if it were up to him, he would simply put the ring on your finger and seal your marriage with a big smooch on the lips. But later in the evening you notice that he has circled options he likes or left little notes on your wedding plans and that's when you know you're marrying the right one.
he forges your rings and is quite proud of his work, but secretly nags Killer that he is unsure whether you like the rings. When he saw the sparkle in your eyes and heard your words about how much you love the rings, his heart stopped for a moment only to beat extremely fast. He wanted to marry you right on the spot, but he knows how much love you put into the planning. Happy wife happy life lol.
๐‘‡๐‘Ÿ๐‘Ž๐‘“๐‘Ž๐‘™๐‘”๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ ๐ท. ๐‘Š๐‘Ž๐‘ก๐‘’๐‘Ÿ ๐ฟ๐‘Ž๐‘ค
A grand wedding with everyone (including the straw hats etc.) is planned, but he has other plans and takes you to the most romantic place to have a wedding ceremony just for the two of you. The party can still take place afterwards with everyone, you are a little social butterfly after all, but the wedding ceremony? That's between you and him <3
Law, similar to Ace, would want partner tattoos instead of real rings but rather in an intimate place where only both of you will see itโ€ฆ if you know what I mean ;) It's safe to say he'll shower your tattoo with kisses everytime when you're getting busy.
He has already seen you (without you knowing it) in your wedding dress. He knew exactly what was going on when you waltzed happily past him with a big package... And even if he hesitated for a moment, he followed you discreetly like a pretty good stalkerโ€ฆ He peered through the gap of the door to the room you shared. You were apparently so excited that you hadn't even closed the door. He heard you squealing happily in the bathroom and without really realizing it, he held his breath until you came out of the bathroom. And then you stood there in your beautiful white dress. The feeling in his chest increased rapidly as he watched you twirl in front of the mirror like a princess. Your laughter makes him grinโ€ฆ "I guess she's just as happy as I am that we're getting married..." he thought to himself with a satisfied expression as he let go of the door and walked away. He leaves you a little moment for yourself and your joy, he'll see you walking towards him soon anyway. He is pretty sure that he will never forget that moment. The sight of you walking towards him will be engraved in his brain.
๐ท๐‘œ๐‘›๐‘ž๐‘ข๐‘–๐‘ฅ๐‘œ๐‘ก๐‘’ ๐ท๐‘œ๐‘“๐‘™๐‘Ž๐‘š๐‘–๐‘›๐‘”๐‘œ
You want fireworks that paint your faces in the sky? A thousand white doves that are released when you kiss? A 10 meter high chocolate fountain? A wedding in pink? No problem. Your list is long and you get everything you want. Doflamingo will put together the perfect team to fulfill your every wish. Money doesn't matter, but you do.
You get a ring with a gemstone you've never seen before. Even if you express your doubts that you are afraid of losing this precious ring, Doffy reacts almost insulted. You are the rarest and most valuable gemstone in the world. If you lose the ring, he'll have a new one before you know it.
It's going to be a big big wedding BUT not many people are invited because there's a chance of someone ruining it. Whoever is invited is a big figure or part of the family. Everything is secured but not in an oppressive way. It all plays in the background, because if there were security guards everywhere it would ruin your perfect wedding picture. Nobody is allowed to ruin this day for you and him and if they do, they will pay for it. He also has the wedding broadcast live on TV so that everyone can see that he's marrying the most beautiful woman in the world. How extra.
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I hope you enjoyed reading it. See you next time <3
๐‘พ๐’Š๐’•๐’‰ ๐’๐’๐’—๐’†, ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐’š๐’–๐’“๐’Š โ™ก
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midniiights-garden ยท 4 months
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Mizu realising she's in love/a lesbian [Headcanons!!]
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(A/N: I feel like this is like... already a given but please remember that these are HEADCANONS!! She does not have a canon sexuality. And I know it's mostly the lesbians who haven taken over the show but my content is available for everyone to see and I wanted to remind everyone that I am not going to tolerate slander or trash talking because of a personal opinion. You are entitled to your thoughts and I am entitled to mine.)
Possible TWs!!: Mentions of sex and sexual encounters, M*kio (you cannot stop me from putting this man as a warning I hate him sm), Canon typical violence, Racisim, Homophobia, Mysogyny (did I spell that right??)
Firstly I wanna address her relationship with Mikio in order to fully understand my headcanons.
Personally I do not believe that Mizu actually "loved" Mikio in the romantic sense. She thought she was in love, but in the end it wasn't.
Speaking as someone with a lot of personal trauma regarding relationships myself I realised that I couldn't differentiate between romantic and platonic love. Basically, for me, all I saw was that someone was treating me nicely for once and now I'm attached to them. And for the longest time I thought that was what love was.
And I think Mizu experienced something similar.
Basically, when Mikio treated her like a fucking human being she was like "oh, hey this is nice. This is weird, but it's nice. So I guess I'm in love, right?"
Like, no, baby. You aren't. That's just called emotional trauma.
That's also why she thought she was straight for the longest time because she genuinely cannot tell when she likes someone romantically.
As I often restate it'll take a while for her to fully understand the extent of her emotions, but she'll get there.
Now onto the fluffier stuff :))
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How does she realise she's in love? What's her reaction to it?
I think she gets hit with the realisation as if it were a train crashing into her.
It's just a normal evening, she's probably at a ramen shop with her future S/O with her and then as she's taking a bite of her ramen she looks over at you and thinks: "Huh... I wonder what it would be like if I got to hold them?"
And then it's just a record scratch moment for her where she's like wtf where did that come from.
It's either just normal domestic moment like I mentioned or her future S/O sparring with her (which may or not freak her out bc of the fucking Mikio incident).
But when Mizu successfully pins her S/O down they just laugh and smile, knowing Mizu would never hurt them on purpose.
That made Mizu's heart flutter more than anything Mikio had ever done for her.
She's going to be in denial about it for a long time. Like... a really, really long time. Cue the "but we're just friends"!
How does she react when she realises she's into girls?
Due to the internalized homophobia instilled within her as a child and other such thoughts she starts to think she may be going crazy.
She'll start to pull away out of fear, not truly understanding her emotions.
Which, of course, will hurt her future S/O and cause them to worry.
Seeing her future S/O so distraught kind of triggers something in her. She realises that there's nothing inherently wrong with her, that she's still a person and the person she likes is still a person and that there shouldn't be anything wrong with liking her S/O. She also just didn't like seeing you worry over her, it hurt her more than any blade that she's been stabbed with.
Now onto her actual physical attraction.
Once the whole emotional side of it is somewhat sorted in her mind she finds herself not so subtly staring at her S/O's tatas.
She doesn't strike me as someone with high libido or anything despite what I've seen a lot of headcanons say. But I think shes the kind of lover to enjoy getting her S/O off a lottttt
I don't believe she was ever really attracted to Mikio sexually but seeing her S/O's kimono slip off their shoulder to reveal some titty has her red and hot.
She likes that it's soft. She really likes the softness of her S/O's body.
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(A/N: That's all!! I feel like I was terribly self-indulgent with this one but there are a lot of aspects in which I relate to Mizu with. Which is probably why I care a lot about representing her correctly. As usual, feel free to comment or send asks to my inbox!! I hope y'all enjoyed <33)
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froschli96 ยท 8 months
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As an asexual Good Omens fan
There's something I've noticed in this fandom that makes me really uncomfortable, and that is the way that Crowley and Aziraphale's possible asexuality is constantly being connected to and justified by them being not human.
I just honestly really hate that, because implying that asexuality is something that somehow "logically" follows from characters being nonhuman is ... not great. Like, I hate having to be the one to point this out, but asexuality is, in fact, very much a human attribute.
And unfortunately, most of the time when I come across this take, it doesn't feel like someone seeing themselves in the characters and relating to their experience, but rather an othering, this kind of otherwordly pure non-sexualness, where people put these characters above such trivial things like sexuality.
I am not asexual because I am somehow confounded by this oh so complicated human concept of sexuality, or because I don't ever think or care about sexuality at all (a lot of thinking was unfortunately involved actually before I finally came to a conclusion about my identity) it is just a fact of who I am, as a human being, itโ€™s a part of my human experience.
And let's be honest, attributing asexuality to nonhuman characters is not the hot new take a lot of people seem to think it is โ€” this trope has been around for ages. And it hasn't done a great deal to normalize asexuality. In fact I'd argue it's perpetuated an othering of ace people, but you take what you can get, really. (This is not to say that it is in any way wrong to identify with these kinds of characters, I definitely do, too! It's just sad that the topic of discussion is always about how "human" someone can be considered when they don't feel sexual or romantic attraction)
To be honest, I don't actually see A&C being asexual as canon โ€” as a lot of people seemingly do โ€” just because the author kind of suggested it in a tweet where he basically conflates "asexual" and "sexless" (for the record, this is not a dig at Neil, I just think the implications were kind of unfortunate, even if it might not have been intentional, which makes it all the more frustrating that a lot of fans just ran with it). And yeah, going around calling people aphobic for seeing the Ineffable Husbands as gay rep or any other identity, when theyโ€™re oh so obviously canonically ace, is honestly kind of insane.
I get that it might feel nice and tempting to be able to "claim" these characters and this relationship and being able to tell other fans off whose headcanons on their sexuality differ from your own because it is hard to come by any kind of representation when you're ace and there's finally a creator who's not only not contemptuous towards but even supportive of fans reading his characters as queer. And if you feel represented by A&C as it is then all the more power to you. But the thing is, it doesn't matter what kind of justifications there are or what canon might or might not say (bc when has that ever mattered in fandom spaces) or what the creator says, you cannot convert people to your opinion about a character, and you're going to have a bad time if you spend your time in fandom trying to do that.
And really, I am just wondering why we necessarily even need an explanation or justification for them possibly being asexual. Why does it have to be that all angels and demons are asexual by virtue of being nonhuman, and so A&C have to be too? why can't that just be an aspect of them that is completely unrelated to them not being human? Could these characters maybe not simply identify as asexual, not because they're nonhuman, but in spite of it? (btw, in the same vein it is equally stupid to argue that A&C can't be ace because they have "gone native", which is also an argument I've come across)
Honestly, I'm not even asking anyone to fundamentally change how they see these characters here โ€” if you think they must be asexual solely because they're angels and have no concept of human sexuality, then whatever, I can't stop you and I donโ€™t want to police anyone's headcanons bc as I said that's stupid and a waste of time. What I am asking you is that you maybe reflect a little bit on why exactly it is that humanity and sexuality are somehow so intrinsically linked in your mind to the point where you automatically use it as a way to distinguish between human and nonhuman characters.
Anyways.
Tldr: please stop equating asexuality with non-humanness thank you and good day.
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the-badger-mole ยท 1 month
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@allnewalldifferentwildspider
I will say, I think it's interesting when people say that arguing that the finale and Kataang happening the way it was just giving Aang what he wanted is somehow us taking Katara's agency away. Katara was rightfully angry with Aang in her last two encounters with him. Giving her agency within that narrative would look like her actually having a conversation with Aang and telling him how she felt. I don't just mean romantically, I mean having an actual conversation where her conflict with him is laid out and resolved, like it would be in any healthy friendship, and much more a healthy romance. People can argue that they had a conversation off screen. That's fine. I will never tell anyone they can't headcanon whatever they please. It's none of my business unless they make it my business. Have so much fun. Don't even think about me or my opinions. They don't matter.
However, she never had that conversation. It's not in the show. It's not in the comics. It's not canon. The way her moment of "oh, I like him" was set up implied that she only considered him romantically because he ostensibly singlehandedly "saved the day" (he most certainly did not). There's never a moment where she gets to be vulnerable with him and have him help her carry her burden. No moment of why she might like him romantically (and also, may I add, we never see what, aside from her looks, Aang likes about Katara). Any "build up" of Kataang on her end is largely done through external circumstances and not the result of her coming to understand her feelings (this from the passionate girl who wears her heart on her sleeve for the entire series). They are also never again brought up by her- and the times it brought up by Aang in canon are disastrous (Lava Fissure Incident. EIP. Arguably DoBS). Katara never has a chance to confront Aang on his blatant disrespect of her culture, and it's never walked back- in fact, IIRC, in the comics, he supports the soft colonization of the SWT by the NWT.
I can understand why people have the headcanon that Katara and Aang had a deep conversation off-screen that resolved all their issues and gave Katara a chance to tell him she liked him and why. I think that if you ship them, you kind of have to headcanon something like that. But I do not think canon supports it. Their deep conversations center Aang and his feelings. Katara's feelings never seem to matter that much to Aang. He didn't even care that Katara and Sokka had lost their father to the Fire Nation after Hakoda sacrificed himself to save Aang's stupid behind. He wanted to go run off and play. Our hero, ladies and babies. There has to be a lot of head canoning to make Kataang work. I know because everything I hate about Aang and Kataang is canon. If I'm basing Kataang on the canon, it looks just like the glimpses we get in LoK, only with a lot less hero worship of Aang.
Don't get me wrong, all the overt romance in Zutara is pure headcanon. I recognize that and I love that for us. What's not head canon is that Zuko shows Katara a ton of support and respect in their short onscreen friendship. And at the risk of upsetting Aang's fans, I will argue Zuko showed her feelings more consideration than Aang ever did in the entire series.
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pinkgy ยท 2 months
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okay, ignore the previous ask, i can't be more blind and stupid (๐Ÿ’€).
so, if it isn't a bother, may you write some headcanons about the kings (satan, mammon, beelzebub and leviathan) with a reader who's slightly chubby and dislikes their (reader's) body.
thanks in advance, dear.
โ€“โ˜• (wishing to end myself after this one.)
Hi ! Thank you so much for your request and congratulations for being the first request that is not about sex lol I needed a break.
Here it is! I loved writing this request and I hope you like it โ™ก
It's a bit OOC in some parts (Leviathan), but in my defense, it's not easy to write fluff about them.
Also, I'm sorry if I didn't focus much on the body type part, I'm not a great fan of specifying the reader's body type, race, and sometimes even height, but it's okay! I tried my best.
Also, this is my contribution to the soft and sweet Mammon HC.
๐—ช๐—›๐—•
๐—ž๐—œ๐—ก๐—š๐—ฆ
"๐—Ÿ๐—ข๐—ฉ๐—˜ ๐—ฌ๐—ข๐—จ๐—ฆ๐—˜๐—Ÿ๐—™ ๐—Ÿ๐—œ๐—ž๐—˜ ๐—œ ๐—Ÿ๐—ข๐—ฉ๐—˜ ๐—ฌ๐—ข๐—จ"
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โ™ก
๐—ฆ๐—”๐—ง๐—”๐—ก
โœฎ Heโ€™s in denial, Satan has you on a pedestal and he genuinely cannot believe that you think this way about yourself, simply because itโ€™s a completely different opinion than the one he has of you.
โœฎ If you dare to mention any discomfort with your appearance in front of him, he will laugh in your face telling you to stop joking about such things, and when you look at him completely serious he might realize that he was wrong.
โœฎ Satan genuinely doesn't have any specific body preference, in his eyes youโ€™re perfect, all he cares about is that youโ€™re healthy both physically and mentally.ย 
โœฎ Once he fully realizes, you won't EVER hear him joking about it, and if someone else dared to theyโ€™re dead within seconds. The same goes for you "jokingly" mistreating yourself, that's the biggest offense for him and the lecture your life awaits you.
โœฎ This situation would become a priority for satan, he's capable of leaving aside all his work just to do the impossible to make you feel better about yourself.ย 
โœฎ He gets very frustrated every time you talk negatively about yourself, and he feels sad every time he notices that you feel insecure about your body, Satan somehow puts himself in your shoes, and that makes him take everything too seriously.
โ€œStop looking at yourself like that, I know what you're thinking and I don't like itโ€ He hugs you from behind "Let's talk, you're too pretty to be thinking those things"
๐—•๐—˜๐—˜๐—Ÿ๐—ญ๐—˜๐—•๐—จ๐—•
โœฎ He might believe that youโ€™re joking if you tell him, and he also might jokingly tell you something like โ€œYeah, I donโ€™t like your body eitherโ€ Clearly no offense intended, he would genuinely think that youโ€™re not being serious.
โœฎ Beelzebub wonโ€™t realize that his โ€œHarmless commentโ€ made you feel bad unless someone else tells him that he screwed up, probably many days later he will approach you and actually apologize.
โœฎ Donโ€™t expect any elaborate apologies from him, he will tell you what is necessary. But after he has taken a long time trying to remember everything you said to him that day, he will subtly start looking for ways to make you feel better about yourself.ย 
โœฎ Believe me, Beelzebub is going to make sure you hear every chance he gets about how perfect you are, and in case he forgets to tell you, Bael is under strict orders to remind him.ย 
โœฎ Heโ€™s really supportive but he sucks at showing it, his main goal is to distract you from your insecurity by at the same time trying to not distract himself, and somehow, it works.
"And who said that being yourself is not okay? As long as that beautiful body of yours is well-fed and healthy, you are the hottest person out there"
๐— ๐—”๐— ๐— ๐—ข๐—ก
โœฎ He would get offended, but like, really offended, the moment he notices or when you tell him about it he acts like those Latina grandmas when their grandchild tells them they're gay,
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literally him.
โœฎ He's never seen anyone more ethereal than you, how do you even dare to dislike yourself?
โœฎ He genuinely doesnโ€™t care about your body type, your weight, etc, as long as youโ€™re healthy heโ€™s going to love every part of you.
โœฎ Heโ€™s an amazing listener, Mammon will encourage you to vent to him while he slowly caresses your hair, and every time you say something heโ€™s not okay with, he kisses your forehead.
โœฎ He wouldn't think you're joking, the opposite, Mammon would take this really seriously, but like, too seriously, to the point where youโ€™re not getting out of Tartaros without loving your body as much as he loves it, and believe me, thatโ€™s a lot.ย 
โ€œHow can you hate such a beautiful body like yours? Every inch of you is perfect and just looking at you feels like a privilege, so don't overthink too much pleaseโ€
๐—Ÿ๐—˜๐—ฉ๐—œ๐—”๐—ง๐—›๐—”๐—ก
โœฎ Leviathan will genuinely get mad at you, if he finds out, he will ignore you, and if you tell him, he will leave and ignore you too, but itโ€™s temporary, he will get over it in a few days.ย 
โœฎ He kind of sucks at comforting people, but he can and will try his best with you, just donโ€™t expect much from him, and know that heโ€™s genuine about it.
โœฎ He will make an annoyed face every time you comment something negative about yourself, and trust me, you will notice.
โœฎ Leviathan has a very good memory, and heโ€™ll make a mental note of every part of your body that you mention that you donโ€™t like, and every chance he gets he will make sure to kiss or caress that part. He wonโ€™t be very obvious, but somehow, he will find a way to discreetly improve your opinion of yourself.
โœฎ He would hang anyone who dared to make jokes about your body, and would also hang anyone who complimented you, only he has the right to do that.
โœฎ And on those days when you feel particularly bad about your body, Leviathan will be sure to find a way to distract you with something else, heโ€™s very observant so he wouldnโ€™t need to listen to you to know how you feel, heโ€™ll just suddenly leave his work for a few hours and take you to one of your favorite places, even if he hates the place, he hates more that you have a bad opinion of yourself.
โ€œGet those thoughts out of your head, people should be jealous of how you look, okay? Don't be ridiculousโ€
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lovelybrooke ยท 3 months
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I'm really tired of seeing people use the "AroAce is a spectrum" argument when it comes to Alastor, especially now that the show is getting more popular. I just want to talk it about it a bit, since y'know, I'm AroAce and have a lot of opinions on it.
For reference, I've been a on and off fan on Hazbin Hotel for a long time. The pilot came out around the time I was in middle school and it was a large part of my personality for my younger years. Obviously I fell off it as I got older, but my point still stands.
Alastor was the first time I ever saw a canon AroAce character (that I knew off, I wasn't aware peridot was AroAce), and It was amazing for me. I never got to see myself be represented in a show like that, and even if he wasn't explicitly AroAce, having the creator say he was was amazing, since a lot of the AroAce characters at the time were just popular headcanons.
So you could understand my disappointment when I'd go into fandom spaces and see him be shipped with other characters, be drawn in suggestive ways, and overall his canon sexuality be ignored. Now before you comment and say "Well, Aromanticism and Asexuality are spectrums, so there's a chance he's romance and sex favorable" I want to ask you a genuine question.
Do you think that Alastor is romance and sex favorable because in the show, pilot, or any other official media he is depicted to be that way? OR, do you just think he's romance and sex favorable because it gives you an excuse to write fanfic of him where he's in romantic and sexual relationships?
I have a feeling a lot of you believe it's the second one, but would never admit it. I haven't watched the pilot in a while, but after watching through the show, there hasn't been a single point where he is shown to be romance or sex favorable. Nothing hints to that or points to that in any way.
Because ultimately this isn't about making sure you are representing his character correctly, this is about you guys disillusioning yourself into believing he's romance and sex favorable to that you guys can put him as close to allonormativity without being called out for it. You do not care about real life AroAce people who are romance and sex favorable, you care about your own comfort. And it's easier to imagine Alastor as romance and sex favorable when in reality, he's only been depicted as the exact opposite.
Do you know how I know most of ya'll don't care about real life sex and romance favorable AroAce people? Because AroAce discourse is never ending on this platform. Not too long ago there was a poll going around that had people arguing on whether or not cishet Aromantic men were valid. Aromantic people are constantly villainized and treated like monsters for having consensual loveless relationships. Asexual people constantly have their own experienced denied to their faces, and are told time and time again that they don't actually exist. AroAce people are constantly having to prove that they deserve to be in the LGBTQ+ community, and every few months there is some stupid fucking person who created discourse about a what type of AroAce gets to be in the community, just to divide us and make us feel like shit. And you know what?
You don't care.
You completely ignore or are oblivious to real life discourse surrounding the identity you claim to be an expert on. You ignore real life AroAce people who tell you you're wrong, all while going to war over your right erase an identity you really know nothing about. You would never go this hard for real life sex and romance favorable AroAce people who are constantly told they don't exist, they don't belong in the community that supposed to except them, and that they are either mentally ill or damaged. You don't care about real life AroAce people, because unless they're Tumblr sexy men, they don't matter to you.
I acknowledge that romance and sex favorable AroAce people don't get represented enough, but at some point you have to acknowledge that it less about accurately representing the character, and more about changing characters who are canonically sex/romance repulsed so that allonormative people can be more comfortable with them. If you're someone who's AroAce, and you whole heartedly believe he's romance and sex favorable, good for you, I'm not gonna argue with you.
But if you are not AroAce, and you believe he's romance and sex favorable, I want you to reevaluate why that is. I'm not saying you can't ship him, or write your fanfic, or draw your art. I'm not the police. But please try and see it from a point of view of someone other than your own. Please try and understand why taking one of the very few canonically AroAce characters and weaponizing our own identity against us so you can justify the continuous eraser of said identity is kinda annoying.
Also please don't get heated in the comments, at the end of the day this is about a fictional cannibal, I just have too many opinions.
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I cannot hold it in anymore I am absolutely OBSESSED with your art and the way you draw Lao.
I also would like to inquireโ€ฆ.. just perhapsโ€ฆ what are your top head-canons for him, and/or your opinions on popular ships for him/which ones you like?
No pressure!! I hope you are having a wonderful day ๐Ÿงก
me, trying to act normal every time an awesome artist I look up to says something nice about my art
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Thank you so much! first of all, please take this Lao with you, he's yours now~
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now let me preheat my bad english.....
Most of my Lao headcanons (if they are not related to a particular art I made) were yoinked from another ppl, because DAMN FELLAS your brains are sexy. ๐Ÿ˜ So you might have heard some of them already, but here's my top general hcs for him.
NOTE: we are talking about the current timeline mk1 Kung Lao
- Lao is very expressive with his hands and he's THE TOUCH person. Just look at how many times he took Raiden by the shoulder in the first chapter alone?? He'll be pushing, and patting, and shoving, and punching you all over while telling about his breakfast or something.
- Lao is struggling with inferiority complex. Since childhood he was under a tremendous amount of pressure, he has to do things right, to be better, or else he would be mocked or punished. Now he believes that he should be the best, or he would not be taken seriously. He's constantly seeking validation in his peers, causing him to act cocky and over-confident.
- Anger issues, usually when someone questions his skill.
- People call him lazy because he tries to act like everything comes naturally to him. In reality he trains hard and takes things seriously. Like, he's fighting with a RAZOR RIMMED HAT fgs, it's not something you can master in a day! Also he always got energy running through his veins, lucky bastard... *cries in iron deficiency*
- He makes his hats by himself. With his hands. He designs and creates. ALL of them. I will die on that hill.
- He's a slow to trust, but ride or die as a friend.
- He's a trouble maker FOR SURE, but not a bully. He's respectful and polite to most of the people (if they don't provoke him), also drinks his respect-women juice.
- Master of sass and sarcasm. And yes, I think he swears, but in the right circumstances or the right company.
- He's got rizz NOW, but in his teens he had zero game because he could not keep his mouth shut and would scare off the person with the most ridiculous piece of idiocy.
- I read it in one fic and really loved the idea that Liu Kang "told the blossoms" about Kung Lao, and they really liked him ๐ŸŒธ so now they are following him around and bringing him news and gossips, that's why there's always those goddamn petals aroung him aasghGHHHj ๐ŸŒธ๐ŸŒธ
- He's rolling his eyes at Johnny, but they quickly become besties.
- He actually has a cold relationship with Liu Kang. Don't get me wrong, he trusts him, respects the hell out of him and will run into a wall for a man. But I think Liu will distance himself because of all the memories of HIS Lao and how badly they sting. oTL
- That smile and a bow Lao did after loosing to Raiden? He meant that. Loosing hurted BAD, but the pain was pushed aside by the sence of pride and happiness for his best friend.
oh shit, this is getting out of hand, I'm starting to think about the other timelines and dynamics, we'll be here all week hhhhgh
About the popular ships... Well, I'm a big fan of railao (yeah NO SHIT who would have thought), but I am a multishipper, so I'm just happy to see my fav characters feeling good in someone's hands. ๐Ÿ˜Š
I really like the liulao and laoliutana for several different reasons. ๐Ÿ‘€ The johnshilao (or is it laojohnshi..? erm) was the one that didn't impress me at first (love the Lao just third-wheeling with a tired expression <:'D), but recently I'm starting to warm up to all the different dynamics these three can have. And that is, in no small part, thanks to you and your kenlao agenda ๐Ÿ‘€๐Ÿ’– damn you created such a nice cozy universe for them I'm ๐Ÿฅบ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’–
Bi-Han/Lao is a bit random, but I love how catto did them, they are such a cute pair of assholes! >:3
ummm, yeah, so I'm going to stop there ahahhH. Thank you again for asking and for all the nice little feels your art provides, I admire you tremendously~
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THIS IS FOR FANS OF CASSANDRA CAIN! PLEASE READ! I WANT YOUR THOUGHTS
(skip to the bottom if you just want silly headcanons about her :D)
Hello! So first, I want to thank everyone who read the Wayne pilot I made :) I appreciate your feedback, and I love you all.
As I'm preparing to post it on AO3, I decided to make a few (admittedly small) changes to the script, primarily around Cassandra Cain, because I haven't quite fleshed her out yet.
I don't have much experience with writing Cass, so I decided to do a bit of research on her yesterday, and wouldn't you know? I fell in love. 10/10. She didn't play a huge part in the pilot, but she will have a bigger one in the second episode, and there are a few things I think can or should be added so she doesn't feel too one-note.
There wasn't anyone who told me this, by the way. (In fact, I actually got some nice comments about her so thank you.) I just had it in the back of my mind while writing, and now that Cass is getting more screen time, I'm finding that my lack of knowledge might lead to mischaracterization.
SO TO COMBAT THIS, I MADE A GUIDE FOR MYSELF ON HOW TO WRITE CASS
Is this overkill? Probably Think of it as a silly headcanon list for my version of her. And I'm posting it here because I want your feedback before it's set in stone. (I know Cass isn't written well a lot, so this is my attempt to right these horrid wrongs.)
If you're going to give criticism, please be constructive. Tell me what you like or don't like. I'm all ears. Have fun :)
Writing Cass
(Btw I still gotta read Cassโ€™s first Batgirl run by Kelley Puckett)
Has some sass, has a lot actually
Used to be awkward in social settings. sheโ€™s better at it when sheโ€™s with people so she can match their energy but she still prefers to just dip
Speaks in short-ish sentences, trying her best tho
I WILL BE ADDING THIS INTO THE PILOT, I JUST WANT TO KNOW TO WHAT DEGREE?? OR IS IT REALLY FINE
Mostly just relies on body language though
I WILL BE ADDING THIS INTO THE PILOT TOO, ESPECIALLY WITH THE ASL SCENE (BUT ITโ€™S NOT REPLACING THE ASL)
also yes i know her using ASL isn't canon, it just works best for the scene, it would have been written the same whether she was in it or not, it is still a cute nod to fanon tho
Steph and Cass are extremely close BUT ALSO HAVE SEPARATE LIVES (I HAVE BEEN TOLD TO STRESS THAT AND I AGREE)
Messy, low-key gross. Bad-ish hygiene but sheโ€™s good at looking put-together so only those close know this about her (this is just my headcanon)
Often forgets bigger words so she occasionally uses the wrong one, she ALSO mixes up proverbs but no one corrects her because 1: itโ€™s cute and 2: they donโ€™t want to discourage her from speaking with them more casually (also my headcanon)
Cass: So I pulled the door off itsโ€ฆ*makes motion with hand*โ€ฆmetal books. Steph: Do you mean hingeโ€” Cass: Metal books.
Dick: Well that was a surprise. I didnโ€™t know The Penguin would be here. Cass, nodding: Well life gives you grapes Dick: Wut Cass: You make grape juice. Get on the same book, Nightwing
I'M ON THE FENCE ABOUT ADDING THIS ONE BECAUSE IDK LET ME KNOW PLEASE
Is a cinnamon bun AND a little shit, itโ€™s a balancing act
Production: Sheโ€™s Wayneโ€™s darling Princess Cass: *will break your fingers*
She does appear behind the camera crew to scare them on purpose, she thinks itโ€™s funny, she likes seeing them freak out
She is super competitive, but she's always like "Oh I'm not that competitive" *proceeds to be very competitive*
Because she isn't super confident in her writing or speaking (or just uncomfortable communicating without seeing the other person's body language) she prefers to Facetime or simply reply to texts with selfies of her reaction. It is a thing now. when you need an honest opinion about an outfit, text a photo to Cass. She will either give back a photo of a thumbs up or a photo of a grimace and some not-so-flattering emojis
Her princess persona is her public cover persona in this show, parallel to Bruceโ€™s โ€œBrucieโ€ and Dickโ€™s โ€œborn for the camerasโ€ thing
Is surprisingly vocal (and sometimes snippy) about her distaste with things but she mostly gets a pass because her morals align best with Bruceโ€™s
Is most snippy when her family uses methods other than violence when violence is clearly the faster option, god they're such pacifists
Tim: *trying carefully to pick a lock* Cass: Just break through the wall? Tim: We canโ€™t do that. Weโ€™re trying not to be noticed. Cass: Wimp
Bruce: Cass, why did you have to dislocate that manโ€™s shoulder? Cass: I put it back. Bruce: Thatโ€™s not the point. Cass: Fine, Iโ€™ll dislocate it again.
Is the best fighter, none of this โ€œoh sheโ€™s the best fighter so when people do win against her, it makes them look coolerโ€ thing, shut tf up, she could break their bones (not important to the show ofc but I need to add this because it is important in general)
Horrible at drawing, wretched (again a headcanon but I did see someone else mention it somewhere)
Also bad at writing, refuses to study to improve out of principle (i.e. she told Babs she doesnโ€™t need to and now she refuses to admit Babs was right)
(AND SIDE-HEADCANON IF SHE IS HORRIBLE AT WRITING AND ACTIVELY HATED STUDYING HER ALPHABET THEN WHAT IF LIKE ONE DAY SOMEONE SAYS โ€œhey can you grab me one of these files from last weekโ€™s case, itโ€™s under Mโ€ SHEโ€™S LIKE โ€œfuck you, how could you do this to meโ€ WHILE SEARCHING FOR M OR MORE SIMPLY *throws something at them*)
That's all I have right now. If you'd like to give me any recommendations, please do. I can't promise I'll add in every single one because this show is still about the whole Batfam, not just her, but I want to do her justice, and that definitely involves more fine-tuning on my part
OKAY THAT'S ALL LOVE YOU BYE
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pupmkincake2000 ยท 2 months
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Funny how I keep getting comments like this
And it's not that it's harmful,it's that it's just not right whatsoever ๐Ÿ’€ all your reasons for them being together are faulty and are things shared between friends aswell.
So, the dude called me and my ship weird while (and I'll keep saying it nonstop) HankCon is the most harmless ship in this fandom.
Okay, we are not saying that people can't ship whoever they want, are we? Especially in this particular fandom? In which most of the ships have no logic behind them at all, yet people are quite fine with those just because they fit into people's standards of beauty and how guy x guy ships have to look like, in their opinion.
So my questions are like those I've seen on twitter: "why do people find it so hard to be silent haters? like genuinely? why is it so hard to see something you don't like and think "ew weird" without feeling the need to tell the person who likes it that you think its weird/bad/gross/wrong ??"
And here's the answer: It's because they need to feel like they have the moral high ground. Actual virtue signalling. Ewww you like this, here's why you're wrong.
And nobody was able to give me an open answer why HankCon seems so offensive to them. And we do not talk about age gap here, it is too ridiculous to bring this up as an argument even. We are not talking anbout father & son issue because canon relationship is still friends, any father & son as well as romance are headcanons. So why those who like father & son are supported and those who love romance and fucking between the character are hated?
In a fandom (with no canon ships, except maybe Kara x Luther) where people literally ship characters with everyone they want?
Someone on twitter also said that the massive increase in self-insert, kinning etc. has created parasocial relationships with fictional charas. It's always happened but it's more now. Any perceived attack (moral or otherwise) on the chara equals an attack on that person's identity.
But I doubt that's the only issue. Although the theory has its place, given the general infantilization of Connor, which, however, is immediately forgotten when people need him to be an adult.
If haters are here to spread morality and justice, why aren't they doing it in other fandoms? After all, as I've mentioned before, there is the Rick and Morty fandom where people ship a grandpa and a grandson and I've never heard of people hating on this ship. Why these people are not among those discussing, for example, the laws of Japan, where a man over forty can marry a sixteen-year-old (correct me if I'm mistaken) if it is really an age gap that bothers the haters so much? But for some reason they chose as a victim a harmless pairing that does not harm anyone and is not even as popular as it was before? Or the goal is to errase it from the fandom spaces completely? If so, I'd suggest those to go outside and touch the grass.
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Sorry if this seems repetitive but I haven't been active on social media in yearsss
Is it true that there's a lot of lawlu hate on tiktok and Twitter? I'm so confused because there used to be so much love for the ship back in 2017/2018 from my perspective (Amino era).
The short answer: yes and no. Let me start by saying I'm not the best person to answer this since I purely consume on twitter. I made my personal twitter in 2007 like it's everyone I've ever known irl and has nothing to do with shipping or hobbies and I follow approx 0 accounts related to anime, manga, or lawlu. I just looked up lawlu a few times and browsed and suddenly it's my whole fucking timeline and thereโ€™s no going back and now I have a lawlu twitter (This makes me very happy).
So if anyone else has an opinion on this that is more in the community, please feel free to comment away. Otherwise, below are my observations.
First off, there IS a ton of love for the ship. Most of what I see is beautiful art (they got the nsfw ayo), memes, fanfics, and headcanons just like tumblr. There are tons of comments of people swooning over these posts, Lawlu IS one of the most popular OP ships after all.
There's just a vocal minority that are very against the concept of shipping and in that subset there are those who are very against Lawlu. There people out there that will literally list accounts to block that ship lawlu or write lawlu DNI in their bios. The same can be said for other ships, it's not just this one itโ€™s any they deem a โ€˜pro shipโ€™ (problematic ship) and Lawlu is generally considered one of these. Below as is an example:
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The biggest issues Iโ€™ve seen with Lawlu are the following 1. luffy is aroace and cant be shipped period 2. law groomed luffy and the age gap is gross. IMO I think most of these people are just infantilizing Luffy as some goofy autistic kid that doesn't know what love and sex are when in reality he's very self-aware and happy does not equal stupid. Also he's 19 heโ€™s not underage. He met Law twice when he was 17, one of which was saving his life as a doctor and Luffy was unconscious most of this time. Let's not forget Luffy's a war criminal kicking the asses of people 4x his age in a pirate world, age doesn't really work the same as irl.
BUTTT Not that any of this matters because you can ship whoever the fuck you what because guess what? It's ~fiction~. I could rant about how people can ship whatever the hell they want all day but I'll save my breath for now. (my opinion of course)
Also there are just mentally ill people who enjoy telling others to kys if you like something they like do. Lawlu shippers are just their chosen target demographic. Creators get foul messages in their inboxes, rude comments, just general hater behavior. Twitter is just a firey cesspool and all fandoms have 'fans' who do nothing but hate. We live in an age of negativity where being a hater is the cool thing to do.
HOWEVER, I see more people posting about why those people are wrong and stupid than the actual negative tweets but maybe that's because I actually support the ship and the algorithm sees that. Not sure how twitter works, nor do I want to know about that dumpster fire there's a reason I came over to tumblr.
As for tiktok, I don't really consume a lot of tiktok so I can't speak on it besides seeing cosplayers and cute animations/art. I'll leave that to the tiktok people to look into.
For argument's sake, I went through the lawlu tag and picked some lovely tweets to share with you so you can see the toxicity for yourself. Sadly only 10 images per post but I think you get the point. Thanks for the ask hope this was informative. :)
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abiiors ยท 13 days
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need a blurb about princess treatment ross please ๐Ÿฅฒ
i think headcanons is the best way i can do this, so that's what i'm going to write (smut under the dotted line)
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โ™ก you were sure the initial princess treatment would wear off as soon as you're out of the honeymoon phase. it makes sense this way โ€” that he would open doors wherever you go and follow the sidewalk rule, that he would pull out chairs and show up to each date with a giant bunch of your favourite flowers. it makes sense that he would do it in the first, second, third month of your relationship. maybe even the fourth and the fifth and the sixth. but beyond that? you would have thought it would fizzle out into something ordinary. ross, however, shows absolutely no signs of stopping or slowing down.
โ™ก for your six month anniversary, you decide to go all out โ€” a fancy rooftop restaurant with a great candlelit dinner on a night that just warm enough. and there you are, getting ready in his house, in front of his mirror when ross shows up behind you, gently pushing your hair aside so he can zip up the dress for you. his knuckles drag up your spine, spread tingles all over your body until you're leaning against him practically liquid in his arms.
โ™ก โ€œlook at you, princess. so beautifulโ€ฆโ€ his voice has a rough edge to it, leaving you breathless.
โ™ก and you gasp when he kneels in front of you, right as you're about to leave and proceeds to put your heels on for you, smiling until his eyes crinkle. "i know it's difficult to put them on with your nails, baby. let me do it for you." which obviously leaves you blushing deeply. "i would have been fine," you bite your lip, flustered. ross clicks his tongue though. "don't have to worry about a thing, sweet girl. i'm here to take care of you."
โ™ก it's not just limited to the big occasions though. ross has made it his mission to make sure you don't have to worry about the smallest of things.
โ™ก this includes but is not limited to โ€” having an extra scrunchie around his wrist. carrying pads and tampons in his bag. holding your bag(s) in one hand so he can hold your hand in the other, especially while crossing the street (he needs to make sure his girl is safe).
โ™ก need to go out and ross is free? don't even think about driving, he's going to offer to drive you around even if it's just running random errands. he's going to play all your favourite songs and get you a little sweet treat for the road. he's going to have his hand on your thigh the whole time, drawing little circles and other random shapes. all you have to do is be a passenger princess and tell him where to go.
โ™ก if something does go wrong though, you know you can go running to him and he'll help you figure out whatever it is you need help with. he's a good listener โ€” he won't give his opinions or unsolicited advice until you're done venting about whatever it is that's bothering you.
โ™ก one of your favourite things is to be taken care of after particularly long, tiring, stressful days. ross is liberal with hugs and forehead kisses, wrapping you up in his arms so you can squish your face in his chest and just breathe him in. it's safe and calm and comforting. it's home.
โ™ก he'll play with your hair for as long as you want. he'll run you a bath and give you massages and pamper days. anything to make sure his girl isn't as stressed anymore.
โ”‰โ”‰โ”‰โ”‰โ”‰โ”‰โ”‰โ”‰โ”‰โ”‰โ”‰โ”‰โ”‰โ”‰โ”‰โ”‰โ”‰โ”‰โ”‰โ”‰โ”‰
โ™ก some of your absolute favourite moments happens between the sheets, ross hovering over you, his gold chain grazing against your skin. he smiles and holds your hips, tries to get you to stop squirming. but how can you when his mouth is hot on your skin and his beard tickles your tits and stomach and the insides of your thighs.
โ™ก "my pretty little princess, my sweetest girl," he smiles, looking at you from between your legs, tongue flicking around your clit. it's ecstasy, it's heaven.
โ™ก ross hates quickies. he won't cum unless he's made you cum at least twice and that's just not possible in five minutes. still, if you jump on him backstage, kissing him and slipping your tongue inside his mouth, he takes the hint. he'll make up for it later that night though. you best believe you will be overstimulated for hours and hours after.
โ™ก he's very thorough with the aftercare too โ€” all you have to do is lie there while he cleans you up, fingers flicking through the cum on the insides of your thighs until the oversensitivity makes you hiss. he'll smile looking a little guilty and give you a little kiss to make up for it.
โ™ก an absolute sweetheart!! ross loves falling asleep with you in his arms. and it's the best feeling in the world. he's always just the right amount of warm and his t-shirts always perfectly soft. every night when you fall asleep, you can't help but thank all your lucky stars <3
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heydranga ยท 1 month
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This is a random thought. Was playing sdv and found Sam's Christmas shopping list. I noticed that Abigail wasn't on the list.
So I have a headcanon that abigail and sam don't actually like each other and that the only reasons they even hang out is between being best friends with sebastian and their mothers are besties too.
I imagine sam and Abigail to have a Tuck and Ming Ming type relationship and Sebastian is Lenny. (If you know who I'm talking about kudos to you, shout out to multimedia animation)
It kind of makes sense I kind of feel that abigail kind of forces herself on Sebastian and it kind of at times makes him feel even more trapped at Pelican town. Meanwhile Sam is a ball of sunshine who's super extroverted and, as a fellow introvert that can get extremely tiring, but Sam also seems to be the type to know when to stop pushing.
When I first saw Abigail and Sebastian, I thought oh yeah that makes sense. But the more I see how much she's near her house and got her heart events, albeit unintentionally, I started wondering if she was using seb a bit.
What if Abigail is using sebastian as an out. Imagine if you will...
Abigail wants freedom same as sebastian. But Abigail is more daring and doesn't know when to stop pushing. Abigail would a 100% date the new farmer and/or Sebastian just to piss off her father. She's wild because she knows it pisses her father off. Don't get me wrong Abigail I have a like/hate for her. She sets me off and not in a good way. When I dated her in a save I felt used, like I get you want to do the same things as me but are you actually prepared for that type of thing?
Do you really want to leave pelican town and find a better life for yourself or do you just want Pierre to get off your back so you can have breathing room to do as you please?
Sebastian just wants to feel more appreciated and wants people to see that he really is just introverted and not emo or goth. He's not trying to rebel he just wants to feel heard and listened to.
Sam is actually a good listener which is why Sebastian doesn't mind being around him. He knows that if he asks Sam to stop pushing, he will. They hang out a lot more together without abigail and I feel like abigail kind of forced her way into the group.
Something tells me Sam and Sebastian had been best friends for a while and maybe Penny was apart of they're group. Sebastian never seems to mind Penny and Sam obviously likes her. I imagine that Sam was so used to having 2 introverted friends and being the one to lightly push them out of their shell but respecting when they aren't comfortable and letting it go.
People Sam is childish and I definitely get that but he does genuinely care and when the situation comes to it he will step up to the plate. He's spoiled but not stupid or rotten.
Anyway thank you for reading this is just my opinion please no hate.
I also play sdv on the switch so no spoilers for the update if any of this changes.
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toasterhasabucket ยท 6 months
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I HATE THE infantilizing OF TOBY AND I HATE TUE DEMONIZING OF HIM TO. PLEASE HAVE A OKAYISH MEDIUM.
he's not an ABSOLUTELY horrible person but of course he's not a sweet angle sent from heaven either, duh he's done some things but of course it's not entirely his fault. In my opinion almost NONE of it is his fault, I will not fight about this.
Also by infantilizing , what I mean is people making him as if he can do no wrong and is completely innocent and SAY it's Canon. I GUESS it's not as bad if you know it's not canon, i joke about him doing no wrong because hes my favorite character of all time, but I know it's not canon and I would never think it was.
Like the whole sweet boy waffle boy toby thing. I remember that. Oh god, I remember. I was a fan in elementary school, (in 10th grade now) I used to think him being annoying, loud, "hey masky" and so so so so bubbly was canon and nobody told me otherwise. But as I got older, in 7th grade I realized "oh that's not canon. Huh. Okay cool ๐Ÿ‘" and I went about my day, I wasn't like OH MY GOD my sweet innocent baby boy is- is evil???? No. I just moved on.
and more recently, less people have been 'babying' (I'm really not sure if this is the righhttt word) and more peopoe have been demonizing him. If you have tiktok or have been paying attention to creepypasta drama you'll know there was someone telling their "realistic headcanons" and it all was just demonizing toby and his mental illnesses. They talked about how he would be abusive and drink and hurt you yada yada you guys get it. But I think everyone who was a toby fan in like 2016 just IGNORED (Natalie) clockwork and tobys relationship or just hates it so much they forgot it was HEALTHY. Toby Rogers had a HEALTHY, CANON RELATIONSHIP.
I cannot express how much I love love love toby and how much his character has meant to me over the years. Don't judge me please please please please please please please please.
Okay so In elementary I was obsessed with (fanon- but what I thought was canon) toby. I loved him so much I took his personality, yk the loud, annoying, "I'm the favorite hehe" mindset, weird obsessed with waffles (now I hate saying the word waffles, I cringe just thinking about it.) And I had a BEST friend who I assigned as my 'masky friend' so I annoyed the ever living hell out of her. "Hey (insert girl name here)! Hey (insert girl name here)! Hey-" so much I'm surprised she didn't kid curb stomp my brains out.
I loveddd fanon tobys personality so much I thought everyone else did too but, rightfully so I guess, everyone thought I was annoying and weird (that was the plan but in like- a loveable way I guess if you know what I mean???)
I just want to say I loved toby then, I love him now and it will continue as long as I LIVE.
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EDITTTT IN ORANGE! OKAY I USED TRG WRONG WORD! THANK YOU FOR CORRECTION
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softxsuki ยท 1 year
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I have an urgent request and I apologize if you're working on other requests or focusing on personal life right now. It's been difficult to deal with myself sometimes. I get insecure about the way I look or the way I act. Do I stop talking and just stay quiet or do I talk and hope I don't embarrass myself? I always try to hide my chest because I feel like they're too 'big', per say. Sorry, it's basically just insecurity. Could you do Giyuu, Kyojuro, and Uzui with a fem!reader (romantically) please?
And I hope you're doing well! <3 - โšœ๏ธ
Giyuu, Rengoku, and Tengen (Separate) With Insecure Reader
Pairings: Giyuu x Fem!Reader, Rengoku x Fem!Reader, Tengen x Fem!Reader
Warnings: insecurities, mention of tiddies in Tengens but nothing explicit :)
Genre: Comfort
Post-Type: Headcanons
Word Count: 880
Summary: In which Giyuu, Rengoku, and Tengen (separate) find out about your insecurities and how they help you feel better
[A/N: Hey โšœ๏ธanon! Thank you for trusting me with your urgent request. I know what it feels like to be insecure with yourself, and I'm sorry you've been feeling this way :( I just want to note that in Tengen's I made you one of his wives and his other wives are there as well so I hope that's okay! It's my first time really writing for Demon Slayer so fingers crossed that I did okay! I hope this comforts you and you enjoy it <3]
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Giyuu:
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Giyuu is overall very quiet and I donโ€™t picture him to be very expressive about how heโ€™s feeling
Even after being in a relationship for some time, heโ€™s not the type to throw compliments your way or really verbally express his love for you, BUT he does love you, a lot!
When he finds out about your insecurities Giyuu is a bit lost on how to help you feel better
It pains him to see you so self-critical about the way you look because he genuinely doesnโ€™t see anything wrong with you
Youโ€™re gorgeous, incredibly kind, and you managed to find room in your heart for a cold guy like himโ€“youโ€™re perfect in his eyes
I think heโ€™d try and go out of his comfort zone to maybe verbally express what he loves about you and maybe telling you youโ€™re beautiful more often, along with telling you he loves you more often than usual
As for the speaking part, he wonโ€™t exactly realize youโ€™re holding back from saying something in a group setting, but he would if itโ€™s the both of you spending time together
Heโ€™d see your eyes light up when you see something you like, and your mouth moves to speak, but you stop yourselfโ€“sooo heโ€™ll make the first move to speak, maybe mentioning how nice it looks and ask what you think about it
Making openings for you to speak instead of holding back because youโ€™re scared youโ€™ll embarrass yourselfโ€“Giyuu definitely wonโ€™t laugh, heck he probably wonโ€™t even notice if you say something embarrassing, and even if he did, he wouldnโ€™t care
So overall Giyuuโ€™s approach about comforting you is very chill and direct at times, but genuinely he just doesnโ€™t get why youโ€™re insecure
Rengoku:
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RENGOKUUUUUUUUUUUUUU
Listen, I just know heโ€™d have a whole inspiring speech to try and make you feel better about yourself
Heโ€™s always encouraging you to speak, and even directs the conversation at you sometimes to get your opinion or answer about something
Rengoku drinks โ€˜respect womenโ€™ juice for breakfast so you know heโ€™s going to make you feel good about yourself through not only his words, but actions as well
Whenever you get a little quiet during a conversation he probably says something embarrassing so you both can laugh and try to get you to open up more with him and whoever else youโ€™re around
I mean, who cares if you say something embarrassing? Heโ€™d just laugh fondly thinking itโ€™s cute, but if anyone says anything about it to you to try and make you feel bad about yourself heโ€™d politely ask them to stop and will proceed to make you feel better
The last thing he wants is for you to hold yourself back because of your insecurities, he adores openness as he is a very honest, open person so heโ€™d love for you as his girlfriend to be the same way
Of course, if thatโ€™s something youโ€™re still working on then heโ€™d patiently help you through it, he doesnโ€™t want to force you to be open with him about your insecurities and pretend like they donโ€™t exist, but rather he wants to work on helping you see yourself the way he sees you
Youโ€™re perfect in his eyes, absolutely perfect; from your personality to every inch of your body, it all looks like art to him
If he finds you thinking badly about yourself get ready for a whole hour long speech about how amazing you are and how much he loves you
You might find your insecurities slowly vanishing with Rengoku around :3
Tengen:
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Tengen places his wives at first priority; always his number oneโ€“heโ€™s a very affectionate man, so you of course are no exception to that
Iโ€™d be surprised if youโ€™re still insecure while being with Tengen, heโ€™s always praising you and complimenting you SEVERAL times a day
Perhaps maybe itโ€™s the other wives being around that makes you feel insecure? Comparing yourself to them or maybe you notice Tengen spends more time with them than with you? If so, then Tengen gets to work wiping those insecurities out of your mind QUICKLY
After all, itโ€™s not very flashy to have your wife feeling bad about herself, heโ€™d feel like heโ€™s failing as a husbandโ€“he just wants you to be happy and to love yourself as much as he loves you
As for your body??? HELLOOOO youโ€™re literally part of his big titty wife committee, he ADORES your large chest, says youโ€™re very flashy and again, just throws many heartfelt compliments your way throughout the day
If you ever find yourself insecure with Tengen for even a moment donโ€™t get used to it, because it wonโ€™t last very long
Do you see how gorgeous his wives are? And you get to be one of them as well? He sees not only your external beauty, but also your inner beauty
You even have three other girls to talk to about stuff whenever Tengenโ€™s support isnโ€™t helpful enough, itโ€™s a whole family support system
Tengen loves you and loves to hear whatโ€™s on your mind and any wild/crazy things you want to say, so never worry about embarrassing yourself in front of him, heโ€™d be the first one to say something embarrassing or egoistical but he doesnโ€™t care, so you shouldnโ€™t either!
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REQUESTS ARE OPEN :D
Posted: 11/4/2022
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the-cat-and-the-birdie ยท 5 months
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Y'all I'm - I'm so tired y'all
I get this often. It's understandable. I've said a lot in the past of how I believe no canonical age that can be proven - the same way there's hundreds of characters who's sexuality or nationality can't be proven.
But the problem is people saying things likes this and feeling no need whatsoever to back themselves up.
Hobie Has No Age, Stop Giving No Evidence.
[a SHORT RANT about the lack of evidence and sourcing within fandom - and the Hobie age discussion]
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I genuinely believe you can headcanon him at any reasonable age (as in not 42 or 12 or something).
The problem with this is saying something like this as if it's definitive fact then making no attempt to back up your argument isn't helpful, okay, or appropriate.
In any context.
And it happens everywhere in fandom. All the time.
By saying things like this, or even stating objective facts about the world without backing yourself up with evidence, means you expect others to take you at face value with no additional questioning.
Which you should never encourage others to do. Which no one should ever do.
Once again, I believe you can headcanon Hobie at any age. I genuinely do not care.
I think he's 19-20.
I have evidence for why I think this.
Does this evidence mean I am 100% correct on his age and that I have the right to tell people otherwise?
No. Because it hasn't been confirmed.
But if you're going to tell me my stance is wrong, you have to be ready to engage with every single one of my evidence points so I can understand why it's wrong. You will have to present you own evidence, and defend it.
So often people will say an assertion objectively like this - and then immediately expect the other person to defend themselves.
Even though they haven't even defended their argument to begin with.
You don't walk up to someone and ask their name before you say yours.
You don't walk up to someone and demand their argument/rebuttal or submission to your opinion, without even stating the entirety of the opinion first.
This is something that is so common in this specific conversation - but it goes WAY outside if the realm of the ATSV fandom or even fandom in general.
If you state fact, an opinion, a rebuttal, a criticism, what have you - please back yourself up.
And I mean with screenshots and dialogue and gifs if you gotta.
In all subjects. All topics of all degrees.
I don't think Hobie has a canonical age.
I do think Hobie is around 19-20, in my interpretation. I have evidence that makes be confident and sound in my decision to write him as such.
And I think everyone holds the individual right to make such an interpretation for themselves.
But if you wish to engage someone else on how they interpret Hobie - engage them fully. Back yourself up.
Do not expect them to reply apologizing to you - because let's be honest. I feel like that's what y'all want and expect.
That when you say a one line statement like it's objective fact with no follow up, the expectation is for the other person to be like
'Sorry, I didn't know! I'll edit/take the post down now :) thanks for telling me'
Because really, what other answer can you give? Just saying 'Hobie is a minor' and nothing more leaves only two options: accept what they're saying as fact or defend yourself on why you think he isn't.
Y'all genuinely do not expect to be questioned.
ABSOLUTELY NOT - You better speak into the mic!!
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Come with screenshots and script lines. And if you can't - Then it isn't true. And it isn't definite.
I will almost never accept something on face value without getting at least some form evidence from a reputable source. And I say almost because we all fuck up, but ideally I' m striving for never.
I've already stated in the past why I think this conversation is absolutely fruitless.
But if you want to engage in it regardless - or engage in any fandom discourse - Engage with it fully.
If you're going to engage me, engage with me fully. I'm completely open to talking about it and looking over any evidence you have.
But saying things like
- Well I know young people who look like him-
- I know young people who act like him-
- People are making him look older-
- He most likely has a fake ID-
None of that is evidence.
All of that is pure speculation. And there is a stark difference between justification and evidence.
If your justification isn't coming from the source material - the script, movie, or writers - it isn't evidence or proof.
You can use that justification to root your own interpretation - but once you make the assertion that he definitively is or isn't (which can't be proven) - at the very least, the burden is on you to provide evidence that is sufficient.
Doing stuff like this is so unhelpful.
Multiple times have I seen people ask how old Hobie is and someone will reply '17๐Ÿฅฐ' and the other person will be like 'okay thanks!!'
And I'm like '????????'
So that's it huh ... yous just... not gonna ask no follow up questions? we done here?
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And the chain reaction just continues.
Not I, Not I! I'd rather die - for in these streets, you niggas lie.
Hobie has no canonical age or sexuality or heritage. He doesn't have a canonical middle name either.
Yet, people desperately try to make a definitive assertion on only one of those things - for the benefit of nothing but their own shipping -
And then they don't provide evidence.
Always ask for evidence.
In person too. I will speak from experience people get offended when you ask them "Where'd you hear that," or "Can I have a source, please? Text me a link." or "What's your proof?"
They take it as a question of authority or a lack of trust.
And maybe it is. Doesn't matter and I don't care. Questioning authority and not going off blind trust is good, I thought that's what we were told to do.
I find this so ironic to talk about right now - because just yesterday @layz-chipz (they're great check them out) was talking about potentially making a video essay about the Hobie age discourse, the futility of it and the fragility of the arguments.
And I can say it's a video that's sorely needed (no pressure though!) and a conversation that has unnecessarily dominated the community and conversation for way too goddamn long.
It needs to be - in the words of Hobie Brown - SQUASHED.
and to reiterate and make it clear - My issue it's not with people who think he's underage or a minor. Or people who do so without evidence.
My issue it's people asserting something, and then not supporting it directly after said assertion.
Hobie wouldn't like that. Hobie would want you to cite your sources. Or mind your business. Oh and-
IMO Hobie as of right now has no canonical age.
And if you read this far I love you
Anyway here's a really high res photo of Hobie and a meme i have no other place to use ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ
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seb-reads31 ยท 8 months
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I'm glad you don't mind! Then, I'll request again! Though please tell me if you're not interested! It's headcanons of Obey Me characters except Lucifer & Belphegor notice GN Reader had a bad day so he went to check on them. They are still sad but they immediately brighten up upon seeing him! How would OM characters cheer them up? Sorry for repeating this similar prompt because I had a bad day and I really love your writing!
Tw's -
Genre - Hurt/Comfort
Type - Head canons
Comments - Of course nonnieee ๐Ÿฅบ๐Ÿฅบ I'm sorry you had a bad day, I hope it gets/got better! And I really hope you enjoy these. They're gonna be a bit shorter though, mostly my thoughts on how they would comfort you, hopefully this is okay. I wanna avoid repeating the same thing over and over again.
Bad day?
Mammon
๐Ÿ’ธ If he saw you crying his instincts would kick in
๐Ÿ’ธ HA, you thought I was gonna say that he wouldn't know what to do, but you're WRONG
๐Ÿ’ธ The reason I chose the word "instincts" is because he has 5 younger brothers, he knows what to do when someone is crying and how to cheer them up
๐Ÿ’ธ 10/10, the best comforter ever totally not personally biased
๐Ÿ’ธ But regardless, he knows how to cheer up different people based on their personality, he had to deal with different kinds and had to learn to adapt to the new ones and their preferences. With you, it'll be a cake walkโœจ
๐Ÿ’ธ He's so good at it you'll forget why you were upset in the first place
๐Ÿ’ธ Eventually after you've calmed down he'll ask you if you wanna talk about why you're upset, if you do then he'll listen and give the best advice he can, if you don't then he'll reassure you that you don't have to tell him if you don't want to then drop the subject altogether to keep your mind off of it
Leviathan
๐ŸŽฎ He's one of the worst at comforting, but he tries his best
๐ŸŽฎ Solid 4/10 in my opinion
๐ŸŽฎ His form of comforting you is grabbing your favorite snacks, and offering to watch your favorite anime together, or playing your favorite game together, or reading your favorite manga together
๐ŸŽฎ He might attempt to ask what was wrong but might not have the courage to do so, but will tell you nonverbally that he's there for you no matter what
๐ŸŽฎ He's more used to being the one comforted rather than having to comfort someone so he's a little awkward, but again, does his best
Satan
๐Ÿงถ Another one of the better comforters
๐Ÿงถ 7.5/10
๐Ÿงถ Why I say 7.5 instead of like a 8 or 9 is because his form of comforting would be taking you to a cat cafe (if you're not allergic/like cats, if so then he would take you to a normal cafe) and buy you as many snacks and drinks as you would like, as well as buying a few books you've been wanting to read (if you like reading, if not then you two just talk)
๐Ÿงถ His knowledge of comforting probably came from his constant reading
๐Ÿงถ He probably also read some human psychology books out of both boredom and slight interest
Asmodeus
๐Ÿ˜˜ 9/10
๐Ÿ˜˜ 100% fusses over you like a mom/older sibling
๐Ÿ˜˜ Self care day, your choice if you wanna go to a spa, get a massage, or get a manicure, pedicure, or both if you want he's paying for it all ๐Ÿคง
๐Ÿ˜˜ There are no if's and's or but's about it, he's paying and you're going to relax and take your mind off of things for a while
๐Ÿ˜˜ I personally feel like he would be the best person to vent to
๐Ÿ˜˜ He gives great advice, great at analyzing, and knows how to read people in any situation possible
๐Ÿ˜˜ You may not think so, but feel free to share your thoughts
๐Ÿ˜˜ If you decide to talk about it he's more than willing to give his thoughts and offers tips or solutions for your problems
๐Ÿ˜˜ Tied in 1st place with Mammon
Beelzebub
๐Ÿ” 5/10
๐Ÿ” Not the best but not the worst
๐Ÿ” His form of comfort is either Belphie or food
๐Ÿ” So he takes you out to eat somewhere, specifically to your favorite restaurant and orders your favorite food, as well as some dessert
๐Ÿ” He's the 2nd best when it comes to listening (1st going to Asmo) but doesn't exactly give the best advice
๐Ÿ” He tries his best, and ends up consulting Belphie or Lucifer maybe
๐Ÿ” He doesn't exactly know what to do when comforting you but he does his best
Diavolo
๐Ÿ‘‘ He's busy most of the time, and he didn't get much interaction with other people when he was growing up so he isn't the best when it comes to comforting someone
๐Ÿ‘‘ 2/10 ;-;
๐Ÿ‘‘ He doesn't know what to do so he summons Barbatos to assist him
๐Ÿ‘‘ And that's assuming that he was even available to begin with ๐Ÿซค
๐Ÿ‘‘ Let's just say that he was for the sake of the request though
๐Ÿ‘‘ He would be very awkward
๐Ÿ‘‘ Probably resorts to taking a break with you and having a small tea party where you vent to him about your problems
๐Ÿ‘‘ It would be a nice break for him as well so two birds with 1 stone ๐Ÿ‘
Barbatos
๐Ÿต 7-9/10
๐Ÿต There's a reason for the 7-9 so stay with me ๐Ÿ˜ญ
๐Ÿต 7 is when he's had a bit of a longer/busier day
๐Ÿต He's already feeling a bit more stressed out or overwhelmed than usual and can't find it in himself to be completely.. understanding
๐Ÿต He will definitely make you two some tea and snacks whenever he has a small break but his advice won't be the absolute best
๐Ÿต There's multiple things running through his mind at the moment so he's a little confuzzled
๐Ÿต On a good day however is when he's at a 9
๐Ÿต He's much more willing to listen and will give you much better advice
๐Ÿต On days where he's at a 9 includes him taking a break from serving Dia and takes you to the gardens to make flower crowns as you vent your frustrations I love flower crowns leave me alone
๐Ÿต I feel like this is what he does in his free time personally (I'll save this for a general Head canon request or if I decide to do it out of boredom)
๐Ÿต He doesn't necessarily like plucking the flowers from the gardens but he knows a spell or 2 to replace them easily, so he doesn't really mind
๐Ÿต He definitely gives you much better advice and even offers to bake something with you to take your mind off of it ๐Ÿฅน
Simeon
๐Ÿ˜‡ Simeon is a literal angel, let's get that out of the way right now
๐Ÿ˜‡ Now, I feel like angels just have this calming aura or something like that around them
๐Ÿ˜‡ And that helps you to relax and feel less stressed
๐Ÿ˜‡ I feel like Simeon is just the best person to go to if you're having a bad day though
๐Ÿ˜‡ He's the most calm out of everyone, and is the 2nd best at comforting
๐Ÿ˜‡ I say 2nd for a reason
๐Ÿ˜‡ And that is because you live with the brothers, they know you the best
๐Ÿ˜‡ Simeon is just an exchange students like you, you don't normally spend a lot of time together
Solomon
๐Ÿช„ I don't know what to give Solomon
๐Ÿช„ He would probably be better in the sense that he's a human and understands human emotions a bit better than demons
๐Ÿช„ He's also very old wise so he would have some good advice as well
๐Ÿช„ He would probably find your favorite fantasy animal and show you it, like unicorns or dragons, stuff like that
๐Ÿช„ Or he would show you some fun spells and such that would both be easy and fun to learn
๐Ÿช„ He's not the best at comforting someone, he leaves that stuff alone but he is good at distracting you from your problems if that's what you really need
Luke
๐Ÿถ 5/10
๐Ÿถ DON'T ATTACK ME JUST LISTEN ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ
๐Ÿถ Luke is a small child technically, he doesn't fully understand adult emotions or why specific things happen
๐Ÿถ He's not the best, and he shouldn't have to be because he is a child
๐Ÿถ It doesn't stop him from wanting to cheer you up with pastries he baked with Simeon or Barbatos though
๐Ÿถ The precious baby doesn't know what happened today, but is willing to help any way he can ๐Ÿฅบ๐Ÿฅบ
๐Ÿถ It's more than likely just you two baking together with Simeon and/or Barbatos but it's still a fun and helpful activity to do when you're feeling down
Notes - I'M SO SORRY THIS TOOK SO LONG ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ I got burnt out or something along the way for whatever reason ๐Ÿง But school also started up again so I'm not very tired ๐Ÿฅฒ I hope you enjoyed this though!
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