I'm not getting over the fact that people used to complain that Bruce and Dick were "homosexual propaganda". Like.. you see a 12 year old boy and a grown ass man and the fact THAT THEY ARE TWO MEN IS THE PROBLEM?
"I can excuse pedophilia, but I draw the line at homosexual propaganda!"
Each of the Batfamily members have moments that genuinely scare the others.
For Cass, the family generally tries not to piss her off from a consensus that she'll win any fight.
Damian is usually not feared, especially when he's making assassination attempts or insults. When he becomes silent and an animal is involved, that's when the Bats start to freak out.
Duke doesn't mean to be scary. He'll just casually mention something he's done or react to someone instinctively with his powers. This reminds the others why he usually handles the day shift alone.
Dick has two settings to set his family instantly on edge: The first is when he lacks a smile or quips. This is usually reserved for enemies. The second is when he -is- smiling, but it's not right. He only does this allies who are about to be verbally or physically eviscerated.
Steph will lack any visible emotion in her face.
Jason's scary to his family when he makes biting remarks or starts to monologue. He usually follows those up with physical retaliation or some dastardly plans.
Babs uses her "Customer Service" voice as the last warning before your tech or reputation is destroyed.
Tim will either disappear without warning (to make some heinous schemes), or he'll pull out the Drake™ smile.
jason being cast as tiny tim bc he was the smallest 15 yr old in his theatre class (based on that hc that he was small af before he died, & when he came back to life he shot up like a tree)