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yesthechaos · 8 months
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How To Be a Safe Person to Menstruate With
You can be private without expressing disgust. Just step away politely or be honest that you are embarrassed. Neither of these choices shames women.
The reverse is also true. Like I said, just because someone doesn’t want to talk doesn’t mean they’re lame and ashamed.
Compliment girls wearing on their self-expression like red jewelry or watering a Venus flytrap with their menstrual cups.
There are lots of sustainable products now but accessibility is not equal. Not everyone has the water resources to wash reusable products so don’t get preachy.
If you shit on someone else’s choice of birth control, by God I will come for you.
Vote to protect birth control
Do not tell someone they’re gross for using pads and cups that require washing.
If you have found a trustworthy gynecologist, spread the word
If a woman tells you she feels ill, in pain, or like something is wrong believe her
Do not tell her to lose weight or consider therapy. If you do, I will hit you with a fish.
Take hormonal diseases seriously
When someone tells you she has endometriosis, interstitial cystitis, cancer, or PCOS, do not come at her with medical expertise you suddenly think you have.
Offer to buy pads and tampons but make sure to ask what kind — some have allergens.
You can always get someone a glass of water.
If it’s a trans guy you’re talking with, validate his body without treating him like one of the girls. If you don’t know how, just ask.
Do not try to guess if someone is on their period. That’s rude.
I have an alpha period. If we hang out, you will sync to my period and we can all be unhappy together.
If you bleed monthly and are talking to a woman who doesn’t, you aren’t better than her. You define your period. She can define hers.
If someone is confused because she started her period and got a positive pregnancy test, take her to the hospital and defend her with your life. She is miscarrying and needs an ultrasound. If a doctor dismisses her as just having a difficult period, make ape noises and then threaten him with arson.
If after all this you are still angry, DM me his name and I will personally come for revenge. I am pregnant and very powerful.
For that matter, my husband will sort him out for you.
Take black women seriously. Respect that WOC face medical discrimination and gaslighting on the daily.
Advil is valid. Homeopathics are valid. Do not assail your friend with essential oils when she’s asked for a Midol.
If your friend shares some concerning symptoms with you, do not freak her out with an armchair diagnosis.
But you should definitely validate her pain and encourage her to get help. Or even help her get help. Throw her in the car and personally drive her to the doctor.
If your friend confides in you that she has an STI or you are able to guess that she has an STI, be nice to her because if you don’t I will find you and I will yeet you away into the night like Batman.
Educate yourself about periods. Learn the correct anatomical words.
And for God’s sake, you still have to wear a condom.
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void-of-nonsense · 8 months
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I ran into a post that was a bit confusing at first until I realised that op might have been using an accesibility tool to make the post in the first place. So I re-read the post focusing on the whole concept a word might convey rather than just the standard dictionary definition. It did take some effort but the post did make sense and not only that it was a post I agreed with and had experienced similar if not the same things.
Reminded me how difficult it can be to advocate for yourself if you're being dismissed because someone else doesnt understand you.
I took a linguistics class once and got into an argument because there was an example of a person who 'never developed langauge' and they were saying that person was only as intelligent as a todler if I remember right. But thats not something you can prove. They might not have the langauge skills you expect but you cant prove someone is stupid. It feels like pointing at someone who only speaks Mandarin and saying 'that person can't speak english therefore they are an idiot'. The only thing you can really measure is what you understand. So if you can't understand someone who are you to judge them?
When someone's grammar is 'bad' and its hard for you to understand. It was probably hard for them to write too. They're making an effort to comunicate something so the effort you put in to understanding it balances out. And even then the effort you put in to undersranding is in a lot of cases probably still easier than it was for that person to write in the first place.
I think it's important that for those who find it easier to comunicate make sure they are helping someone advocate for themselves and not advocating for them.
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batri-jopa · 7 months
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Cinema Therapy - Therapist Reacts to THE MITCHELLS VS. THE MACHINES
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lizbethsletters · 1 month
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𝓭𝓮𝓪𝓻, 𝓵𝓸𝓿𝓮 𝓸𝓯 𝓶𝔂 𝓵𝓲𝓯𝓮
Today, I got my nails done I wanted to send you a photo and show you them. Maybe time does heal all wounds but I wish it didn't because I never want to stop remembering how much I love you. During one of our late night phone calls you and I were just talking but you were over at a party but had stepped out to call me because a song started playing that reminded you of me. That song happened to be one of my all time favorite songs "Colgando en tus manos". Ever since then I have imagined countless of time us dancing to it or you trying to teach me while I very much can't and we break apart laughing but come back to just put my head on your shoulder and just not being able to stop laughing. I miss your eyes and everything about you but I have decided I can't even talk to you at all breaking no contact isn't an option. If we were able to come back from this we wouldn't all of a sudden live right next to each other and every problem we had wouldn't even exist. I love you but we can't be together. We were the right person at the wrong time. It breaks my heart more than you can even imagine. I'm sorry but it was what I had to do. I hope one day you realize that you haven't already. I love you and I miss you. I miss all the stupid conversations and how you used to look at me and your smile that made me smile even harder. I love you.
𝔂𝓸𝓾𝓻𝓼 𝓽𝓻𝓾𝓵𝔂,
𝓷𝓸𝓽 𝔂𝓸𝓾𝓻 𝓰𝓲𝓻𝓵 𝓪𝓷𝔂𝓶𝓸𝓻𝓮 :(
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nnddsss · 3 months
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the fact that I'm theoretically available 24/7 doesn't mean that I have to answer your texts 24/7. also, I do not answer fast (generally speaking, of course) because it's rare that the only thing I'm doing is texting you. when you text me while I'm watching a movie with my sister and I answer you, it doesn't mean that I will spend the whole time texting you. the same goes if I'm getting ready to go out or if I'm on a brief work break. of course, if we are texting about something serious or pressing or even silly, but that's flowing, I'm gonna answer you if I'm doing nothing. also I'm very sorry but sometimes I wanna be alone and do my things, and not texting you, I'm sorry if we were getting to know each other via text but I can't be available all that time. I struggle answering my friends, and we are not friends yet, and I'm sorry.
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sun-dipped-quill · 1 year
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forgiven
today I snapped and you got hurt
I was stressed and over whelmed
and I took that stress and turned it into pain
sending those burns your way
still even though I hurt you
and you had every right to be livid
instead we talked it out and all has been forgiven
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The five-year engagement, 2012
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gartyontumlr · 6 months
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Ever want to reach out to the comunity here but you just don’t have anything relavant to say?😭
Like I want to talk to you all so much but I don’t know how to star the conversation🤣😭
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nicolasfolch · 11 months
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l'instant Aldous Huxley, Venise.
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jbfly46 · 8 months
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Some entities use backwards logic, because where they are from it is just normal logic, and other entities use a type of circular logic, with the assumption that if you are communicating with them, then you know to pay more attention to what isn't being said than what is being said. It is no entity's fault when a human summons them, makes a request without knowing how to properly communicate with them, and proceeds to completely misinterpret the results.
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Beware of This Silent Relationship Killer That Sneaks Up on You !
I have seen many relationships fall apart due to a silent killer that often goes unnoticed: lack of communication. While it may seem like a small issue at first, over time, the lack of communication can fester and grow, leading to resentment, anger, and ultimately, the demise of the relationship.
The problem with lack of communication is that it's not always easy to recognize. It's not as overt as cheating or constant arguing, but it can be just as damaging. When partners stop communicating openly and honestly, they create a distance between them that can be difficult to bridge.
One way to combat this silent killer is to make communication a priority in your relationship. Start by having regular check-ins with your partner. Ask them how they're feeling, what they need from the relationship, and what you can do to support them.
It's also important to be honest and transparent in your communication. If you're feeling upset or angry about something, don't hold it in. Talk to your partner about it and work together to find a solution.
Another key to combating lack of communication is to practice active listening. When your partner is talking, really listen to what they're saying. Show empathy and understanding, and ask questions to clarify their point of view.
Finally, remember that communication is a two-way street. Encourage your partner to communicate openly and honestly with you, and be receptive to their needs and concerns.
In summary, lack of communication is a silent relationship killer that can sneak up on even the strongest of couples. By prioritizing communication, honesty, and active listening, you can build a strong and healthy relationship that can withstand the challenges of life.
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gbeartstudio · 1 year
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oscarcdmx · 1 year
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marketerballerina · 1 year
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Analogía: herencia del diseño tradicional y las metáforas del diseño digital
En el paso del tiempo hay cosas que han cambiado, y otras que siguen siendo un reflejo tenue o nítido de las situaciones o cosas tradicionales.
Podemos hablar de lo fácil que se ha convertido obtener información solamente googleando una palabra y confiamos plenamente en esa respuesta que nos lanza el buscador. Talvez otras personas indagan más, buscan información en fuentes verificadas, libros en PDF, etc., pero no se puede negar que hemos aprendido a buscar información en cuestión de segundos.
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¿Cómo buscaban información nuestros antepasados? Les tomaba más tiempo construir un ensayo por ejemplo, buscando información en la biblioteca y si de suerte nadie se sacaba los libros que ellos necesitaban, pero el resultado podía ser exactamente el mismo que el nuestro en estos tiempos que tenemos más facilidades.
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Las generaciones han cambiado de costumbres pero hay cosas que quedan intactas en el tiempo, como el periódico. Podemos hablar de la costumbre de sentarse en el almuerzo todos juntos y conversar, hoy en día no es raro sacar el celular para ver vídeos en YouTube, sobre todo la generación Z que puede prestar atención a muchas cosas a la vez.
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Para entender el avance de los medios de comunicación podemos imaginarnos a nosotros mismos entrando a un centro comercial con muchos lugares para observar. El primer lugar una barbería, donde el barbero y el cliente están escuchando el partido por la radio, un medio de comunicación en tiempo directo que simplemente los comentaristas le dan la vida al partido con su tono y nitidez en la voz, donde uno debe estar atento para no perderse ni un minuto del partido, mientras en el segundo lugar, el patio de comidas, observamos que hay unas cuantas televisiones colgadas en las paredes, con el mismo objetivo de que las personas alrededor puedan estar atentas al partido, pero aumentando un poco más de experiencia, si te perdiste el momento justo del gol, no te preocupas porque hay una repetición en la pantalla. Y un tercer lugar una tienda de videojuegos en el mismo centro comercial, que no dispone de radio ni televisión, pero tienen un celular con conexión a internet donde tranquila y cómodamente pueden ver el partido.
Las cosas se han adaptado a estos tiempos que ya nadie tiene el tiempo suficiente. Sentarse con toda la familia a ver un programa de televisión es como una estrella fugaz, si pasa debes pedir un deseo. Ahora todos pueden estar en una habitación consumiendo un tipo de información diferente desde diferentes dispositivos, y las cosas se han simplificado para hacer todo en el menor tiempo posible. Podemos creer que este es el punto máximo del avance tecnológico y la digitalización, pero yo creo que algún día lo que hacemos en este momento será historia.
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