#// trauma

[sarimwonderland75]

The Anxiety Gangs

Based on the painting by Edvard Munch

#the amazing digital circus #tadc #digital circus #pizza tower #emesis blue #fpe #fundamental paper education #tadc pomni #peppino spaghetti #pomni #claire fpe #blu soldier #trauma #work of art #art

[thepeacefulgarden]

#you are enough #you are worthy #you matter #self care #self compassion #self love #self respect #self forgiveness #growth #healing #recovery #trauma #people pleasing #fawning #codependency #boundaries #acceptance #fuck diet culture #doing your best #give yourself credit #perfectionism #mental health #tell your inner critic to stfu #honor your progress

[raointean]

#epic the underworld saga #epic the musical #the odyssey #odysseus #trauma

[atomic-dad99]

Good girls deal with their trauma by making older men cum to it.

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#younger for older #older man younger woman #olderforyounger #age g4p #older daddy #trauma #cnc k!nk #1cky daddy #1cky daughter

[kurniawangunadi]

Bagaimana Aku Bisa Percaya Kepadamu?

Semisal kita berhasil melewati semua ini. Apakah kita akan pasti bahagia? Bersanding tanpa perkara, tanpa seteru yang membuat kita kehilangan rasa percaya? Semisal kita berhasil melewati semua ini? Apakah bisa kamu berjanji untuk setia? Karena satu-satunya yang kutakutkan darimu adalah itu. Dengan semua trauma hidup yang kumiliki hingga saat ini, aku perlu waktu untuk belajar percaya pada kesetiaanmu. Karena satu-satunya hal yang tak kupercayai saat ini adalah kesetiaan. Apakah kamu akan marah jika aku terlalu pencemburu, menanyaimu kabarmu setiap waktu? Bagaimana caranya aku bisa percaya kepadamu? Bagaimana aku tahu kamu akan menepati janjimu, takkan menyakiti dan meninggalkan? Bagaimana aku bisa sepenuhnya yakin bahwa kamu takkan ubah kesetiaanmu seumur hidup? Lalu jawabmu hanya sebaris kata, "Caranya? Menikahlah denganku? Bagaimana?" (c)kurniawangunadi

#cerpen #kurniawangunadi #all rights reserved #trust issue #trauma

[similar-consumer]

#Daisy Marie #jongho #EruRi #liminalcore #young adult #gaining weight #trauma #nick and charlie #dms open #txt #dan and phil #sexy hips #texto de amor #endgame #lil peep

[sophieinwonderland]

I've seen a few systems express recently that they're not anti-endos but they don't think it's possible to be endo because it's not possible to not have trauma. They see trauma as something that happens to everyone and often goes unnoticed. Definitely agree with the unnoticed part. I'm glad these systems don't let their opinion make them hateful. But I want to challenge that idea a bit, that everyone is traumatized so all systems are traumagenic.

First off, traumagenic doesn't mean "has lived through trauma". It means "is that way because of trauma". Trauma is the cause. Many endos have trauma and can recognize it and work through it. They just don't think it's why they're a system.

And second, if they really believe any system who's had trauma is traumagenic, I wanna ask them: do they think of singlets the same way? Surely singlets also have trauma so by that logic they should also be traumagenic. Right? What about autism, trans identity, introversion, synesthesia? I can make the same argument with these. If you follow the logic of "everyone is traumatized" + "if you're traumatized you're traumagenic", then you know... you get autism is traumagenic and gender identity is traumagenic. By that logic I can justify brown hair as being traumagenic!

I see so much worry and concerns about systems not identifying as traumagenic or traumatized, yet I don't see that concern for other groups who by that logic are also all traumatized and in denial.

This is exactly my issue with this mentality! I've even seen people claim that being born is traumatic to say that even protogenic systems are also traumagenic. And that's just... that's not how any of this works...

I'll also add that I feel this is bad for actual trauma survivors because it's stretching the definition of trauma to an absurd degree and devalues the very concept of trauma, to the point where it's being forced on people who don't identify as traumatized and have no history of PTSD-like symptoms.

To put this another way...

#syscourse #sysblr #trauma #ptsd #multiplicity #systems #system #pro endo #pro endogenic #syndrome #actually plural #actually a system

[serenityquest]

#triggers #trauma #coping techniques #mental health #tapping

[traumatizeddfox]

i am both the predator and the prey

#traumacore #actuallytraumatized #ventcore #actuallymentallyill #ok to rb #vent art #trauma #actuallyabused #trauma art

[reimeichan]

I've been slowly learning to reclaim things that I love for myself. So many of my hobbies and passions are tainted by history: piano was forced upon me as a child and was a huge source of trauma by itself, dance was fun until my teacher started shit talking me about my weight, even photography sucks because it's something my parents enjoyed and god forbid I turn out anything like them.

But I'm teaching myself to decouple the past from these activities. I acknowledge the trauma associated with piano, and also that I miss playing pieces I enjoy. I allow myself time to hammer around when I can and to take breaks as long as I need to, to make the music making enjoyable in a way it never was for me as a child. I learn new dances from youtube, and giggle when I get the moves right. I still can't record myself, but I'm re-learning that my body shape has nothing to do with my ability. And while I still don't take a lot of pictures, the people around me do and I'm starting to associate picture taking with them instead of my parents. I guess this, too, is a part of healing.

#mental health #trauma #ptsd #cptsd #ask to tag #cw body image #since it was mentioned figured I should tag it #by purple #by gray

[voidic3ntity]

we are embedded within the fabric formation of poetic dreams:

seek beneath ourselves & discover that which dwells within us,

follow the spiral, around & around, within all moments of time,

the limit-head of that which is, the meeting point of duality;

eternity & infinity, time & space, bound so tightly together. 

#poetry #spilled thoughts #dark academia #dark prose #trauma #drugs #depression #alchemy #mental illness #art #mental health #spirituality #sad #introspection #liturature #tw #me #voidic3ntity #life is strange #pain #stoned #poets on tumblr #darkness #original #poem #life #death #poetic #philosophy #escapril

[autopsyfreak]

starting to think maybe the years of unsupervised internet access as a child was a bad idea after all

#actually aspd #actually mentally ill #actually npd #aspd #clusterb #npd #cluster b #actually bpd #actuallyaspd #actuallynpd #bpd #actuallybpd #ocd #actually schizophrenic #actually delusional #actually obsessive #actually ocd #actually autistic #actually cluster b #actually cptsd #actually borderline #actually narcissistic #actually antisocial #antisocial personality disorder #narcissistic personality disorder #borderline personality disorder #cluster b personality disorder #mental illness #cptsd #trauma

[lillie98]

How to Save the World—Stranger Things 5

I’ve had some time to sleep on the episode titles and think about them, read theories, etc. and I now believe they might be real.

Hear me out: Stranger Things is all about cycles, parallels, tropes happening over and over again. The Duffers love taking a moment and repeating it in slightly different ways to prove a point. The story started with “The Vanishing of Will Byers” because we needed to place a small, innocent child in the center of our story, something to bring our character together and drive them to action. Well, that child is no longer in danger and our team is ripping apart at the seams. It’s almost like we need something similar to reunite everyone and drive them to action again.

Remember: The Duffers love parallels. Will’s disappearance brought his deeply fractured family together, uniting them for a common cause. It also brought Nancy and Jon together when their families needed them most. Now, the Byers are a united front, ready to tackle any monster that comes their way. They are the glorification of the avant-gard family. Now which family is struggling? The Wheelers. The perfect, All-America Nuclear Family: Mom, Dad, 3 kids, and a picket fence. They look perfect to the outside world, but behind closed doors, they are deeply struggling. They don’t communicate, the parents have idea what’s happening in their children’s lives, and if they’re not careful, if they don’t come together and form a united front—they’re going to lose everything, potentially causing the end of the world. (Why? I haven’t gotten that far yet!)

Now, how do we inspire them to action? Maybe by taking the child who was born to save their crumbling marriage—the one has seen everything but, up until this point, been too young to contribute. Now, she’ll be the same age Will was when he disappeared and Mike and Will are the same age as Jon and Nancy. The Duffers are trying to illustrate the idea of “The Next Generation.” This evil, this Upside Down dimension is NEVER going to stop until someone from the Wheeler and Byers families breaks the cycle. Children will continue to vanish, the world will continue to crumble, until someone steps up and says ENOUGH. The Wheelers and Byers (parents and children) must step up and face their pasts in order to move forward.

The “Stranger Things” are not only LGBTQ+ matters, they are the skeletons we hide in the closet that literally eat us alive. They are the dark, festering parts of ourselves we don’t let anyone else see. The invisible cancers that slowly and silently kill us. Until we face them head on, until we bring them to the light, they will NEVER die. Stranger Things is about owning your past, facing your fears, and finding the light again.

So yes, Stranger Things will end with Will Byers making it home from Mike Wheeler’s house on November 6, 1983, but not in a time traveling way, in a finally letting go of that scared, pained little boy who thought the world was better off without him. It’s Mike accepting his sexuality and place in his family. His role as a leader. It’s Joyce accepting love from Hopper, who must accept that he is not actually cursed, but that sometimes, bad things happen to good people, even when they think they’re doing the right thing (Vietnam). it’s Karen and Ted falling in love again and fighting to save their family. It’s Eleven discovering that love, not anger, should fuel her powers. It’s mourning your stolen childhood while stepping into the version of yourself that child never got to be. It’s stopping the cycle and creating a better world for the Will Byers and Mike Wheelers and Jane Hoppers of tomorrow. THAT’S how you become a Hero.

#stranger things #will byers #mike wheeler #byler #byler endgame #stranger things analysis #stranger things headcanons #byler is requited #stranger things 5 #eleven #jane hopper #holly wheeler #nancy wheeler #jonathan byers #vecna stranger things #break the cycle #trauma #joyce byers #jim hopper #karen wheeler #ted wheeler #mental health

[oh-my-wolfstar]

Ok, so I love how in acotar Nesta is so stubborn that fae glamours don’t work on her. Like, my girl is such a stone cold bitch that even her subconscious told the fae magic to fuck off. But it got me thinking, what if this doesn’t just apply to her with glamours, what if she sees the whole world like this. Like, we see especially in acosf how well she understands how the social game works and how to cut people the deepest. But what if that’s because something in Nesta is so strong willed that she sees through all the bullshit niceties of the world. What if Nesta lives in a world that is several shades darker then the one her sisters live in.

if you’ve read Heros of Olympus, it’s like how Nick saw Tartarus as it truly was rather then how Percy and Annabeth saw it. Like, you know that part where Percy sees Tartarus without the mist and can’t believe Nico didn’t go crazy? I think Nesta might be like that.

#acotar series #acotar #acomaf #acowar #acosf #nesta archeron #feyre archeron #elain archeron #nesta acosf #character arch #trauma #book things #sjm books #pjo #heros of olympus #nico di angelo #tartarus #the mist #glamours #high fae

[dreamlesson]

DS9 didn’t have to go this hard with a brilliant illustration of traumatic grief in the first episode

#star trek #star trek deep space nine #star trek ds9 #deep space nine #ds9 #grief #trauma

[tattoo-kisses-and-what-ifs]

if i could go back to before everything went to shit, i would have no clue what to say to the little girl in front of me. how could i even explain any of what was going to happen to her?

#girlblogging #hell is a teenage girl #mental health #trauma #childhood trauma #childhood #she didn’t deserve that #i didn’t deserve that #i didn’t ask for this #girlblogger #girlblog #im just a girl #girl blog #girl blogger #just girly things #i was just a kid #rant #vent #i’m just a girl #i hate my mother #girlhood #girl things #girl hood #girl hysteria #female hysteria #girl interupted syndrome #lana del rey #slyvia plath #lisa rowe #daisy randone