#asexual!bucky barnes

[betterthanworse]

bucky and yelena my beloveds 💜 happy pride month, friends

#bucky barnes #yelena belova #lgbtqia #pride month #pride #asexual #aromantic #illustration #artists on tumblr #art #my art #winter soldier #captain america #mcu

[astridmargrethe]

I’m so sick and tired of all the pornbots/pornsites cluttering up my feed/messaging me these days. I feel like all I’m doing on here now is blocking bots 🤬🤦🏼‍♀️ I’m ACE! Leave me alone! I’m not interested 🤬

#tumblr bots #asexual #ace pride #ace week #ace #sebastian stan #jeremy renner #bucky barnes #clint barton #demi ace #demisexual #graysexual

[high-quality-tiktoks]

I don’t think they’ve confirmed it, but what is confirmed is that Yelena Belova is canonically asexual/aroace (im not 100% sure if aro is confirmed). it’s just sad and disappointing to see the possible erasure...

#video #tiktok #tiktoks #marvel #mcu #marvel comics #black widow #yelena belova #bucky barnes #james buchanan barnes #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbt+ #asexual #aromantic #aroace #aphobia #wtf #awyr__

[archivomeow]

yelena belova is aroace.

Yelena Belova is canonically aroace.

Lately people dismissing that has been getting on my nerves VERY much, so I’m making this post lol.

First the terminology:

Aromantic — an individual who doesn’t experience romantic attraction.

Asexual — an individual that doesn’t experience sexual attraction.

AroSpec — spectrum that includes different aromantic identities, from aros who don’t feel romantic attraction to those who do under certain circumstances or rarely.

AceSpec — spectrum that includes different asexual identities, from aces who don’t feel sexual attraction to those who do under certain circumstances or rarely.

So first thing i will put here is this;

This in my humble opinion should be enough of a proof, but apparently it is not.

First this part of an interview, the person speaking is a creator/co-creator of Yelena. She says she is most likely to identify as asexual than to follow Nat’s romantic path. Hinting at both aro & ace.

So in the comics Yelena shows no interest dating, as far as i am aware she has no romantic interest in the comics. She is repulsed by sex, she calls herself „nothing” referring to her sexual identity.

As much as many like to say she is a lesbian, she is not, how fucking stupid you sound, honestly. She says it herself, if I said I’m not a lesbian, would you question it? No? Then don’t question her, she says she is not a lesbian, she has no wlw storyline. Drop the fucking lesbian hc.

Some possible foreshadowing in the MCU

1. When she is talking with a widow and a former Ana (show: Hawkeye), there is a line said by the widow accompanying her: „…you and Natasha can be reunited again and live your sex in the city fantasy”.

^ Yelena leaves the room, as soon as the word „sex” is mentioned her face drops, then we have this scene where she’s looking at herself in the mirror.

2. When talking about kids and family (movie: Black Widow) she mentions she wants a dog.

3. When describing „fake story” of her life she made up because her birth certificate was burnt she says Natasha has a husband and talks about her parents, but mentions nothing about her husband or possible spouses or children. (movie: Black Widow)

4. Yelena tends to wear a lot of aro/ace flag colors.

green coat & purple lipstick (green = aro | purple = ace)

yellow & blue colors = aroace flag

Overall Yelena wears a lot of green and white and black together, aromantic flag colors.

^^ can you call that „over the top?” yeah sure… let me remind yall something else:

when enid wore this sweather yall went WILD.

but when Yelena is wearing aroace colors all the time it’s called „reaching”…?

I will continue this with even more, because while you can agree with me and say she is aroace, still there will be people who claim she is aroace, agree, but then this fucking argument comes into place:

„AROS CAN DATE”

„ACES CAN FUCK”

„QPRS EXIST”

Do you see what’s wrong with those sentences? Nothing.

There’s a „but” thoooo…

There is nothing wrong with those, but using those arguments to totally ignore her sexuality ship her and treat her like suddenly she is allo is not it.

Yelena has shown no interest in dating or sex, we can assume she is sex-repulsed as she has shows repulsion to sex and she is to me at least implied to be romance-repulsed.

And we’ve found the problem.

Sex Repulsed Aces are as you can imagine repulsed by sex. Romance Repulsed Aros are repulsed by romance… So how is someone repulsed by said things engaging in said interaction and is not repulsed by them???

I think it’s a great idea to write her into said situations to show she is repulsed and to show it’s okay, because her life, my life, the lives of other uninterested in such thing aro/ace, our lives don’t end here.

Using how some people navigate through their sexuality to justify this is wrong.

You wouldn’t write a lesbian with a man, because bi lesbians exist and she may be a bi lesbian, right?

^ just an fyi, that’s an example, the term bi-lesbian is extremely harmful to both bisexuals and lesbians. check out this for more.

The QPR dilemma is that you don’t understand what a QPR is… it’s not more than friends…it’s not in the middle, it’s out of the regular binary of relationships. Relationships I actually think are QPRs:

Friends with benefits — purely platonic, but you fuck.

Situationship — just friends that do romantic stuff together, unless you call it a romantic relationship, with the other person agreeing on that, it is not one.

QPRs are amazing and beautiful, but it’s not always about fucking and kissing and „acting like a couple” but being a QPR. It can be being friends and living together, not temporary. It can be being friends and co-parenting. It can be many things.

But as I said Yelena is repulsed, why would someone repulsed by sex/romance engage in said thing happily with no doubts, fears, negative feelings just because it’s a qpr, so it’s suddenly fine…?

This is for now all I have to say about this.

As an AroAce, who desires no romantic relationship or a sexual one please please please let us have this representation, for once in our fucking lives.

MORE OF MY POSTS ON YELENA BEING AROACE AND ARO/ACE LINKS LINKED HERE:

answering an anon-ask.

more talk about the comic panel.

harmful aro stereotypes.

shipping aroaces + yelena belova.

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[margarethx]

I know that it’s not the most common interpretation, because a lot of fans find the actor handsome, but I honestly like the idea of Bucky being... not that attractive. At least when he’s after his Hydra treatment.

Most people see his flirtatious behaviour and good looks as a big part of his characterization, but I prefer to think about those things as something he has also lost over time. It just makes more sense to me that he would look less presentable in the 21st century, considering his experiences.

And it also makes Sam’s affection for him even more special, because it’s not just: “Sam is reckless and does anything for a pretty boy” (which is also a fun plot at times), but more of a: “it never mattered to Sam if Bucky looked good, because he cares about him so much that it’s irrelevant”.

Idk... maybe I’m just not a big fan of a “tragically beautiful” trope. But also the idea of Bucky re-learning how to take care of himself and look better while he heals is more appealing to me that him just being freed from years of torture and looking like a model with no effort. And... It’s also a cute idea for a fic where Bucky would not care about his looks at all, but the moment he meets Sam, he suddenly wants to comb his hair, or shave, or find clean clothes. (Even though Sam had liked him even when he had dark under eyes, uneven beard, or greasy hair.)

#it's weird to be in this fandom #when you don't think that sebastian stan is THAT attractive #like... he looks fine #i guess #i just don't get the obsession #(maybe i'm too asexual... idk) #sam wilson #samuel thomas wilson #james bucky barnes #bucky barnes #sambucky #sam x bucky #winterfalcon #onlysambucky #captain america #the falcon #winter soldier #white wolf #tfatws #mcu #marvel

[chaos-and-ink]

As Stable As Water (Fanfic)

It’s the summer before his senior year and Bucky’s relationship with his boyfriend, Brock Rumlow, and his mental health are both spiraling out of his control. It doesn’t help that college is looming in the distance and his family is getting more and more concerned for him. Bucky is convinced his mind is careening downhill and nobody can save him. But in the midst of his internal storm, Steve Rogers moves into the neighborhood and the two of them click immediately. Maybe Bucky isn’t quite as alone as he once thought.

I made some fan art for my own fanfic! Please do check It out and if you enjoy it, you may like my other fic, You Watched Me Burn, as well :D

#my work #Bucky Barnes fanart #bucky barnes #Bucky Barnes fanfiction #stucky fanfiction #winterbones fanfiction #as stable as water #fanfic rec #ao3 fanfic #Bucky Barnes fanfic #asexual bucky barnes #bipolar bucky barnes

[bluehourbucky]

enough

bucky x acereader

summary: bucky gets uncomfortable when guys ask about his and yours sex life

a/n: for my sex neutral aces ♡ p.s I'm in no way an expert on asexuality but here are some of the resources where you can find info on aceness asexuality.org what is asexuality.com thetrevorproject.org/trvr_support_center/asexual

warnings: talks of sex;alcohol; angst;

btw theres probably some typing mistakes sorry about that it's almost 1am oh and also sorry this is long idk how to add read more 😅

hope you enjoy let me know what you think please :)

MASTERLIST

💭

Bucky's and yours relationship was perfect, at least as perfect as it could be; obviously you have minor fights but that's it.

For Bucky it was very hard to get into a relationship after everything that happened to him. He didn't think he was deserving of love, and especially because he had a hard time letting people get close to him he never expected to fall in love.

It wasn't easy for you either; Being an ace person in a world of allosexual people was alienating not only that but also being a sex neutral fell hard on you. Since you were a teen when all teens thought about was sex and relationships you felt completely lost, thinking something was wrong which was obviously not true but at the time you felt it was.

What surprised you the most was Buckys reaction to your "coming out" as sex neutral ace. He was more understanding than people from the 21st century! Of course he was a bit confused what it was but he never judged you so you were thankful for that.

That was over a year ago.

However there's one slight "issue" both you and Bucky had come across on. People are generally curious about other people's sex life which is quite annoying especially because you don't like talking about it, neither does Bucky. Truth be told you don't have sex often which is fine for both of you, but you prefer to not to talk about it at all to other people.

Today is a Friday night and usually Bucky, Steve, Sam and occasionally Thor hang out at someone's house, today it was Buckys and yours place. Usually you would be out with your friends but tonight you stayed as you weren't really in the mood to go out.

Now you're sitting in a circle, beer in everyone's hand, playing monopoly for what seemed ages, but everyone's so competitive so you don't expect anyone to give up soon. Everyone has gotten a bit tipsy even Bucky and Steve since Thor did bring some Asgradian mead.

As you were getting tired and quite honestly a bit dizzy from the alcohol you drank you decided to let the boys finish up with the game ,or just cheat til one of them wins which is what usually happens.

"Alright! I'm going to bed! Do not break anything and if you start fighting please take it outside there's still a hole in the wall from last time!" you said kissing Buckys cheek. Bucky being Bucky obviously had to pull you in for a longer kiss before letting you go.

Everyone in the group reacted differently since you weren't big on PD. Steve gasped, Sam whistled and well Thor stole Buckys money. You rolled your eyes and went to get ready for bed leaving the boys alone.

~~~~~~

"Sooo I been curious for a while... How is the sex like you never talk about it! This is the first time I ever saw you two kiss!" Sam's question immediately made Bucky stiff. Unfortunately you also heard the question and froze, you didn't like talking about it.

Bucky was the only person apart from your close friends to know about you being ace and all, and you told Bucky you weren't comfortable sharing that with everyone. He understood that and kept his promise not to tell anyone. But until now he was never asked this question before so he had no idea what to say.

"Sam that's a really inappropriate question." Steve said and Bucky exaled until his dumb ass friend continued.

"But seriously you never talk about it do you not have sex like you've never been shy about it what's up with that?"

Bucky being tipsy and scared out of his mind replied with " Yes, sex. We have a lot of it like all the time! Like you think I would've stayed with her if we didn't have sex like that's fucked up! such hot sex like you can't even imagine. " As soon as those words left Buckys mouth, his face paled at the realisation of what he had said.

"Damn. Okay you don't have to get so defensive about it!" Sam and Steve said in unison.

You however couldn't belive what you had heard.A tear rolled down your face as you quietly went up the stairs to the bedroom.

Bucky wasn't having fun anymore the guilt of what he had said was eating him alive so the obvious thing to do was to drink more.

You were having a hard time falling asleep and after hours of tossing and turning Bucky had finally showed up. He was drunk you could tell. You decided you would rather sleep in the guestroom after Bucky had laid down next to you.

Falling asleep alone in bed was weird but what Bucky said hurt you, it wasn't something you ever expected to hear from him. You thought you were fine you talked about it hundreds of times since you were always insecure about it,and he always assured you it was fine. Previous partners have broken up with you because of your indifference to sex.

You decided you were going to break up with Bucky so he doesn't have to suffer anymore as much as it hurt you maybe it was better.

~~~~

Morning has come and you have not slept for a moment the whole night. As you heard familiar footsteps coming from the hallway you quickly laid your head on the pillow, closing your eyes pretending to sleep.

Bucky was feeling awful, the hangover was nothing compared to how bad he felt about saying the thing last night to the guys. He loved you and he genuinely doesnt mind the "lack" of sex. He is perfectly content with how your relationship is, he wouldn't change it for anything. The second Bucky woke up alone he just knew you must have overheard the conversation otherwise you would be in bed with him.

Doing the walk of shame he sheepishly opened the door to the guest room where he knew you'd be.

"Hey love." he whispered knowing that you were awake but also hurt.

He was met with silence so he approached the bed quietly, and slowly sat on the edge of the bed. Bucky gently uncovered your face that was covered with a duvet, then with a feather light touch moved the hair out of your face.

"Morning my darling I want to talk to you can I please?"

"Yeah I think we should talk." you replied softly sitting up finally looking into your favorite eyes.

"I'm sorry. I know you heard what I said last night and I didn't mean it, I just didn't know what to say and I'm sorry. I know it's not an excuse." Bucky sighed sadly, not knowing what to say. His apology was sincere and you knew that but there's still something bothering you.

"I know Buck. I'm just. I want you to have everything. I don't know if I can give you everything. I don't want you to pretend to be okay with having sex once a month or I don't know wait for me to want sex or just always be in a situation where you have to hold yourself and your needs back just because I'm not normal." it hurt you to say this but you had to say it

Bucky had to take a moment to let your words sink in before replying.

"Doll. I love you. I don't care about how much sex we have. There's never going to be anyone who compares to you. You're IT for me, you and no one else. Not only are you enough you're more than I deserve. I'd rather never have sex till the rest of my life than lose you. I'm never holding back or anything like that and I don't want you ever thinking how you're not normal okay,being who you are is valid and not weird.All I want is you if you'll have me."

Buckys words hit you more than you expected it's exactly what you needed to hear. You couldn't help but pull him into a hug which he returned immediately.

"Thank you for saying that I needed it. And I'll have you always, all of you. I love you too."

Bucky smiled and whispered another love you.

"We're okay?" you asked.

"Of course my love." Bucky assured you.

"Great now let's go to sleep I haven't been able to close my eyes all night!! I need you to hold me I can't sleep without you anymore which is completely your fault!" And who was Bucky to say no to holding you when it's his absolute favorite activity.

~Fin~

hope you enjoyed thank you for reading :)

#bucky barnes #bucky x reader #bucky fic #bucky imagine #james buchanan barnes #asexuality #ace positivity #marvel fic #james barnes #bucky masterlist #bucky fluff #bucky #bucky barnes x reader #bucky x you #the winter solider x reader #steve rogers #sam wilson #thor odinson #fanfic

[good-question-love]

guys i have just now figured out that I only like fictional men because of their vibes.

kaz brekker -> ☠️vibes🖤

theo raeken -> vibes🐺

loki laufeyson -> 👑vibes🗡️

james "bucky" barnes -> 🦅vibes🦾

peter hale -> 😈vibes💸

merlin -> 😇vibes🔪

five hargreaves -> 👔vibes🩸

klaus hargreaves -> 🌈vibes⚰️

elijah mikaelson -> 👔vibes🧛‍♂️

kol mikaelson -> 🧛vibes😏

which brings me to my second conclusion of the day...my future partner (if I have one) is very likely going to be the personification of a biblically accurate angel.

and honestly I am here for it.

#'do not be afraid' okay love whatever you say #please do not question my reasoning #lgbtqia #asexual #aspec #queer #sapphic #kaz brekker #theo raeken #loki laufeyson #merlin #james bucky barnes #peter hale #five hargreeves #klaus hargreeves #elijah mikaelson #kol mikaelson #biblically accurate angel #angel

[sanguineterrain]

happy pride!!!

#stucky #pride #stucky art #steve rogers #bucky barnes #asexual #gay #bisexual #pride art #i don't think i need to tell anyone to be respectful--but bullcrap will be blocked :) #myart

[de4d-bo7-666]

HI HI HI HIIII !!!!!!!! XPPP UHHHHH I'M RAWRIE/KANSAS N' I'M IN/FUCKING <333 THE SCP FOUNDATION, MARVEL, EDDZWORLD, HELLUVA BOSS, SOUTH PARK, THE MAZE RUNNERZ, SCHOOLBUZ GRAVEYARD, FINAL DESTINATION AND A LOT MORE FANDOMZ !!!!!!

DNIz !!!!!!!!

P3D0Z !!!!!

Z00PH1LEZ !!!!!

NSFW BLOGZ !!

DREAM STANZ !!!!!

FRANKIE [ FD3 ] KINZ !!!

ANTI-LGBTQ, HOMOPHOBES, TRANSPHOBES, RACISTS, SEXISTS, ETC. !!!!!!!!!!

PPL OVER 18 [ I'm a minor ]

PLSSS INTERACT !!!!!!!

PPL WHO HAVE SIMILAR INTERESTS !!!!!

OSC FANS !!!!

PEOPLE UNDER 18 !!!

SCP-073 + SCP-076-2 FANZ/SUPREMACISTS !!!!!!!!

CARTER HORTON [ FD1 ] FANZ !!!!!

EMOZ/SCENE KIDZ/PEOPLE WHO'RE JUST GR8 IN GENERAL !!!!!!!!!!!!

BUCKY FANZ ( pls interact ! :] ) !!!!!

THATZ IT !!!! <3 TY 4 READING THIS LIL' INTRODUCTION POST !!

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[steevbuckk]

FAVORITE STUCKY FICS | 8/100

series Ace!Bucky Verse by steveandbucky

[Modern AU, 25 430 words, Teen And Up Audiences]

Summary:

Steve Rogers doesn't expect to meet someone when he signs up on a dating website after being persuaded by his mother, especially not someone like Bucky Barnes, who messages him to gush about his dogs, makes him laugh, sparks a little hope in him, and step by step slots himself perfectly in the empty spaces of Steve's life.

(In which there's a pair of dogs, chance encounters, first and second kisses, Disney movies, lots of cuddling, and two idiots who fall in love.)

more fics

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[emomusicalnerd]

I just saw a leak say Bucky and yelena will have a romantic subplot. No. We don’t want that. You can’t erase aroace rep and say that women are interchangeable with each other.

How Natasha and yelena view romance and sex is very different. For nat that’s something that matters a lot to her and is a part of her central story. Yelena has never shown any interest in it. She’s said that she isn’t interested in it.

Natasha and Yelena are separate characters and treat them that way.

Also not to mention they literally set up for Bucky to get with Sarah in fatws.

#marvel #mcu #marvel comics #asexual #ace #aromantic #black widow #yelena belova #aro #aroace #lgbtq #natasha romanoff #bucky barnes #thunderbolts

[zi-frappadingue]

Me: I'm asexual

Bucky Barnes content pops on my feed

Me : it's a spectrum though

#bucky barnes #asexuality #confused ace #if that men existed I would in his DMs faster than a penguin slide on ice #or maybe i won't because I'm a self-conscious little coward #but still

[nolanfa]

[image description: Natasha Romanoff braiding Bucky Barnes’ hair. She’s sitting on a couch with an ace flag shirt, and Bucky is sitting on the ground, leaning against her legs and looking up at her, smiling.] fill for @buckybarnesbingo‘s prompt: “asexuality“. fill for @lgbtqbingo‘s prompt: “flags“ (because Nat’s shirt is flag-coloured/-patterned) fill for @anyfandomgoesbingo‘s prompt “Natasha Romanoff“ (Title: Ace Nat, Pairing: Natasha & Bucky Rating: SFW Medium: digital art + 444 words)

(on AO3 here)

- Nat is ace - she and Bucky find braiding each other’s hair calming, due to Red Room shared experiences.

More words under the cut

- the best way to gather information and get close to high-profile targets is not as a high-society lady but as a high-society lady's helper. The girls in the Black Widow program were taught to kill, to dance, and to help. So they learned to clean efficiently, to choose clothes for any occasion, and they did each other's hair. As this was an activity where the result counted more than the process, it was not as tightly supervised as others. It was also one of the rare violence-free collaborative activities. So for the girls, and for Bucky who trained them and spent some time with them in-between missions and training (because freezing and unfreezing him took time so they didn't do it for too short a downtime), it meant safety and comfort, and still does now. So, sometimes, when she's feeling quiet and safe and content, and she wants to spread the quiet and the safe and the content around, Nat braids Bucky's hair, and sometimes he braids hers. - Bucky also braided his sisters' hair. Before the war, and hydra, and everything, back when the world was not just jagged edges.

- When Nat told Clint she was ace, he was overjoyed, because *purple* (also because he’s, like, supportive and shit and loves her, but he said it was because of the purple). When she needs small purple things, because she wants to wear her colours, and she already has black, gray and white in her things, he always has something to lend her (never on a mission. Ace colors are for downtime. Personal trivia is only ever shown when safe, or as a last resort in very controlled situations to get a very specific result). She could get her own, sure, but he likes accumulating purple wristbands and hairties and caps for her, and she likes using his things (it still feels so new and so precious, gifts given or services rendered, with no strings attached, freely given and freely accepted). The Ace shirt is a gift Clint gave her. She was actually surprised to learn other sex-indifferent people existed, outside of the Red Room. She had thought it was kinda like knowing how to lie: something she'd learnt. She's still unsure, sometimes, what is everybody's, what is hers, and what is the Red Room's. She knows all the children's lullabies and fairy tales, learnt to dance a hundred different dances, but never quite knows if what she feels is normal, or too much, or not enough, or just a few feet to the left.

#marvel #buckybarnesbingo2022 #lgbtqbingo #anyfandomgoesbingo #natasha romanoff #bucky barnes #asexuality #I missed ace week #:'( #I'd have posted it earlier if I'd known #I have a pretty big queue those days #sads #ace nat #fandom #fanart #nosart #nosfinal #noslore #2D

[augustisnotonline]

Can't sleep. Aroace bucky barnes.

#im sort of projecting #james bucky barnes #bucky barnes #james buchanan barnes #marvel #mcu #aroace #asexual #aromantic #hes aroace CUZ I SAY SO.

[domesticatedpigeonsoup]

being aroace made me realise i don't want to date him, i want him to be my older brother to help me navigate the world

#being ftm also plays a role in this #ftm #trans #aroace #aromantic #asexual #eddie munson #larry johnson #remus lupin #bucky barnes #steve harrington #steven hyde #klaus hargreeves