“I love unmade beds. I love when people are drunk and crying and cannot be anything but honest in that moment. I love the look in people's eyes when they realize they're in love. I love the way people look when they first wake up and they've forgotten their surroundings. I love the gasp people take when their favourite character dies. I love when people close their eyes and drift to somewhere in the clouds. I fall in love with people and their honest moments all the time. I fall in love with their breakdowns and their smeared makeup and their daydreams. Honesty is just too beautiful to ever put into words.”
When you are in your hardest time and still manage to make someone smile. It's a wonderful feeling when you realize that this smile is only because of you.
Greetings, my name is Sapphire, and I told myself at the beginning of this year that this would be the year I finally "get my act together"! I love the motivation and study side of Tumblr a lot, but I never really saw any motivational posts that matched my personal aesthetics; I figured why not create one and have another way to hold myself accountable? Perhaps there are others like me out there, dying to see a blog like this one.. Who knows.
A bit about myself and the blog:
I'm currently in my early twenties, I've graduated from high school and am attending university currently. I will likely be switching to online university soon to finish off my degree and spend some time traveling. I'm based in the US, and I was born here. My interests include writing, dancing to music in my bedroom, painting, digital art, web design, programming, and playing the drums.
Pretty much all of the images & drawings posted on this blog are mine unless otherwise has been stated (Of course, reblogs are exceptions obviously), so please do not save them for personal use. Thank you :)
I'll be posting a weekly check-in at the very least, and hopefully I will post everyday or most days. I have some specific goals for this year that I want to achieve, as listed below.
Travel overseas before the year is over
Get to a conversational level in Japanese
Learn how to use the sewing machine I've been gifted
Switch to a credible, regionally accredited online college.
Spend more time in nature.
Identify potential study abroad programs for 2025
Improve my coding skills
Start a Youtube
I would like to meet other like-minded people of any kinds, but especially other alternative and gothic people. I consider myself alternative in both music, clothing and lifestyle, so it would be nice to see others in the community who are also dedicated to meeting goals and bettering themselves. The more motivation we can all share, the better.
My first entry post will come shortly after this, so with all that said, if there are any other similar blogs or people who find this.. feel free to interact in some manner and I'll follow back/check out your blog. :)
Here's my silly little sign-off image I made.. lololol
Life is only the name of taking risks. To put your heart at risk by loving people, by believing in them and trusting them, by setting them free and hoping that you won’t be left alone, that they’ll see and care for your emotions, that they’ll reciprocate the energy. You often get your heart broken but there is no other side to this story. The only way you can live through is by risking it all and by hoping that it will work. - Sanawar Fatima Saeed
Not doing so good in photography class because of, according to my teacher, “lack of passion”.
I was told to drop out of my major and not pursue photography. Since I’ve been enrolled as a photo major, I’ve struggled to submit pictures on time or do photo related assignments.
After the meeting, I decided to do a shoot to prove to myself, that yes, I am capable of doing whatever tf I want with my life.
Lack of discipline can be your enemy, but you can always beat that in life. You don’t have to be a victim to yourself.
And if you don’t feel good enough at something, you can always improve. Tomorrow will come, and so will the following days. Opportunities to self improve will come with the following days, including, and most importantly, the present moment.
How to set realistic and attainable goals for yourself using the Be S.M.A.R.T. system
Specific
Be specific about the goals you wish to achieve. We are more likely to accomplish our goals when they are specific rather than vague.
Measurable
Create goals for yourself and measure your progress. This helps you stay disciplined and motivated. It’s important to take a look at how far we’ve made it because sometimes we overlook and dismiss our own progress. Cheer yourself on like you would a friend.
Attainable/Achievable
Set attainable goals yourself, meaning that the goal is within your grasp and achievable by you given your current situation. This allows you to sustain your efforts and resist the urge to “give in.” Lofty goals may only serve to let you down.
Relevant/Realistic
Ask yourself: Why are you setting this goal? This reiterates the previous point. In order for you to successfully achieve your goals, you must be realistic about what you can accomplish and why you desire to accomplish it.
Timely/Time-bound
It helps to give ourselves a time frame, even a loose one, when working to achieve a goal. This keeps us on track and focused, and makes the goal tangible. Don’t rush yourself but don’t give yourself an eternity, either.
🤍Tips and tricks🤍
✅Write down your goals. Studies show that we are far more likely to complete a goal when we write it down or make a list. Do yourself a favor and write down your goals!
✅Create a journal for your goals. This will help you follow the SMART system.
✅Start with small goals and as you overcome those hurdles, you will be more equipped to take on bigger goals. It’s like warming up before a big race— you gotta practice first and stretch out your legs.
✅Consider what resources you have available to you and what your limits are. Remember, there will be factors out of your control.
✅Tell a friend. Share your fears and concerns but also your progress and your victories. Keep them in the loop as you work toward your goal. We are more likely to achieve goals when we tell people about them and receive support.
Setbacks do not erase your progress! Repeat that back to yourself.
Feeling overwhelmed? That’s okay and totally normal. Break down your goal into mini-goals that all lead to the big goal. Day by day, step by step, you will achieve it.
Take a breath, take a break, and remember that tomorrow will grant you a fresh start.
Your Brain Is The Most Powerful Weapon: How to Cultivate Mental Toughness and Overcome Obstacles
David Goggins, a former Navy SEAL and ultra-endurance athlete, has said that "your brain is the most powerful weapon you have." He believes that the human mind is capable of achieving incredible feats if one is willing to push past their physical and mental limits.
Goggins has experienced this firsthand, having overcome numerous obstacles in his life, including childhood abuse, obesity, and a heart defect, to become a successful athlete and motivational speaker. He attributes his success to the power of his mind and the ability to overcome negative self-talk and limiting beliefs.
According to Goggins, the key to unlocking the power of your brain is to challenge yourself regularly and to embrace discomfort. By pushing through difficult situations, you can build mental toughness and develop a mindset that allows you to achieve your goals.
Goggins' philosophy is not just limited to athletes or those seeking physical fitness. He believes that anyone can benefit from developing mental toughness and embracing discomfort. Whether you are pursuing a career, starting a business, or simply seeking personal growth, the power of your mind can help you achieve success.
In summary, David Goggins believes that the human brain is the most powerful weapon we have, and that we can unlock its full potential by pushing past our physical and mental limits, embracing discomfort, and developing mental toughness.