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psychology-daily · 2 years
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loveyourlovelysoul · 1 year
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Give yourself the right amount of love not cause you need that to love someone else but because you need that to show up for yourself in a relationship. If you don't love yourself enough, -chances are you probably won't set boundaries and you'll difficulty say no. Your desires and needs are as important as the other person's ones, plus you're not being selfish if you prioritize yourself when you need. -your abandonment issues might be hightened, so you may even go against your desires and accept to be treated as you don't deserve in order to be with someone. -you might stay in a relationship that doesn't serve you. If you think you're less than, your brain will let you accept to not be treated with kindness and respect. You may even try to stay in the relationship waiting to change that person. -you might think you're not worthy enough to be receiving the type of relationship you dream of and need. If you don't think enough of yourself, you may believe (even subconsciously) that it's not for you, that you'll never be able to experience it. We live our whole life with ourselves and having a good relationship with us is helping also in having a good relationship with others. Be your best friend.
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bloodycyrano · 2 months
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I am extremely mentally fucked right now, so let's see how team tadpole handles their depressive episodes! TW, this will probably be super depressing to read.
Astarion: He thinks he hides it really well, and for the most part, he does. But his motivation for easy, everyday tasks and self care goes absolutely down the drain. You've seen the inside of his tent, you know how it goes. He tries to keep up the image of doing well, keep the smile, keep the jokes coming. He's terrified of people finding out what's underneath, and in hiding it, he feels like he has the upper hand. He doesn't, and he needs therapy. I'd also put money on him hypersexualizing himself for the validation and to feel like he was worth something. After all, Cazador beat it into him that that was all he was good for. Luring in pray with his body. - We also know that Astarion has nightmares, but I'd like to add to this with the reminder that Elves don't sleep. They trance. In the trance, they go over the memories of their past. It's how they keep up with such long lives and how they stay close to past lives as children (For those who dont know, elves don't measure age in maturity, but rather by distance to their past lives- Once an elf can no longer recall memories from their past life, they are considered an adult. They pick their adult name in celebration of the new person and consciousness that they now are). The fact that Astarion can remember nothing of his life prior to being turned by Cazador, nothing of his family, etc., Means that he is so deeply affected by Cazador that those memories are the only things he can see when he goes to rest at night. Every night, in perfect detail, he has to remember all of his worst trauma.
Karlach: Karlach is the sunshine character. She's sweet, and loud and bright with the biggest smile, but you also have to remember that she was a soldier. She was sold off to a literal demon and used as a science experiment essentially for the hell of it. She's not going to open up about what she's feeling immediately, and she's not going to seek help, either. She thinks she has to deal with it quietly and on her own, because since her parents died; that's what she's always had to do. Chin up, no tears, keep fighting. It's going to stress her out to the point where she starts smoking again, but she'll try to hide it or brush it off. Most importantly, she's going to be more focussed on not burdening those around her and trying to take care of you guys and protect you at the expense of her own mental health and physical safety. But her sorrows are noticeable. She can try to hide it, but everyone in camp knows. Everyone in camp is worried. Everyone can see when her eyes stop glimmering, when she stops dancing around in her tent when she can't sleep, when her bright laughter stops, and when she gets quiet. So quiet. She zones out, like she's in another realm entirely. She probably also has post traumatic stress from her time as a soldier, and it's going to weigh on her heavily in battle. Maybe she'll freeze up, have flashbacks, even potentially have small hallucinations now and again. It's going to take a lot of care and reassurance to get her to talk to you about it, but when she finally does, she'll probably have a complete meltdown with all the feelings she's been keeping inside.
Wyll: Wyll self isolates. He gets much quieter, and he probably isn't going to be too open to talking about it unless he's really close to you. He gets a little cold when talking to people, but he's good at resolving things in his head and the most likely to rationalize his feelings to make himself feel better. He also probably writes poetry, or even paints his feelings as a form of expressing his sorrows because he understands he needs some outlet so he isn't bottling everything up. He has the heart of an artist, and this is a hill I am prepared to die on.
Gale: He has a hard time talking when he's sad, and probably has difficulty making eye contact as well. He'd probably be more inclined to seek out comfort and vent than the rest of team tadpole, but that doesn't take away from the complexity of his emotions. He's angry, and sad, and feels so so shitty just about being who he is in general. He's fallen so far from where he once was, and for what? He'll do is best to rationalize, but his anxiety is going to push into paranoia, and rationalizing is going to turn into self loathing. He's going to try his best to be more useful, and show off, and earn the validation he craves because without that, what is he? He was a prodigy child. He used to be so, so great. Even the goddess of magic herself thought so. Now he's rotting away in a camp full of strangers and trying to re-learn level one spells. It's taking a toll on him, and it's noticeable to anyone willing to look.
Shadowheart: She's trying to pray. The goddess she has been devoted to all her life is the lady of loss. There is a great amount of sorrow in the way she worships, and in her suffering, she finds faith. She tells herself it's her next step to becoming a dark justiciar. Delving further into her faith and trusting in the dark depths of her soul, and her pain. All it ever truly does is make her hurt, though.
Lae'zel: Lae’zel is truly a specimen built on stoicism. If you ask her what's wrong, she will tell you but it will also be in such a way that you wonder if she's really processing all of her pain. The thing is, she's thinking about it. She has the emotional intelligence to understand the way she's feeling and how to fix it, but for some reason unknown to her, she can't. And that's what's going to stress her out and hurt her the most. She knows what theoretically should fix the pain, but it's not working the way that it should. She's going to wonder if it's something wrong with her, or the way she's going about it. She might get angry with other people more often, and try to project blame onto someone so that maybe she can find a way to resolve the way that it hurts. But she can't. She'll keep throwing temporary solutions and misplaced anger into the void until she finds something to distract from it. And maybe, after a lot of contemplation and positive outside help from the rest of team tadpole, she may find peace.
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pussyterminator88 · 4 months
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The Drug Checklist
NEVER mix substances (mixing can create a bad trip and death)
Always weigh your dose
MAGNESIUM (supply with magnesium its your best friend)
Time, have an eye on the clock
Test your drug (never want it to be something else)
Be in a safe enviorment
Be conscious of your mindset before taking the drug.
Trip safely
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justanotherstardrop · 3 months
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BPD DPD hours need to draw something like this lol
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nightxxxangel · 1 year
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heartstopper26 · 2 years
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Some nights I stay awake starring at the ceiling wondering why I ruin everything and feel like I'm not supposed to be here.
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letstalkbeautyuk · 3 months
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💚 🧠 Lots of you lovely people ordering our Anxiety themed badges this week. Thank you for your support, we are always so grateful for our customers
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yourgirlfoe · 1 year
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Knocking on my forehead and yelling at my brain, "ma'am can you please turn it down!"
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trashcan-poetry · 22 hours
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Hi i've painted those two picies as art and tattoo projects i especially enjoy the first one - it says a lot about me
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l-e-e-woso · 1 year
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psychology-daily · 2 years
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Exploring the foundation of emotional intelligence: the vital components that shape our understanding and connection with ourselves and others. 🌟
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I am sorry I have no credit for this photo cause I just saw it mid mental break down scrolling through images of little frogs because they are so small and the world is so big but they are just having a good time being little frogs, and maybe I can let the world be so big by itself for a minute and just take a minute to allow myself to imagine a little frog in a little hat
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pussyterminator88 · 1 month
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Drug testing
You should always test your drugs to make sure that you are going to consume the substance that is being given. Because these days most drugs are cut with something to make it cheaper for the seller.
So to prevent this from happening you can buy a testing kit online, and I know, it is not for the cheap, but if you are going to consume a substance you might as well invest on your own safety.
There are 4 main reagents, Liebermann, Marquis, Simon´s and Mandelin (there is a lot more tho) these reagents when put a small tiny drop on your drug of choice will turn into a color making a reaction, or not depending on what result you are expecting.
For example: If you drop Mandelin on Ketamine the color we are expecting is red.
Of course it is important to note that just because you have tested a drug this way we still can't know its purity. But we can still be sure that it is the drug you are going to consume. You can buy one of these reagents but it is better to have at least 3 to really be sure.
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STAY SAFE GANGY <3
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pochacosicon · 9 months
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i hate being depressed and also having problems with eating bc yeah i don’t have to eat cuz i’m not even hungry most of times and i’m also to fucking tired and lazy to make myslef food but then i randomly binge cuz mimimi i’m so sad i’m gonna stuff my self with food
i also am too fucking scared to go out to go for a walk or idk swimming or running, and staying in home all day just makes me feel more down and i don’t have any energy to work out at all
i’m such a pathetic bitch i literally can’t with myslef
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