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midnightbloopers · 1 year

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Why is it said that the right person would understand and wait for you if you take some-time off or go off the track? Why is the expectation from the right person is so high? Why is it so difficult to understand that the right person is only human and not some robot that comes with settings? How can someone stay right for you when you are buzy being wrong for them in all the possible ways? Why should anyone wait for you when you are buzy ignoring them? Having space for yourself doesn't mean pushing the right person outside of it. It's about creating a space with them. Have you ever considered what they might be going through when you have peaced yourself out for a couple of days? Or if they even wanted that distance between you two? Having a healthy space in a relationship and having a toxic one are two very entirely different things. The former helps you both grow together while the later damages the belief of that right person in you and themselves about being worthy of you. Don't treat the right person as your doormat or an option. If you want someone to be right for you; then be right for them too. Else keep wastimg your time with all the wrong ones and then regret later on. And please don't use the excuse "Right person wrong time"...It's never going to be easy with the right ones but it will surely be worth it !!!

#right #right person #right person wrong time #feelings #love #life #emotions #dark academia #lifelessons relationships #expectations #blogging #dark academic aesthetic #lgbtqia #space #fuck off #no excuses #human #robots

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damnitdani1 · 1 year

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#love #breakup #heartache #relationships #life quotes #quotes #plot twist #love quotes #heartbreak #thatslife #it is what it is #lifelessons #no more please #post breakup

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hrithisha · 11 months

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MISSING AN EX DOESN'T NECESSARILY INDICATE TRUE LOVE; RATHER, IT SUGGESTS THAT THE RELATIONSHIP HELD SIGNIFICANCE FOR YOU, AND YOU ARE STILL IN THE PROCESS OF HEALING.

THE PAIN YOU FEEL SIGNIFIES YOUR CAPACITY FOR DEEP LOVE, AND YOU ARE RESERVING THAT LOVE FOR SOMEONE SPECIAL.

#for you #realshit #it is what it is #love #relationship #quotes #new love #mental health #lovers #lifelessons #ex #heart break #break up #missing #ex boyfriend #healingjourney #realization #real love

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femmefatalevibe · 2 years

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24 Life Lessons I’ve Learned By 24:

Taking Control Of Your Unique Life Path Is Essential For Happiness

Don��t Be Afraid To Be Different

Ask For What You Want – Directly, Compassionately, and Unapologetically

Taking Calculated Risks Pays Off

Assumptions About You Often Steam From Envy; Intolerance Is Often A Sign Of Insecurity

Only Compete With Your Past Self

Focus On Quality, Not Quantity (Friends, Clients, Clothing Purchases, Square Footage – the list goes on)

Having A Varied Inner Circle Makes Your Life Infinitely Better

Don’t Take Anything Personally

Integrity Is A Rare Trait – Following Through Gets You Noticed & Earns You Respect

A Nutritious Diet Is Essential For Good Mental Health

Walking Daily Can Transform Your Mind & Body

Life Is Too Short To Not To Do What You Love

Your Intuition Will (Almost) Never Fail You

Look For Patterns, Not Outlier Behaviors Or Gestures

Manipulation Wears Many Masks – Be Discerning. Don’t Take The Bait

It’s Essential Own Your Interests, Hobbies, & Turn-Ons

Accountability Is Essential, Shame Is A Waste Of Time

Discretion Is Life’s Greatest Indulgence – It Provides You The Peace & Freedom To Do As You Please

A Dedication To Lifelong Learning Makes Life More Fulfilling

Being Nice Often Comes At The Expense of Being Kind

Feeling Secure With Yourself Is Essential To Genuinely Connecting With Others

Discipline & Self-Designed Systems Give You Freedom

Hyping Yourself Up Daily Is Essential To Personal Growth & Healing

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gratzielavalentina · 2 years

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Advice of the day :

Stop having relationship problems with someone you are not in a relationship with.

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whispersofthepurplevalley · 1 year

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SECRETS OF HEALTHY FRIENDSHIPS

1. In this age of technology and virtual relationships, the first and the most important secret to a healthy friendship is TRUST. With no scope to have conversations one-on-one, it gets really hard to build trust between two people. The distance of miles, schedules and everything else makes forming assumptions very easy. With assumptions come the gradual bitterness. So, focus on keeping good thoughts about the other person and trust their intentions.

2. ACCEPT that no matter how close you are, it's humanly impossible for someone to be there for you every single time. Everyone is limited by the turns of life. Avoid counting their absences as their flaws. Instead, believe that they would have been there for you if they could. Give them the benefit of the doubt.

3. DO NOT KEEP THINGS TO YOURSELF ONLY FOR THEM TO TURN INTO GRUDGES LATER. Speak out. Share. Shorten the distance. Allow the other person to get a look into your routine life.

4. SHARE little things. Talk about your plan for the day. Talk about the little things that make you think, smile or laugh. Make the person feel included. Keep the connection flowing.

-Sabina Yesmin

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im-madam-baby · 1 year

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If you're the one who keeps apologizing to the person you love and they ignore you or are indifferent toward you, leave them, walk away, and maintain some dignity for yourself. They are unwilling to engage in a conversation with you. To put it another way, they don't care about you anymore. You must save yourself.

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in-tenebris-et-in-solitudine · 4 months

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Nothing hurts more than ur favorite person turning to a life lesson.

#pain #heartbreak #lessons #relationships #emotions #growth #reflection #lifelesson

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hauntedfutures · 2 years

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After Hours

Draconic eyes of anhedonic fiends Annihilate thoughts left during after hours kissing you - thirst kept in ravines drowning the bellows of distant laughter.

Neon lights flicker until twilight dies. What once was a sight of tender presence Now buries the blue of yesterday's sighs But the death of the sun never lessens.

Every moment of charred dichotomy Is a memory that can only leave. The last breath before my lobectomy is the ischemia I could not grieve.

Every shade lost in the blanket of night Is another drunken thought to ignite.

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miragrimmwrites · 4 days

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“Little dreams” | About love and hope | Audiobook

Description: Communication with her father becomes increasingly rare for Margo, so she tries to capture every moment and rejoice in it.

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midnightbloopers · 1 year

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Just the therapy things!!!

#therapy #therapist #hitting #depression #stress #thinking #smiling #real #life #emotions #lifelessons relationships

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advicebymeforyou-blog · 17 days

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When you are being dishonest with yourself about someone completely destroying your emotional health—that is the biggest sign it’s time to go.

#toxic relationship #toxic love #life coaching #life #lifelessons #relationships #emotional triggers #mental health services #mentorship #mental health

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hrithisha · 21 days

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I DECIDED TO STOP EXPLAINING MYSELF TO PEOPLE. YOU KNOW WHY? BECAUSE PEOPLE WHO LOVE ME, DON'T NEED AN EXPLANATION AND PEOPLE WHO DON'T LOVE ME DON'T CARE FOR EXPLANATION.

#gaurgopaldas #lifelessons #relationship #dicipline #friendship #love #mental health #quotes

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femmefatalevibe · 2 years

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24 (More) Life Lessons I’ve Learned By 24:

Clear Communication Can Save You (& Others) A Lot Of Pain

Training Your Gut Instinct Is Essential For Success & Mental Stability

Responsible Experimentation Is Your Friend; People Who Tell You Otherwise Are Too Afraid To Leave Their Comfort Zone

It’s Not Anyone’s Job To Understand You – Understanding Societal Conventions Is Essential To Maintaining Connections

Being A Martyr Is Not Admirable; It’s Form Of Manipulation & Reflects A Desire For External Control

Upholding Boundaries Sets You Free

Pleasurable Activities Involve Sharing – Run Away If Someone Thinks It’s A Transactional Give & Take

Anyone Against Therapy Is Afraid Of Personal Accountability

Knowing You’re Unique & Thinking You’re Special Are Polar Opposite Traits

Feeling At Peace In Your Environment Is Life-Changing

Seek To Understand, Not To Win In Conversations

Be Selective With Your Time, Energy, & Activities

Running Away From Yourself Also Drives Others Away

Making Excuses For Yourself & Others Never Resolves Anything

Learn The Difference Between Guilt-Tripping & Empathy; People Pleasers Are Control Freaks

Anyone Who Regularly Leaves You On Read Is Not Worth Your Time Or Energy

True Success Takes Hard Work But Feels Like It’s All Coming Together Organically

People Offended By Your Self-Confidence Are Frustrated That There’s No Potential For Manipulation

Dress In A Way That Makes You Feel Good; Walk Out The Door Feeling Like Yourself Daily

No One Is Watching You As Closely As You Think They Are; If They Do, That’s Obsessive Or Possessive – Block Them

You Don’t Owe Anyone Anything; Every Action Should Steam From A Place of Kindness, Empathy, Self-Accountability & Reciprocity

Having The Right Playlist For Every Task Makes You Infinitely More Productive

Owning Your Sexuality Looks Different For Everyone – Judge The Mentality, Not The Superficiality Of One’s Actions

Forgetting To Enjoy Yourself Will Be Your Greatest Regret

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gratzielavalentina · 2 years

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Being happy doesn’t mean everything is perfect. It means you have decided to look beyond the imperfections.

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astrophile39 · 1 year

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#life quotes #inspirational quotes #quoteoftheday #quotes #inspiring quotes #relationship quotes #life facts #real life #lifelessons #life quote #li

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