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maggierot · 3 days

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pray for me that i don’t drop my phone or my drink in the bath, this personal therapy sesh cannot be interrupted

#just girly things #girlblogging #girl interrupted syndrome #female hysteria #girl blogger #this is what makes us girls #coquette #lana del rey #period #romantizing life #lizzie grant #angelina jolie #roses #love

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irenes-tender-world · 4 months

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john singer sargent, «helen sears» (detail), 1895 year

#oil painting #painting detail #john singer sargent #impressionism #romantizing life

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deadassjsawhitegirl · 19 days

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"bpd is this" "bpd is that"

can i just say bpd is more than a favorite person? i understand that part as ive experienced it but thats not all there is

as someone who doesnt currently have a "fp" i hate that thats all bpd tumblr is. js shit about your feelings towards other people, i understand but oh my god i wish there was more. it feels like romanticism of the mental illness that people are gifted the option of assisted su!c!de for. and thats not fucking right.

im sorry if this sounds rude or anything but it just makes me feel really alone in my illness and thats a shitty feeling to have, esp as someone who has bpd.

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hallucicated · 6 months

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forourpoets · 18 days

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for me I don't know when reading for fun became reading to escape reality🍂☕🕰️📜

@forourpoets

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porcelainiaa · 3 months

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POV : You romanticize everything in your life

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daughterofcainnnn · 20 days

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#manic pixie dream girl #i love girls #girl interrupted #girl stuff #girlcore #coquette girl #girlblogging #daddy's good girl #southern gothic #southern gothic aesthetic #im going insane #romantizing life #psychosis

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theereina · 4 months

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✓ I prayed for it.

✓ I visualized it.

✓ I worked for it.

✓ I believed it.

✓ I manifested it.

💫This was between me and God.

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causticbibliophile · 5 months

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#desi culture #girlblogging #material girl #desi aesthetic #couple #desi tag #yjhd #desiblr #desi humor #desi academia #desi things #desi thoughts #romantizing life #desi girl #desi shit posting #desi stuff #songs

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i-must-feel · 5 months

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It’s nice to know that there’s probably some middle class 14 year old romanticizing my life of living in a deteriorating trailer in small town south Florida,

It’s really comforting to know that someone probably thinks this life is worth living even if it’s not what I imagined for myself.

#the human condition?#mole interest #hozier #art #is there meaning here #tiktok #romantizing life #vanilla extract

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vampiric-prose · 2 months

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I’ve forgotten how to live.

In the midst of the tears and shallow, empty breaths I have become I have forgotten what it is to live.

I have forgotten how to greet the day with an empty head and a subdued heart,

With a low, deep flow of blood that neither boils nor freezes,

With eyes that will not tremble and weep at the mere promise of tomorrow

Or the day after.

Oh,

I have forgotten how to live,

But I was never taught how to die.

I was not raised with an innate,

Inane,

Fear of a god who created me, loved me, knew me and slipped into my sinner’s soul.

I was not taught who to greet at gates beyond this world,

Beyond my own mind and the human gates of my rib cage.

I was not promised a life after mine,

A world after mine,

Salvation after mine.

Yes,

I have forgotten how to live,

But to never know how to die,

To only have her decide and strangle me on terms not mine,

And to bring me to a home I won’t recognize,

Is a far more painful fate.

My life holds no faith,

But at least this misery and this burned film, a mocking documentary,

Is mine,

Of my own destructive volition.

I have ruined any memory of how to live,

But I was never, never taught how to die.

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aquabluexhonda · 19 days

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#scotland #academia #aesthetic #romantizing life #travel #dark academia #academia aesthetic #classic academia #art academia #chaotic academia #dark acadamia aesthetic #light academia #romantic academia #light academia aesthetic #mine

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pastel-charm-14 · 2 months

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how to romanticize your life - a series - post 2 - romanticizing school

soo many people see school as something to avoid, as a chore. but we as individuals have the power to change the way we view school. it's an opportunity for growth, discovery, and personal development. so without further ado: here are a couple tips to help you romanticize school!!

have a positive mindset. in order to study effectively, you need to put aside the negative connotations you have with school and studying and replace them with positive connotations. write out a cons list and then counteract each negative with a positive. for example: con - school is very time consuming | pro - it teaches you time management skills.

create a peaceful and cozy school morning routine. drink some water, watch something funny, use the bathroom, brush your teeth, do your makeup, listen to some nice music, pick out a cute outfit, do your hair, have some matcha.

i also like to say affirmations in the mornings like "i love school" or "i'm amazing at school" to help get me into that positive mindset i was talking about earlier.

make a to-do list. part of romanticizing is not stressing. if you prepare for your day in advance, you can worry less and enjoy more.

really explore your school campus. find all the little nooks and crannys, and don't miss out on anything your school has to offer. for example, i found a little covered picnic table over by the greenhouses at my school that i love to sit at. cute places to study and hang out make school so much more enjoyable.

appreciate being a student. there is so much community and everyone is working toward to common goal to really figure out who they want to be and what they're going to do. it sounds dramatic, but it's true. so i advise you to embrace student life. attend events, plays, games, join clubs, and study with your friends. so go to that football game, participate in spirit days, and enjoy being a student to its fullest potential!

materials are also a huge part of school. you don't have to spend big bucks, but these are some basic things that have helped me:

-cute planners/notebooks, sticky notes -> for goals/organization, writing down something quick, although take physical notes as well!

-books -> gives you something to do, i like romance and educational books

-ipad -> helps with notes/studying, customize it to make it cute, add widgets, and keep in mind that it's all about the vibes

dress to impress. wear cute outfits. treat school as a fashion show. i know dressing up and feeling confident has really enhanced my school experience. some of my favorite things to wear are preppy cardigans, nice jeans, skirts, high knee boots, long sleeve turtlenecks, and just tons of cute tops. layering is very important to me as well. you can also add jewelry to help elevate your style a lil bit.

have a space that you dedicate to only studying. i have a desk in my room that i use, and it has improved my study habits, my grades, and my discipline. it makes studying/schoolwork so much more enjoyable. it always good to keep in mind that your environment impacts tons of other aspects of your life too. make your space your own and personalize it. some potential spots could also be coffee shops or the library, whatever works for you.

make a pinterest board to motivate yourself. this could include study-with-me's, study tips, just general inspiration, or things to do with your main area of study or your major if you're a uni student. this helps you think about "huh, that could be me".

bonus tips:

absorb study content/vlogs

have a good-vibes playlist

in case ya missed the intro post:

stay tuned…

#romanticizing school #romantizing life #romanitcize #romaniticization #romanticise everything #romanticize #romanticism #school #students #study motivation #studyspo #study aesthetic #studying #student #studyblr #pastel dreamer✨

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hallucicated · 6 months

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imliterallyjustagirlsblog · 2 months

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“To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all.” - Oscar Wilde

#dark academia #dark aesthetic #artwork #alternative #bookish #oscar wilde #gothic #dark core gothique #bookworm #introvert #mental health #books #booklr #romance #romantizing life #old aesthetic #quotes #witchblr #romantic academia

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fedyaxz · 2 months

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“I don't really believe in this day but Happy Valentine's, darling”

ft. Jouno x hunting dogs! Reader

Prompt: Never did you expect a “happy valentine's” from someone, but never in a million years did you expect it to come from your so-called ‘friend’

a/n: This prompt actually came from what my "friend" (crushiee) told me on valentine's day. This is just a short fic probably a drabble.

The 14th of February was the day you hated whatever you and Jouno had gong on. As you went to work and passed a small park, you could see couples having a picnic, one man even proposed and she said yes, heart decorations, roses and flowers are seen everywhere you go, at the train, most people were holding flowers and heart-shaped chocolate; it was an eyesore. Upon arriving at work, you thought it couldn't get any worse but never could you have been more wrong...

"What a great pair you and Tachihara are... One's absent for a date and the other one's late" Jouno tched as he passed by, his voice laced with annoyance.

"Piss off." you said slamming your bag on your desk, and sitting down.

He raised en eyebrow wanting to respond to your remark but he decided to let it go, something he rarely does.

Hours passed like minutes, and nothing relevant had happened during lunch —only more paperwork to do mainly because of your stupid partner who had gone to a date— so you continued to work until late night. Your co-workers started to leave one by one until it was only you left alone in the office, or that was what you thought.

The lonely sound of the ticking clock annoyed you, especially since it echoed through the office. Finally deciding to take a quick rest, you took your coffee mug and went to refill it in the kitchen. As you were about to leave, only then did you notice Jouno who was leaning on the door frame for God knows how long.

"How's your valentine's been darling?" his voice coated with amusement.

A soft sigh escaped your lips before speaking up, "bad, worse even" you set down your mug on the table, noticing how late it was... Afterwards was silence, you could only wait for Jouno to break it.

"What time is it?" He stopped leaning against the door frame, taking quiet steps toward you.

"23:46" you replied with a mutter, noticing how he leaned against the counter, pining and looming over your figure.

The two of you stayed like that for a while, he then brought his lips to your cheek, almost to your lips, and he kissed you. You felt yourself wanting to melt in his embrace, and savour this very moment. His lips parted from your lips and whispered in your ear, “I don't really believe in this day but Happy Valentine's darling”.

You rested your head on his shoulder, and mumbled "Happy Valentine's day, love"

"It's quite late now, do you want me to drive you home?" he asked, pulling you closer by your waist.

"You go first, I still have some paperwork to finish" you leaned on his chest for a bit, seeking the warmth he always offers you.

It took him a few minutes before muttering a quiet "okay" in response, before going to his office, saying he had to get some things. Later on, you went back to your office and did more of the paperwork you were assigned to. Before you knew it, your eyes fluttered shut and you were sleeping.

You wore woken up by the bright sunlight from the windows, in the warm embrace of an overcoat with the most familiar scent. Sitting up, you are surprised to find a bouquet of your favorite flowers on your side with a small handwritten note attached to it: “I apologize for being late, I will always love you darling– Saigiku”. A gentle smile made it's way to your lips as you inhaled the scent of the beautiful flowers.

#fedyaz. works #fluffruary #bungou stray dogs #bsd x reader #bungo stray dogs #bungou stray dogs x reader #bungo stray dogs x reader #bsd #bsd fanfic #bsd fluff #jouno x reader #bsd jouno #jouno saigiku #x reader #fanfic #fluff #valentines day #romantizing life

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